When a punter disrespects a WG

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When a punter disrespects you be it through a review somewhere or on your AW profile. How does it make YOU feel if your not allowed to respond appropriately?
 
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When a punter disrespects you be it through a review somewhere or on your AW profile. How does it make YOU feel if your not allowed to respond appropriately?
A smart WG accepts the reality of reviews on the internet as long as they are genuine and doesn't lose her rag lashing out at the punter who posted the review, or others that comment, by consistently offering good service to ALL punters hopefully negative reviews will be very few and good reviews will have the upside for the WG of helping her get more punters, which might or might not happen.
 
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If it's something I can change then I wish they had said something in person. If it's about my looks or the way I have difficulty condensing what I want to say then I ignore it. I can't change the way I look and my communication will get worse in the years to come so I just respect their opinion and then forget about it. I don't get upset about something a total stranger may say or think about me as I'm not likely to meet them or have a need to impress them. I am comfortable with myself and really don't mind what some complete stranger may think. After all we all have differing tastes and can never be liked or even fancied by everyone
 
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I can handle criticism as long as it's true and I actually try to fix that. But I do hate when people don't tell me in person or they give a glowing AW feedback or field report and criticises me on UKP. I had one guy doing that and it annoyed me as it wasn't true what he said.
I am honest with people so I expect the same in return.
That's fair enough if it wasn't honest but some punters haven't the confidence of telling WGs to their face what they really think of her or the service he received. One big problem of many with A/W is as many punters have admitted, they wouldn't give a WG negative feedback on their in case she gives negative back which might put other WGs off accepting his business in the future, what use is that thinking to punters, no use at all which is why I don't take any notice of FB on their unless I know, trust and/or respect the punter who has given it, I know from experience it cant be trusted to be true in some cases. Now I am not saying its all made up and dodgy but its not always easy to know what is genuine and what isn't.

A/W is a site run by low lifes with no interest in helping punters or WGs in my opinion, I hope this site will offer a better alternative in the future, as it is A/W is by far the best site for locating WGs I am interested in which is why I still use it, though hell will freeze over before I would pay one penny in credits directly into their coffers.
 
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That's fair enough if it wasn't honest but some punters haven't the confidence of telling WGs to their face what they really think of her or the service he received. One big problem of many with A/W is as many punters have admitted, they wouldn't give a WG negative feedback on their in case she gives negative back which might put other WGs off accepting his business in the future, what use is that thinking to punters, no use at all which is why I don't take any notice of FB on their unless I know, trust and/or respect the punter who has given it, I know from experience it cant be trusted to be true in some cases. Now I am not saying its all made up and dodgy but its not always easy to know what is genuine and what isn't.

A/W is a site run by low lifes with no interest in helping punters or WGs in my opinion, I hope this site will offer a better alternative in the future, as it is A/W is by far the best site for locating WGs I am interested in which is why I still use it, though hell will freeze over before I would pay one penny in credits directly into their coffers.
No publicity is bad publicity.
The guy gave me a positive even on UKP but said things that weren't true. That's what is bothering me. Say something to my face as it's easier and I won't hold grudge against you. I like it that way.
 

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When a punter disrespects you be it through a review somewhere or on your AW profile. How does it make YOU feel if your not allowed to respond appropriately?
A girl ranting on a forum about how she's been disrespected by some aspect of an honest review is a complete turn-off for other potential customers...wise girls avoid public wrangling and just concentrate on offering good service to every customer, hoping that he will return if he gets good service.
 
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No publicity is bad publicity.
The guy gave me a positive even on UKP but said things that weren't true. That's what is bothering me. Say something to my face as it's easier and I won't hold grudge against you. I like it that way.
Easier for you but maybe not for the punter. I recall trying to discuss a WGs bad service in person and I thought she was going to get violent, she was raging with anger shouting and screaming as I made a VERY swift exit. That shit isn't worth the hassle to me, I will post on a punting forum instead, in addition I WANT other punters to be aware of what I experienced as well, for ME this is a very important aspect.

Having punted with many many hundreds of WGs over more than 30 years I have fortunately had many more good punts than bad, if I hadn't I would of long ago stopped punting.
 
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Okay getting back on track to the OP question

It depends for me personally on what the review says.

If it's truthful or I forgot an important aspect of the arrangement then that's fair enough but I would question how important that part of the booking really was if the guy didn't remind me at the time.

