Why no reverse oral?

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#1
Just a quick question as to why someone would not wish to receive oral from a punter?
Surely this is something you would want?
And by not offering it, does it not scream "I'm not going to be into this at all"?
 
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#3
Interesting. I've not met many people like that in general....

Seriously though, as with everything, surely the best way if you want to stop someone doing something you aren't enjoying, just coach them/suggest things?
And if you don't want to risk meeting a three-armed, beaver teeth pillock, then do something else!
 
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Just a quick question as to why someone would not wish to receive oral from a punter?
Surely this is something you would want?
And by not offering it, does it not scream "I'm not going to be into this at all"?
Not clear why its necessarily something a WG wants, as a punter I go on what services she offers rather than wants. If its not on offer then I wouldn't usually book such a WG in the first place.
 
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#6
I prefer giving to receiving. I do offer RO but I can understand that it isn't everyone's cup of tea and I prefer penetrative sex to receiving oral.
Can I ask Jessica, why wouldn't someone enjoy it though. I can't imagine a man saying that they just don't enjoy a BJ!
I can understand having a preference. Or is it simply that the thought of a stranger down there makes you worried in some way?
 
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#7
Not clear why its necessarily something a WG wants, as a punter I go on what services she offers rather than wants. If its not on offer then I wouldn't usually book such a WG in the first place.
Agreed Smiths, I have just cancelled a punt because she doesn't offer it. When I first contacted her, I didn't even think about checking, I just assumed they'd be fine with that!
 
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#8
I agree with Jessica, penetrative sex is better, so I for one can imagine not enjoying a BJ. Variety is key though, so BJ and RO are often necessary to mix it up a bit.

Of course there are other ways ;)
 
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Can I ask Jessica, why wouldn't someone enjoy it though. I can't imagine a man saying that they just don't enjoy a BJ!
I can understand having a preference. Or is it simply that the thought of a stranger down there makes you worried in some way?
It isn't that I don't enjoy it, it's that other things do more for me. The same way you all seem very keen to give oral, I feel about sucking cock! I'd just rather give pleasure than receive it. It's the way I'm wired. Doesn't stop me from having a great time when someone wants to pleasure me, but when they ask what I want, it's usually to be filled with cock, not a tongue...
 
#11
Also I have an over sensitive clitoris and too much stimulation of it can almost be a bad thing! I need a break from time to time. I had to stop seeing a client because all he wanted was 3+h at a time of RO and I just couldn't handle that much oral - it turned my legs to jelly!
 
#12
I couldn`t care less about a blow job. Like Jessica, I prefer the penetrative sex every time, and as soon as I`vw got a girl `warmed up` I can`t wait to get stuck in, although once I`m there I like to make it last as long as possible.
 
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#13
Ok, I'm not into going mad over RO, or any specific one act, I like a bot of variety, as Marcus said.

My question was about it being strange to actively dislike it!
 
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#14
Girls, Guys who give oral do it because they like it and it is part of the whole process of getting in the zone. The same as kissing, I could not perform if there was no kissing and interaction with the girl. My first punt was with a girl who did not kiss, no wonder I was fucking useless when I tried to fuck her, could have been a blow up doll I was trying to fuck.
I have yet to meet with a girl and not performed oral on her (and had a crafty finger in her ass) :P

Raddy
 
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Ok, I'm not into going mad over RO, or any specific one act, I like a bot of variety, as Marcus said.

My question was about it being strange to actively dislike it!
I don't dislike it, but a lot of men are very bad at it... Also some WGs may have partners and keep some things back for their personal lives.
 
#16
Girls, Guys who give oral do it because they like it and it is part of the whole process of getting in the zone. The same as kissing, I could not perform if there was no kissing and interaction with the girl. My first punt was with a girl who did not kiss, no wonder I was fucking useless when I tried to fuck her, could have been a blow up doll I was trying to fuck.
I have yet to meet with a girl and not performed oral on her (and had a crafty finger in her ass) :P

Raddy
That's the way to do it! As I said on the how to give a woman oral thread, fingers are your friend! It's like two sex acts in one! :D
 
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Girls, Guys who give oral do it because they like it and it is part of the whole process of getting in the zone. The same as kissing, I could not perform if there was no kissing and interaction with the girl. My first punt was with a girl who did not kiss, no wonder I was fucking useless when I tried to fuck her, could have been a blow up doll I was trying to fuck.
I have yet to meet with a girl and not performed oral on her (and had a crafty finger in her ass) :P

Raddy
Raddy, having ready this, and some of the other posts on here and UKP, I have come to the conclusion that you are my sort of guy!
 
