What are those little things that guy's do during bookings, that make them so much more enjoyable?

#14
The ones who offer you money at the beginning rather than making you have to ask, it makes for a more relaxed start I find.

Just being generally friendly, smiling and polite as well.
Yeah I'd be pretty mortified if I had to be asked, it's something I like to get over with once I feel happy with the venue and the girl. If I was asked it'd be a sure bet I was walking anyway.
 
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#16
The ones who offer you money at the beginning rather than making you have to ask, it makes for a more relaxed start I find.

Just being generally friendly, smiling and polite as well.
What??
I can't believe that blokes make you ask - FFS. Thats a bit of a passion killer for a kick off.
Always very first thing I do - even before going for a piss!
I never make a big thing of it neither do most girls I find. Already counted several times - out of the shirt pocket - bobs ur uncle.
It's not like I'm trying to pretend I'm not paying for it, it's just nicer to do it discretely I think.
 
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#17
The ones who offer you money at the beginning rather than making you have to ask, it makes for a more relaxed start I find.

Just being generally friendly, smiling and polite as well.
You must have to deal with some right knuckle draggers.

I usually get complimented on being friendly, polite, smiling etc - cos I am!

It ain't rocket science after all - On time, clean, brushed teeth (inc mouthwash), correct money and you get to fuck a girl who wouldn't give you a second look normally - seems reasonable to me! ;)
 
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~LittleMissOrla~

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What??
I can't believe that blokes make you ask - FFS. Thats a bit of a passion killer for a kick off.
Always very first thing I do - even before going for a piss!
I never make a big thing of it neither do most girls I find. Already counted several times - out of the shirt pocket - bobs ur uncle.
It's not like I'm trying to pretend I'm not paying for it, it's just nicer to do it discretely I think.
It's easier now that I've been doing it a little longer but I felt so awkward in the beginning at having to ask. I guess it might be newer punters who aren't sure because they seem to think the money should be handed over at the end. Extremely risky from our side to do that!
 
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#19
It's easier now that I've been doing it a little longer but I felt so awkward in the beginning at having to ask. I guess it might be newer punters who aren't sure because they seem to think the money should be handed over at the end. Extremely risky from our side to do that!
Any bloke should realise that.
We're completely different animals pre or post punt!!
After I've come I'm more than happy to discuss that colour of the curtains!
 
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#20
It's easier now that I've been doing it a little longer but I felt so awkward in the beginning at having to ask. I guess it might be newer punters who aren't sure because they seem to think the money should be handed over at the end. Extremely risky from our side to do that!
I always like to hand over the fee at the start. I did forget once and only realised when I was getting dressed and saw the envelope sticking out of the back pocket of my trousers. I was mortified but the girl was cool about it thankfully (I had seen her before). I blame you girls though to be honest. If you didn't always look so hot when you open the door we might remember what we are doing! :wacko: As soon as I see a beautiful woman in that situation there is only one thing going through my mind :D
 
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#21
I always hand over as soon as polite to do so and always without being asked, in fact I don't think I have ever been asked. Interestingly one girl thanked me saying she didn't like to ask, but she was pretty new to this.
 
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jonboy

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#22
Only time I've ever been asked for the money was just before Christmas, I'd put it inside a card and when I came out of the shower she asked as she hadn't realised what I'd done, made us both laugh and broke the ice, had a fantastic time too
 
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It's been a bit of an eye opener for me with this more open interaction between WGs and clients. It's surprises me what the idea of fun is for some compared to mine and I'm not being judgemental here. For me it's a mutual thing, I know there's fakery and I'm paying for her full attention but at the end of it I'm there for obviously the sexual reasons but to have a laugh also. I'd like to think that when I walk away she's thinking at least that wasn't too much hard work. By and large I have an enormous amount of fun doing this..... you gotta have a laugh :)
 
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#28
It's been a bit of an eye opener for me with this more open interaction between WGs and clients. It's surprises me what the idea of fun is for some compared to mine and I'm not being judgemental here. For me it's a mutual thing, I know there's fakery and I'm paying for her full attention but at the end of it I'm there for obviously the sexual reasons but to have a laugh also. I'd like to think that when I walk away she's thinking at least that wasn't too much hard work. By and large I have an enormous amount of fun doing this..... you gotta have a laugh :)
My thoughts exactly - if at the end of a punt we both feel we'd be happy to do it again sometime then it's all good as far as I'm concerned.
 
