When Receiving Oral If A Punter Stops Too Soon Would You Ask Him To Finish Off The Job Properly?

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johnnyboy61

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I've noticed that quite a few ladies seem to have a double-peak when I'm giving them oral, with a preliminary slightly smaller climax followed by a biggy about a minute or two later, whilst others just have the one single climax and need time to rest and can't take any further stimulation for a bit. Previously I might have stopped at the first climax as it is easy to think that the first smaller one is the end, but now I carry on through unless it is really obvious that she doesn't want me to continue. If you are in that situation do you just accept the punter has finished even though you know full completion and satisfaction for you is just around the corner, or do you just accept that he is the paying customer and move on?
 
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Hate it when I'm so close and they stop! Don't say anything though as I think it'd be a bit rude, he's paying not me
That's a commendable professional attitude and perhaps the safest route if you are with an unfamiliar client or someone who you know has ego issues which could come into play if you did or said anything that could be perceived as a criticism of their sexual prowess.

In reality I would hope that most punters , even though they are the ones paying , would prefer you were open with them and would be glad to carry on a little longer for the pleasure of giving you a real orgasm.I would be flattered by the honesty and knowledge that you were genuinely getting some enjoyment from the session, and it would massively up the bookings feel of intimacy.Unfortunately , people are not mind readers so there is the risk of doing the wrong thing.

For my part I hope that I have no ego issues as regards sex ; either in terms of considering myself a great lover or having insecurities about my masculinity or acceptability.I would neither get in a stroppy huff about it , or start to cry.
I consider myself a bit of a sexual incompetent and am fine with this.I sometimes mention this in bookings and let the escorts know I am fine with being given some direction.One of my best lines is something like ' In the highly unlikely event I get you anywhere near to orgasm and then stop , please feel free to finish yourself off however you so choose ' ; I doubt that it would make the cut for many porn movies but I could imagine it being used in a Rom Com !
 
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Personally I can't tolerate guys keep going after I've come and I nearly kicked someone who was persistent recently trying to quickly get him off me (you know who you are lol)

But I can understand the dilemma if girls are so varied... maybe look for a subtle signal? If she pulls back stop, if she raises her hips keep going?
 
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Hate it when I'm so close and they stop! Don't say anything though as I think it'd be a bit rude, he's paying not me
Well for the record, if I ever have the pleasure of your company for god's sake just keep my bloody head there!! :D I love the idea of making a woman cum like that but I always assume that my technique is so bad that it would take all night so I eventually stop and move onto something else. It would be such a turn on if I knew a woman was enjoying my efforts enough to want me to keep going. I would be happy to take any amount of guidance too if it meant her having an orgasm (with the added bonus of almost certainly making 'little Hank' ready for action again :yahoo:)
 
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If it was me giving the oral I would rather the girl told me to keep going or if I was doing it wrong,to guide me as to how they like it.I like the girl to enjoy all sexual activities as much as I do ;):):thumbsup:
Absolutely, I love making the girl cum; means she's enjoying it and I'm doing something right :yahoo:
 
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Personally I can't tolerate guys keep going after I've come and I nearly kicked someone who was persistent recently trying to quickly get him off me (you know who you are lol)

But I can understand the dilemma if girls are so varied... maybe look for a subtle signal? If she pulls back stop, if she raises her hips keep going?
Just push them gently away whilst smiling and say something like ' That was lovely , but I'm very sensitive just after orgasm . ' It would be hard for them to complain about that.I had that happen once , I suspect it was actually because I was so bad , but I was still well pleased just on the off chance that it was true.
 
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Hate it when I'm so close and they stop! Don't say anything though as I think it'd be a bit rude, he's paying not me
I suppose there's a world of difference between a new client and a regular.

I think most of us, if we didn't know you would prefer you to be honest and get the maximum enjoyment out of it that you could.

I would hope that regulars would know you well enough to know what you like.

Guess it can be difficult to know what's best though.

I hope the comments on here help.
 