If it's unjust then I read it, allow myself to get pissed off about it then forget about it. Reviews tend to come up pretty soon after the booking so you can usually have a vague to definate clue as to which appointment it was even if they have not already let you know they it's from them

If I can leave feedback I leave honest feedback. Why stoop to a dishonest persons level. I've got a couple of fabulous strap line feedbacks on aw but I never met the guy so I left honest reciprocal feedback

Guys can go on about how they think girls should and shouldn't react to bad reviews but you are not and never will be in that escorts position so you just can't understand how it feels. I guess reading a female only forum gives you the closest idea and I've not seen many non ranty reactions from guys after reading that forum for the first time. The only fair way to do it is for the escort to have the right to reply because half the time it goes wrong it's not our fault. In a situation of two halves it takes both sides to be successful.

Punters have brains, they have eyes, they the good, read the bad and then make up their own minds. If they decide they don't want to risk it then yes I feel it's a shame but nothing I can do about that so no point worrying, I live in a constant state of PMA And it's got me through far worse things than a bad review
 
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Guys can go on about how they think girls should and shouldn't react to bad reviews but you are not and never will be in that escorts position so you just can't understand how it feels. I guess reading a female only forum gives you the closest idea and I've not seen many non ranty reactions from guys after reading that forum for the first time. The only fair way to do it is for the escort to have the right to reply because half the time it goes wrong it's not our fault. In a situation of two halves it takes both sides to be successful.
I'm sure it isn't always nice to read stark truths about yourself in a review...I don't think I would particularly enjoy reading a review of my performance ( before you say it...'overweight, greying, middle-aged bloke who clumsily ate me out then hopped on for a ride, but I didn't feel anything, totally forgettable' :D ), but it goes with the territory of being a WG, she is the one trying to sell her looks/service package and hoping to attract potential customers who are making comparisons to other offerings. We are equals, but it is the punter that chooses the WG, not the other way around.

She does need to understand that she has a shop window that she is displaying to her potential customers...you can't please all the people all the time...but any public recriminations to bad reviews are going to look ugly in her window, particularly if she gets all shouty..and a lot of customers will probably elect to pass her by...they do not want that kind of hassle.
 
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I'm sure it isn't always nice to read stark truths about yourself in a review...I don't think I would particularly enjoy reading a review of my performance ( before you say it...'overweight, greying, middle-aged bloke who clumsily ate me out then hopped on for a ride, but I didn't feel anything, totally forgettable' :D ), but it goes with the territory of being a WG, she is the one trying to sell her looks/service package and hoping to attract potential customers who are making comparisons to other offerings. We are equals, but it is the punter that chooses the WG, not the other way around.

She does need to understand that she has a shop window that she is displaying to her potential customers...you can't please all the people all the time...but any public recriminations to bad reviews are going to look ugly in her window, particularly if she gets all shouty..and a lot of customers will probably elect to pass her by...they do not want that kind of hassle.
Oh I dont mind reading stark truths...its the fantastical bullshit that is annoying though because whereas most punters read all over the internet and make their own minds up about someone based on whats written about the everywhere, there is a tiny minority who sheepishly believe someone and assume that it its written it true...but hey, what can you do. Move on, plenty of fish in the sea for all of us in this business

Shouty, well, I guess when you read lies about yourself you feel indignant, its a natural human respose.

For example..Im still trying to work out which lifetime exactly I maided at a certain london parlour and owned a fishnet bodystocking because niether have happened in this lifetime yet they have been stated and taken as fact :wacko:

Anyway, moving on. I do agree its in a girls best interests to not get pissed before she puts in a rebuttal, I do think that has happened occasionally over the years from reading some of them but to some men even a well written and perfectly logical response is seen as being all shouty so really sometimes we just cant win :dash:

(always wanted to use that one )

Sometimes its just better to agree to disagree
 
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It'll be OK to mention your true age then?!? ;)
now why are you trying to drag up an old argument thats already been covered on two separate forums? Have I not been perfectly polite to you so far? Silly me thinking that everyone would see this site as a place of coming together
 
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As long as the lady has not misrepresented herself in a big way such as making out she's early thirties when in fact she's pushing fifty or claiming to be a size 10 when she's a 16 I will not leave a bad review. Same with services that are advertised but refused.
If the meeting just didn't do it for me I will just not repeat.
It was probably as much down to me as the lady so I would never leave a disrespectful review or feedback.
 