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#18
Some girls just don't like it at all. Some find it too personal and some probably think it leaves them to vulnerable. I know quite a few women who wont even do it in their private life as they feel too laid open. If a girl doesn't like it surely it better she doesn't offer it rather than offer it and not only hate every moment but also feel uncomfortable.
 
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Some girls just don't like it at all. Some find it too personal and some probably think it leaves them to vulnerable. I know quite a few women who wont even do it in their private life as they feel too laid open. If a girl doesn't like it surely it better she doesn't offer it rather than offer it and not only hate every moment but also feel uncomfortable.
I guess just because I don't understand it doesn't mean it is completely weird. Just need to make sure they are up for it beforehand, be more careful.
Like it has been said here before, my musts are kissing (not necessarily DFK), OWO & RO before the greatest love of all!
 
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Its the best part of it! Never say no to a good lick :D

I once had a 3 hour with a guy who didn't like giving oral :( it was not fun, I was very frustrated by the end....
 
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Agreed Smiths, I have just cancelled a punt because she doesn't offer it. When I first contacted her, I didn't even think about checking, I just assumed they'd be fine with that!
Never assume anything in punting is my advice, always seek confirmation that what you require IS definitely on offer.
 
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Never assume anything in punting is my advice, always seek confirmation that what you require IS definitely on offer.
Indeed Smiths, that's why I've cancelled it! But I will definitely be more careful going forward. No fun for anyone otherwise.
 
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I do think AW should have it listed in the likes list. I also don't think it should be called a likes list and should be called an offers list as many women when they first sign up don't realise it means what they will offer but just what they like and we don't always offer everything we like in our private lives. I have found those that speak English as a second language find this quite confusing to start with
 
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I do think AW should have it listed in the likes list. I also don't think it should be called a likes list and should be called an offers list as many women when they first sign up don't realise it means what they will offer but just what they like and we don't always offer everything we like in our private lives. I have found those that speak English as a second language find this quite confusing to start with
Perhaps have a slightly more set of lists. One for "Likes", one for "Offers", one "Dislikes"
 
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#32
That's the way to do it! As I said on the how to give a woman oral thread, fingers are your friend! It's like two sex acts in one! :D
A small amount of oral then in with 2 fingers crushing your clitoris with my thumb wanking myself furiously with my other hand :thumbsup: - thanks Chloe I know how to do it now:D
 
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#34
Interesting. I've not met many people like that in general....

Seriously though, as with everything, surely the best way if you want to stop someone doing something you aren't enjoying, just coach them/suggest things?
And if you don't want to risk meeting a three-armed, beaver teeth pillock, then do something else!
Its the best part of it! Never say no to a good lick :D

I once had a 3 hour with a guy who didn't like giving oral :( it was not fun, I was very frustrated by the end....
I absolutely love RO and the ones that love it go to the top of my list:P. That is not to say I won't see a girl who doesn't but it really makes it for me when combined with everything else. Also it is the girls very vulnerability that makes it so exciting. It indicates a level of trust and a real turn on.:hi:
 
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#37
sometimes i get no reverse oral on an escort is because she is on her period- they tell me some girls are on period all the time and need to take tablets etc- i've seen it.
 
#40
not the least bit interested in RO, like Jessica I would rather be fucked, if a guy wants to make me cum i have other places I loved being touched that will do that & I find way more erotic
 
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It isn't that I don't enjoy it, it's that other things do more for me. The same way you all seem very keen to give oral, I feel about sucking cock! I'd just rather give pleasure than receive it. It's the way I'm wired. Doesn't stop me from having a great time when someone wants to pleasure me, but when they ask what I want, it's usually to be filled with cock, not a tongue...
Wish AW would seperate likes from willings.
I can understand where Jessica's coming from, unfortunately it's because if I could only pick one it would be to give rather than receive, an afternoon with a lady enthusiastically riding my face is one well spent
 
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#48
I very much enjoy giving RO and when I started punting I was a little deluded in thinking every girl must love me giving it to her. It took a while but it started to dawn on me that not everyone of them actually wanted it. It all came down to body language, I noticed some girls would invitingly open their legs and lift their pussy to fully expose it where as on occasion others seemed more guarded and not so inviting. They were probably thinking another one who thinks he's got a magic orgasmic tongue. I now ask if they would like it. Most usually do but sometimes they do say they'd rather not. I have noticed those that would rather not have RO on the whole seem to very much enjoy penetrative sex.
 
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