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sense of humour, which they definitely need if they arrive wearing a certain item of clothing

eye contact, I can tell if he is enjoying himself

he likes being touched, as I love to softly caress & smother kisses all over,
 
#32
I like guys who are really complimentary - maybe it's vain of me, but you can be shit in bed but tell me how amazing I am and I can't wait to see you again. Equally, if you are good in bed but near silent I'll be fretting that I was off my game. I think it's nice to be reassured that we are good at what we do! We are human and it is nice to leave feeling good about ourselves. Escorting has done wonders for my self esteem - when I'm feeling low I just remind myself that there are people who not only want to fuck me but are actually willing to pay me for it and then I get a huge grin on my face and a damp patch in my knickers. It may be superficial, but tell me I'm gorgeous and it's the best blowjob of your life and it will only result in a better and possibly extended and repeat service!
 
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#33
I learned it's about how you use all of the body, and using the mind too. I might not be spectacular in the sack but I don't think that's absolutely 100% of what makes a booking memorable.
 
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#34
I like guys who are really complimentary - maybe it's vain of me, but you can be shit in bed but tell me how amazing I am and I can't wait to see you again. Equally, if you are good in bed but near silent I'll be fretting that I was off my game. I think it's nice to be reassured that we are good at what we do! We are human and it is nice to leave feeling good about ourselves. Escorting has done wonders for my self esteem - when I'm feeling low I just remind myself that there are people who not only want to fuck me but are actually willing to pay me for it and then I get a huge grin on my face and a damp patch in my knickers. It may be superficial, but tell me I'm gorgeous and it's the best blowjob of your life and it will only result in a better and possibly extended and repeat service!
That's reassuring to know.
I'm always very complimentary (unless she's a right minger) and girls genuinely seem to like it and appear flattered by it.
And, like the Queen Mother, I never forget to say thank you!
 
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The ones who offer you money at the beginning rather than making you have to ask, it makes for a more relaxed start I find.

Just being generally friendly, smiling and polite as well.
I find it hard to believe some guys don't pay right at the start.
I may take a minute to talk and check she ain't false, but always pay before the action starts.
I do dislike it if the girl counts the money infront of me though. Wait till I've gone to shower or take it to another room as I'm undressing.
 
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#39
Being a good kisser, I'm really not good with dribble :P

Most importantly though, being respectful. It doesn't sound like much but in this job we spend so much time being talked at by strangers like an object. Just treating me like a human being... so not grabbing at my breasts like they aren't attached, starting gently when fingering me, talking to me like any other person etc :)
 
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#40
Being a good kisser, I'm really not good with dribble :P

Most importantly though, being respectful. It doesn't sound like much but in this job we spend so much time being talked at by strangers like an object. Just treating me like a human being... so not grabbing at my breasts like they aren't attached, starting gently when fingering me, talking to me like any other person etc :)
Call me fluffy but I find it difficult to believe why anyone would behave any differently. :unknown: Treat others as you expect to be treated yourself has always been my belief in life and I don't see why it should be any different in punting. In fact if you're about to get intimate with a complete stranger surely a little respect, manners or politeness is more likely to lead to a more enjoyable meet?
 
#42
Call me fluffy but I find it difficult to believe why anyone would behave any differently. :unknown: Treat others as you expect to be treated yourself has always been my belief in life and I don't see why it should be any different in punting. In fact if you're about to get intimate with a complete stranger surely a little respect, manners or politeness is more likely to lead to a more enjoyable meet?
Treat me like a person.

I'll always remember a long-term regular telling me that, one of the things he enjoyed very much was the way in which I treated him as person, it really touched him.
 
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#43
PAY! :yahoo:

Sorry, not a good idea to comment on uke on three pints of doombar at the best pub in Brum. Especially with Bowie singing China Girl. Life is good. :drinks:
 
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#44
Have you got some examples of guys "being weird"? Make us laugh!
Mr Plank, Mr Breakoutinasweatwhentheyseethenurusheet, Mr Shakey, Mr Pretendtheyknowwhatimabouttodoastheyaskedforitthenfreakoutwhentheyrealisetheyreallydidnt, Mr Feelsthebestcourseofactionistobrag
 
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Mr Plank, Mr Breakoutinasweatwhentheyseethenurusheet, Mr Shakey, Mr Pretendtheyknowwhatimabouttodoastheyaskedforitthenfreakoutwhentheyrealisetheyreallydidnt, Mr Feelsthebestcourseofactionistobrag
Mr Dipshit. Couldntarrangeafuckingdatewithaplank.

Sorry..... doombar has this affect on me.
 
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