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As long as the lady has not misrepresented herself in a big way such as making out she's early thirties when in fact she's pushing fifty or claiming to be a size 10 when she's a 16 I will not leave a bad review. Same with services that are advertised but refused.
If the meeting just didn't do it for me I will just not repeat.
It was probably as much down to me as the lady so I would never leave a disrespectful review or feedback.
Whereas I have a zero tolerance policy nowadays and a negative review will be the outcome if I am fucked about in any way or simply didn't rate the WGs service.
 
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Disrespect is usually something I only experience in person, or during communications.

I'd prefer someone to discuss any issues with me at a time when I could resolve matters, rather sitting their unhappy then flinging things afterwards.

It's also always interesting to read that I'm a different height, or something else I know to be incorrect, but there hasn't been too much of that over the years.
 
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Really, as already mentioned by a few OP i mean as long as I know i'm doing my best then that's all that matters, I get we won't all be every ones cup of tea and that's the beauty we have variety in this world. I've never felt disrespected by a client to my face or online. Sure things get written on AW or UKP but we all have an opinion right. I can see both sides of the argument and after a few comments decided to up my enthusiasm which is key to a good outcome, win win.
 
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I think UKP is invaluable in providing the true insight into a punt. Now I am not saying it's bullshit free far from it but opposed to AW reports or other forums it's superior in every way. Yes some prossies will get upset over negative reviews but they should take them as constructive criticism and up their game. Joining UKP to rant or blubber will only get them banned as is often the case.
The reports, in my opinion, are not disrespectful maybe the response when the challenge it can be on occasion but that's why I don't think UKP will ever be for prossies whereas this site can be.
 
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As long as the lady has not misrepresented herself in a big way such as making out she's early thirties when in fact she's pushing fifty or claiming to be a size 10 when she's a 16 I will not leave a bad review. Same with services that are advertised but refused.
If the meeting just didn't do it for me I will just not repeat.
It was probably as much down to me as the lady so I would never leave a disrespectful review or feedback.
I'm trying to be nice and considerate on this new forum but its difficult for me not to see this as completely moronic. If you've paid £100+ for a service (a small fortune for most of us I'm sure) and it didn't leave you completely satisfied why on earth wouldn't you leave a negative (or at the very least neutral) review? If not for yourself then maybe the benefit of other punters. I'm referring by the way to a review on an independent site like ukpunting NOT Adultwork where you can be identified. On adultwork the WG no doubt will respond with her own negative.
'Clicking' or getting on with a WG is something, if they are good at their job, the WG can HEAVILY influence. Stand up for yourself. No need to blame yourself for having a shit punt. Talk about low confidence. Next time I have a shit punt I'm going to be thinking of punters like you that blame yourselves whenever you have a meeting 'that just didn't do it for you' and then proceed not to leave a review.

Also, a negative (or neutral review) isn't the same thing as a disrespectful review.
 
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Thanks to honest and frank reviews on ukp I have not had a negative punt in a long time. I did ask one wg how she felt about being reviewed on ukp and her response was "as long as you are honest".

I don't think any human likes to read criticism about themselves and I'm sure many wgs are genuinely disappointed by some comments, even on a positive review, but some have lost the plot over what most men see as a minor, insignificant observation.

Those who give poor service, usually know they are giving poor service and that is where ukp is worth its weight in gold and then I have no sympathy for the wg's feelings.
 
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Thanks to honest and frank reviews on ukp I have not had a negative punt in a long time. I did ask one wg how she felt about being reviewed on ukp and her response was "as long as you are honest".

I don't think any human likes to read criticism about themselves and I'm sure many wgs are genuinely disappointed by some comments, even on a positive review, but some have lost the plot over what most men see as a minor, insignificant observation.

Those who give poor service, usually know they are giving poor service and that is where ukp is worth its weight in gold and then I have no sympathy for the wg's feelings.
If you have ever had an escort who you KNOW offers OWO put a condom on before sucking your willy then I guess thats the closest a client can get to knowing how it feels when a girl gets a bad review. Not a nice feeling. I guess knowing that all the other girls dont put a condom on you for it makes it doubly hurtful which is akin to when we get a review with untrue comments in them. Phoning a girl you previously saw and being told that she doesnt want to see you again I guess is the closest a guy can come to knowing how it feels to get a big fat red negative or no on a review. Cant really think of another analogy that would work
 
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Thanks to honest and frank reviews on ukp I have not had a negative punt in a long time. I did ask one wg how she felt about being reviewed on ukp and her response was "as long as you are honest".

I don't think any human likes to read criticism about themselves and I'm sure many wgs are genuinely disappointed by some comments, even on a positive review, but some have lost the plot over what most men see as a minor, insignificant observation.

