WG's taking the lead

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as I'm still quite new to this punting lark I like to let this be known and ask to be guided along a bit but from reading the comments from the WG's on here my experiences haven't come anywhere near them... Am I just seeing the wrong girls or should I just need to man up a bit? I think from now on I'm only booking girls who are on this site although i fear I will need to get to the back of the orderly queues that are being formed.
 
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I let them know what I like and always add that I am up for new ideas and give a couple of my own. At the moment I am so enjoying the normal things that time runs out before it gets any raunchier. I have a couple of bucket list items but when I am actually in the booking all thoughts and ideas go out of my head.

Wonder why that is :dash::unknown:
 
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I specialise in new/nervous or inexperienced men so I always tend to lead the booking. I will have found out before they arrive exactly what they are looking for so I know what to do for them and what limits they may have. I enjoy doing this very much especially when I see a nervous inexperienced guy slowly turn into a relaxed man who knows what he is doing. Its a great feeling. I do also enjoy men who take the lead but I don't like those that bark orders or throw me around like a rag doll
 
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It's all me, not knowing what to ask and and fear of offending! I know it's stupid but since being on here it's been a real eye opener and it really is, don't ask don't get! I've now got a booking arranged for this week with a girl on here (see don't even know if I should name them!) and will make sure I ask In advance. Hopefully it won't seem like a tesco's shopping list lol!!
 
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as I'm still quite new to this punting lark I like to let this be known and ask to be guided along a bit but from reading the comments from the WG's on here my experiences haven't come anywhere near them... Am I just seeing the wrong girls or should I just need to man up a bit? I think from now on I'm only booking girls who are on this site although i fear I will need to get to the back of the orderly queues that are being formed.
I was a bit the same (still am a little I guess) but I could send you a recommendation dingo. The second girl I saw realised I was a bit tongue-tied and obviously decided to take matters into her own hands and just fucked my brains out. What a girl :kissgirl: I'm getting a little bit better at saying what I would like now but would still enjoy letting a girl just pin me down and ride me like it was going to be her last ever fuck! :D
 
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as I'm still quite new to this punting lark I like to let this be known and ask to be guided along a bit but from reading the comments from the WG's on here my experiences haven't come anywhere near them... Am I just seeing the wrong girls or should I just need to man up a bit? I think from now on I'm only booking girls who are on this site although i fear I will need to get to the back of the orderly queues that are being formed.
I was similar as well (still pretty much new to it as well, 8 punts since July). My first one took the lead completely and was very good. Then the second was rubbish apart from a great BJ, barely said a thing to me. Then I found the HNDF in Cardiff. First girl just looked bored, but saw the second girl there for a couple of great shags where she was pretty submissive. then got Bait n Switched. Didn't punt again then until I met my now regular as we have started exploring ALL THE FILTH. My bum was sore....
 
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It's all me, not knowing what to ask and and fear of offending! I know it's stupid but since being on here it's been a real eye opener and it really is, don't ask don't get! I've now got a booking arranged for this week with a girl on here (see don't even know if I should name them!) and will make sure I ask In advance. Hopefully it won't seem like a tesco's shopping list lol!!
I won't name girls on here that I have seen. One may be OK with it, the next may not. Best play safe... in my opinion:hi:
 
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Even if they are not 'taking the lead' I prefer confident, experienced WGs. This was absolutely essential starting out but is now simply a preference.

Looking back I was fairly naive but somehow still managed a great pick for my first ever appointment who put me completely at ease.

Some people like to seek out new and potentially inexperienced SPs often because they like discovering and reviewing 'gems'. Also they may enjoy 'initiating' someone new who is 'untouched' in their eyes. This is a valid approach if you are into it but you probably have to accept the 'risk-reward' calculation that some are likely to be passive, nervous or unsuitable for the work.
 
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Even if they are not 'taking the lead' I prefer confident, experienced WGs. This was absolutely essential starting out but is now simply a preference.

Looking back I was fairly naive but somehow still managed a great pick for my first ever appointment who put me completely at ease.

Some people like to seek out new and potentially inexperienced SPs often because they like discovering and reviewing 'gems'. Also they may enjoy 'initiating' someone new who is 'untouched' in their eyes. This is a valid approach if you are into it but you probably have to accept the 'risk-reward' calculation that some are likely to be passive, nervous or unsuitable for the work.
I guess the best compromise there would be an experienced WG who could play the role of 'innocent girl' really well.
 
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I guess the best compromise there would be an experienced WG who could play the role of 'innocent girl' really well.
Or there are some who are obviously confident but it's just a natural adjustment to me that things can end up very soft and intimate. One of my favourites is like this. She's just a brilliant reader of mood I think.