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Just push them gently away whilst smiling and say something like ' That was lovely , but I'm very sensitive just after orgasm . ' It would be hard for them to complain about that.I had that happen once , I suspect it was actually because I was so bad , but I was still well pleased just on the off chance that it was true.
I tried but he didn't budge, hence the nearly kicking him lol
 
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I don't think ladies have any clue how varied this is. Goes all the way from Cum once and supersensitive, cum once and not sensitive, cum several times then become sensitive, cum several times and not sensitive, finally cum almost continuously through the whole session. Then there is cum in a few minutes to over ten minutes or longer. Recovery time varies as well.

Its as bad as the guys with their one pop, two pop, six pops.

Only thing to do is ask at the beginning. I have this down to a fine art now.

Simples.:cool:
 
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I love to make a woman cum and hopefully pick up on the signs when enough is enough!

Get as much pleasure from a meet knowing the WG has cum as when I do.
 
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I don't think ladies have any clue how varied this is. Goes all the way from Cum once and supersensitive, cum once and not sensitive, cum several times then become sensitive, cum several times and not sensitive, finally cum almost continuously through the whole session. Then there is cum in a few minutes to over ten minutes or longer. Recovery time varies as well.

Its as bad as the guys with their one pop, two pop, six pops.

Only thing to do is ask at the beginning. I have this down to a fine art now.

Simples.:cool:
Using direct clitoral stimulation (perhaps with a little finger G-spot work too) I haven't come across a multi-orgasmic girl very often as I think for most this sort of climax is just too intense, but certainly the double-whammy does seem to be comparatively common and it would be a shame to miss that second bigger climax that is just around the corner, but as you say there are probably a greater variety of women's orgasms than most girls actually realise. I would hate to have stopped too soon, but equally wouldn't want to carry on through that ultra-sensitive phase. I would be all too pleased if a woman were to shout out "don't bloody stop now!", or alternatively "for God's sake stop!".
 
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It depends who I am with and how well I know them. For someone I know very well and have a good rapport with I would demand he get back down there as it won't be coming out of his time as with these guys I always let the booking come to a natural end rather than a timed one. With someone I don't know I would probably grab my wand whilst giving him oral as I hate being left hanging
 
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I wouldn't say anything. I'm being paid and if the punter wants to stop and move on then I'll go along with what he wants.
But sometimes this is where the miscommunication takes place. The punter gives up because he thinks the girl isn't that fussed and he doesn't want to embarrass himself in case his technique wasn't very good. Remember guys are very sensitive to such things, the old 'I wish I were a stud' syndrome. It again comes down to communication. If you say to him 'I'm really enjoying that and you are really good, you don't have to stop if you don't want to' You may get a very eager and pleasant response. Not everyone but some ....:drinks:
 
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But sometimes this is where the miscommunication takes place. The punter gives up because he thinks the girl isn't that fussed and he doesn't want to embarrass himself in case his technique wasn't very good. Remember guys are very sensitive to such things, the old 'I wish I were a stud' syndrome. It again comes down to communication. If you say to him 'I'm really enjoying that and you are really good, you don't have to stop if you don't want to' You may get a very eager and pleasant response. Not everyone but some ....:drinks:
That's true I suppose. Maybe I'll try next time, for me it's when they stop just before I cum rather than wanting a second run (I fall into the camp of being quite sensitive immediately afterwards).
 
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That's true I suppose. Maybe I'll try next time, for me it's when they stop just before I cum rather than wanting a second run (I fall into the camp of being quite sensitive immediately afterwards).
Duly noted. Keep going on Orla until completion.

Orla, definitely try it. I had one lady scream, keep going faster faster, I would not have missed her orgasm for anything. But I would never have known if she hadn't have yelled.
 
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Duly noted. Keep going on Orla until completion.

Orla, definitely try it. I had one lady scream, keep going faster faster, I would not have missed her orgasm for anything. But I would never have known if she hadn't have yelled.

Yeah communication is key in any relationship, business or pleasure (or both)

Ooooo I've just realised, Orla is an anagram of oral!!!!
 
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