Those who give poor service, usually know they are giving poor service and that is where ukp is worth its weight in gold and then I have no sympathy for the wg's feelings.
Since UKP was established I think many punters have had second thoughts about meeting certain WGs the honest and frank reviews and follow up comments are invaluable. Yes many WGs despise the fact that they can't come back and comment on there and those that do join up end up getting banned :sarcastic:

Other forums are a waste of space as the WGs moderate or certainly influence what is or isn't allowed :dash:

Any reports on here (other than from trusted and known members of UKP) I will exercise caution over :hi:
 

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If you have ever had an escort who you KNOW offers OWO put a condom on before sucking your willy then I guess thats the closest a client can get to knowing how it feels when a girl gets a bad review. Not a nice feeling. I guess knowing that all the other girls dont put a condom on you for it makes it doubly hurtful which is akin to when we get a review with untrue comments in them. Phoning a girl you previously saw and being told that she doesnt want to see you again I guess is the closest a guy can come to knowing how it feels to get a big fat red negative or no on a review. Cant really think of another analogy that would work
My advice in any of those situations is get over it...there are plenty more fish in the sea! :)

Who knows if a negative is deserved or not...it will be his word against hers...but just looking at the stats for last month on UKP...

674 positive reviews
126 neutral reviews
192 negative reviews

...I'd say that isn't bad...the majority of prossies are on the whole doing a good job...and the reviewers over there aren't being unnecessarily harsh, after all the main criterion for positive/negative are the questions 'would you return?' and 'would you recommend to other punters?', which are quite high thresholds to reach.
 
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My advice in any of those situations is get over it...there are plenty more fish in the sea! :)

Who knows if a negative is deserved or not...it will be his word against hers...but just looking at the stats for last month on UKP...

674 positive reviews
126 neutral reviews
192 negative reviews

...I'd say that isn't bad...the majority of prossies are on the whole doing a good job...and the reviewers over there aren't being unnecessarily harsh, after all the main criterion for positive/negative are the questions 'would you return?' and 'would you recommend to other punters?', which are quite high thresholds to reach.
Im not arguing for or against them. I just gave a comparison for the guys who wonder why some girls get so upset.

For example. Guy arrives at girls door, she opens it and says "HELL NO!!" , some guys will turn tale and just leave quietly, accepting that she didnt like him for some reason, some will rant and rage about it, go on a forum and whittle on to anyone who will listen. You guys are not the only humans on the forums, we are human too and thus we often display human emotions and reactions.

Yes we should just get over it if we get a bad review, we have to, cant let it ruin your mental health, but if you give a bad review and it illicits an extreme reaction then you knew there was a possibility of that reaction as you were writing it, no point whinging and moaning about girls whinging and moaning is there lol, what then, the girl whinging and moaning about the guy whinging and moaning about the girl whinging and moaning about the guy blah blah blah and it turns into an endless circle.

Some guys will say "i will not see a girl who moans about a bad review" others will secretly think "i like a woman who can speak up for herself", its all swings and roundabouts and yes, there are plenty of fish in the sea on both sides

Guy gives bad review, girl has a moan too, end of...just take your own advice and get over it and move on too.
 
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Respect both ways should be the position , bad review needs to be read in context, Correct me if I am wrong this new forum is here to post both sides
of the story. I treat all WGs with respect and 80% have returned that respect ,better the punt the more respect there is.

My punts average 3 hours to overnight to 4 days away together , so there is no way my punts would work without respect and a good level of trust.

Its not date and its not a romance however 2 people or 3 having fun for mutual reward
 
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Respect both ways should be the position , bad review needs to be read in context, Correct me if I am wrong this new forum is here to post both sides
of the story. I treat all WGs with respect and 80% have returned that respect ,better the punt the more respect there is.

My punts average 3 hours to overnight to 4 days away together , so there is no way my punts would work without respect and a good level of trust.

Its not date and its not a romance however 2 people or 3 having fun for mutual reward
Mutual respect should be a given when entering into a booking. I treat all my guys with respect and even when some of them are disrespectful I try to think that perhaps Im just taking something the wrong way rather than jump down their throats. Blatent disrespect by either side towards the other one is not acceptable. Its one thing saying that you found a girl highly unnattractive to you personally, its another saying something such as "what a complete munter smacked with an ugly stick full of nails" :lol:. You can say the same thing in a different way and convey the same obvious meaning.
 
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When I say "you" im not aiming it at any particular person i just mean "you, the online puntership". Dont anyone take those comments as personally directed at them please x
 
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Respect both ways should be the position , bad review needs to be read in context, Correct me if I am wrong this new forum is here to post both sides
of the story. I treat all WGs with respect and 80% have returned that respect ,better the punt the more respect there is.

My punts average 3 hours to overnight to 4 days away together , so there is no way my punts would work without respect and a good level of trust.

Its not date and its not a romance however 2 people or 3 having fun for mutual reward
You are right, UKE is here for WGs and punters to post their views, it ISNT UKP, Admin couldn't of been clearer about that, on here WGs can advertise/tout and punters can cheerlead and both can flirt.

On the question of respect I always respect a WG who offers me a good service but I despise those that don't and I will post what I please about such WGs within the rules. What I don't do is carry over another WGs bad service to a new WG, they ALL get a clean slate from me, I go on the individual finding sweeping generalisations wrong usually.
 
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For example. Guy arrives at girls door, she opens it and says "HELL NO!!" , some guys will turn tale and just leave quietly, accepting that she didnt like him for some reason, some will rant and rage about it, go on a forum and whittle on to anyone who will listen. You guys are not the only humans on the forums, we are human too and thus we often display human emotions and reactions.
I just want to say on this, if I made a booking with a girl. And turned up to her door. And she suddenly took one look at at me and said "hell no" and then either slammed the door shut in my face. Or told me to turn around and go away. Then all I can say is, to blimmin right am I going straight onto a forum to complain about that type of unprofessional attitude as that is disgraceful.

Imaging if this was in reverse and a punter booked a girl for an outcall. She got all dolled up, paid for a taxi to the guys place and he opened the door and said "my god you are a minger, go away" And then slammed the door in her face. Do you think the girl should just chalk it up to an experience and go off home? Nope she would an should go onto Saafe and complain about this guy being an immense timewaster and impolite jerk quite frankly.
 
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I just want to say on this, if I made a booking with a girl. And turned up to her door. And she suddenly took one look at at me and said "hell no" and then either slammed the door shut in my face. Or told me to turn around and go away. Then all I can say is, to blimmin right am I going straight onto a forum to complain about that type of unprofessional attitude as that is disgraceful.

Imaging if this was in reverse and a punter booked a girl for an outcall. She got all dolled up, paid for a taxi to the guys place and he opened the door and said "my god you are a minger, go away" And then slammed the door in her face. Do you think the girl should just chalk it up to an experience and go off home? Nope she would an should go onto Saafe and complain about this guy being an immense timewaster and impolite jerk quite frankly.

What I should have said was if you went to see a girl you had already seen in the past who didnt want to see you again but for arguments sake you had a different number...better. I was just trying to give a punters comparison to explain how it feels when you do your best in a booking and then the guy goes and screams HELL NO all over the internet. You see, a negative is a hell no when thinks are not exactly described as actually they happened, its no wonder some girls go onto sites and rebutt the review.

Not all girls post on saafe by the way, just as not all guys post online, a lot of girls WOULD just be dejected and leave without causing a fuss afterwards
 
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The point is a review is just that one persons opinion. Would I be upset over a negative. Bloody right I would. Would anyone know I was upset? Not a chance unless it was something about my behaviour or service in which case I would take note and if after reflection I felt it true I would apologise profusely and offer some sort reparation and try to ensure it did not happen again. If I didn't feel it was true I would not post on the thread I would just leave it as that persons view and opinion and perhaps they view it differently to me. I feel that posting angry comments on any forum just makes the poster look bad. You can refute the claims in a calm way if you feel you need to and just state that you didn't view it that way and perhaps you both hold a different opinion to what occurred. No one can ever say one persons opinion on what they saw or felt was wrong unless they are writing out and out lies about services which again can be refuted calmly. Never post when upset. Walk away and leave it until calm and then post if you still feel the need. Maybe I am too laid back but I don't see the point of ranting online. It's far better to either forget it or post when calm. This isn't aimed at anyone just something I have come to believe after seeing so many on UKP go berserk and then start throwing the old "you are all sad ******* as have to pay for sex blah blah"
 
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I just want to say on this, if I made a booking with a girl. And turned up to her door. And she suddenly took one look at at me and said "hell no" and then either slammed the door shut in my face. Or told me to turn around and go away. Then all I can say is, to blimmin right am I going straight onto a forum to complain about that type of unprofessional attitude as that is disgraceful.

Imaging if this was in reverse and a punter booked a girl for an outcall. She got all dolled up, paid for a taxi to the guys place and he opened the door and said "my god you are a minger, go away" And then slammed the door in her face. Do you think the girl should just chalk it up to an experience and go off home? Nope she would an should go onto Saafe and complain about this guy being an immense timewaster and impolite jerk quite frankly.
I have a zero tolerance policy nowadays so a negative review WILL be and has been the result if I am fucked about and/or offered a bad service, so once my booking been accepted if the punt doesn't happen due to the WG its a negative.
 
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The point is a review is just that one persons opinion. Would I be upset over a negative. Bloody right I would. Would anyone know I was upset? Not a chance unless it was something about my behaviour or service in which case I would take note and if after reflection I felt it true I would apologise profusely and offer some sort reparation and try to ensure it did not happen again. If I didn't feel it was true I would not post on the thread I would just leave it as that persons view and opinion and perhaps they view it differently to me. I feel that posting angry comments on any forum just makes the poster look bad. You can refute the claims in a calm way if you feel you need to and just state that you didn't view it that way and perhaps you both hold a different opinion to what occurred. No one can ever say one persons opinion on what they saw or felt was wrong unless they are writing out and out lies about services which again can be refuted calmly. Never post when upset. Walk away and leave it until calm and then post if you still feel the need. Maybe I am too laid back but I don't see the point of ranting online. It's far better to either forget it or post when calm. This isn't aimed at anyone just something I have come to believe after seeing so many on UKP go berserk and then start throwing the old "you are all sad ******* as have to pay for sex blah blah"
The point of a review for me is share my opinion of the punt with other punters, once its up its up to punters if they find it in anyway useful or not. If a bad WG who has fucked me about and/or offered me a bad service goes berserk that's up to her, if she hadn't of done that but offered me a good service there wouldn't be a problem.
 
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I would only write a negative review if something terrible happened, got scammed, conned, timing issues and dishonesty (B&S), messing me around, cancellations, timewasting, etc. Some WGs and I hit it off on the first day, some times it is a bit mechanical but I always value enthusiasm. In some cases, I find it hard to loosen up, sometimes I'm a bit reserved, sometimes shy, sometimes, full of life like the energiser bunny. If a genuine effort has been made and I was not pleased with the experience, I would schedule another appointment. However I have very little tolerance for the conveyor belt type of punts common with our friends from Romania and will only see a WG with excellent feedback on UKP from there. I cannot count how many times I have had to walk away from a punt with ladies from that part of Europe. Once my spider sense starts tingling, I leave. I am going through a phase at the moment where I tend to see WGs from 30 and above and it is phenomenal.
 
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Getting back on topic - the OP asked how an escort would react at a) "being disrespected" and b) having no right to reply. It's a pretty provocative statement. Nobody likes to be disrespected, I'm sure we'd all get pissed off at that anyway, but having no comeback will make it worse.

What constitutes disrespect though? Everyone is different. I have seen a punter post a positive, glowing review of an escort, but make one minor constructive criticism and seen the WG have what looked like a complete meltdown over it. The escort felt disrespected, but clearly the punter intended no disrespect. Likewise I've seen a punter post a scathing negative review accusing an escort of contempt for cancelling a booking due to a genuine personal tragedy.

This whole punting business is all about emotions - and very sensitive ones. This is not the same as buying a fitted kitchen and reviewing the plumber on CheckATrade. The escort IS the product, and her services are about as personal as you can get. No wonder she might be a bit sensitive to criticism. When I put myself in the shoes of an escort I have to say I have the utmost respect - she has to treat each guy coming to see them as if he's their boyfriend no matter what - he may be ugly, fat, old, maybe not always as clean as you might hope - and she still has to deliver the same service with a smile as if it were Brad Pitt. As I've said elsewhere as far as I'm concerned escorts perform a vital public service and should be lauded - as they have been in other societies in history - instead they are vilified by most of society which I think is very sad.

Meanwhile the punter has probably spent days if not weeks researching who to see, hotlisting them, filtering by reading reviews, before finally making a booking. For many punters it's even more sensitive as they may be married and have very limited windows of time to operate in and have to do a lot of prep to divert precious funds. I'm sure the risk of discovery makes it even more stressful. And of course for most punters, punting is not cheap so they can ill afford to blow their hard earned cash on a bad punt. So it's no wonder they aren't always in the most objective frame of mind if something goes wrong.

Hopefully this site can help both sides be a bit more understanding of the other's perspective and to encourage mutual respect, because without that respect punting is simply not possible.
 
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