Another regular isn't exactly innocent maybe, but she's completely un-escort like but at the same time confident. I showed up once and she was just in jeans and a shirt because she had been walking her dog. For some reason I loved this. Her boudoir (as she calls it) is really nice and non punting in feel too as it's basically her bedroom and full of her actual stuff.
 
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as I'm still quite new to this punting lark I like to let this be known and ask to be guided along a bit but from reading the comments from the WG's on here my experiences haven't come anywhere near them... Am I just seeing the wrong girls or should I just need to man up a bit? I think from now on I'm only booking girls who are on this site although i fear I will need to get to the back of the orderly queues that are being formed.
Dingo, see a girl who is well reviewed on here or UKP and is obviously experienced, that will then give you a benchmark and you'll get a better feel for where you are at. Then go from there.
Personally I find a mixture of sometimes I'm leading sometimes they are works best for me.
 
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but when I am actually in the booking all thoughts and ideas go out of my head.
This.

I'm a right dirty bastard in my head, all sorts of ideas and desires. But as soon as I see a pair of tits in front of me, and have a hot girl that I could never pull in a million years kissing me like a boyfriend just come home on shore leave, my ideas fly out of the window and just go with the flow.

This nearly always results in a fuck load (literally) of fun, but perhaps I need to be a little more headstrong in my approach.
 
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I like a girl who fucks me rather than the other way round - not literally with a strap-on I might add. It's actually good fun when it becomes something of a contest and the sweats dripping from both of you. Great when you look in the mirror at the end and see what a mess you've made of each other.

tcm
 
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Normally, as soon as I`ve got the girl into the bedroom I start to undress her while I`m kissing her, and everything follows from there - goes with the flow as you might say. However, one of my most memorable punts ever was the only occasion when I didn`t start the ball rolling. I arrived at the girl`s house after dusk, the front door was slightly ajar and a voice shouted "come right in"; I walked in into complete darkness, and a hand suddenly grabbed my arm and dragged me in, I was thrust back into an armchair where hands swiftly removed all my clothing and then I was pulled out of the chair and pushed down onto a bed. Then a glimmer of light suddenly appeared, and then slowly increased in brightness until I could make out a figure, her face in darkness and the rest, draped in numerous layers of diaphanous drapes through which, outlined against the light, her figure showed as she moved; at the same moment the music began, a haunting beguiling melody full of eastern promise, and she began to dance, sinuously, seductively, invitingly and most suggestively, and as she danced she slowly shed one drape after another. I was so entranced I didn`t want to move or risk anything which might break the spell, and I lay there with an erection like a tent pole and my cock almost bursting at the seams watching her; then suddenly, the last drape fell, but before I could move she was straight on to me - I`ll swear she must have had the condom in her hand ready throughout, because before I could move it was on my cock, and she was riding me like a champion steeplechase jockey at Aintree. I think she had got even more excited than I had, because she orgasmed very quickly, and I was able to hold back and turn us both over, and take control. God, what a fuck that was.
 
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Normally, as soon as I`ve got the girl into the bedroom I start to undress her while I`m kissing her, and everything follows from there - goes with the flow as you might say. However, one of my most memorable punts ever was the only occasion when I didn`t start the ball rolling. I arrived at the girl`s house after dusk, the front door was slightly ajar and a voice shouted "come right in"; I walked in into complete darkness, and a hand suddenly grabbed my arm and dragged me in, I was thrust back into an armchair where hands swiftly removed all my clothing and then I was pulled out of the chair and pushed down onto a bed. Then a glimmer of light suddenly appeared, and then slowly increased in brightness until I could make out a figure, her face in darkness and the rest, draped in numerous layers of diaphanous drapes through which, outlined against the light, her figure showed as she moved; at the same moment the music began, a haunting beguiling melody full of eastern promise, and she began to dance, sinuously, seductively, invitingly and most suggestively, and as she danced she slowly shed one drape after another. I was so entranced I didn`t want to move or risk anything which might break the spell, and I lay there with an erection like a tent pole and my cock almost bursting at the seams watching her; then suddenly, the last drape fell, but before I could move she was straight on to me - I`ll swear she must have had the condom in her hand ready throughout, because before I could move it was on my cock, and she was riding me like a champion steeplechase jockey at Aintree. I think she had got even more excited than I had, because she orgasmed very quickly, and I was able to hold back and turn us both over, and take control. God, what a fuck that was.
That is legendary, what an experience!!
 
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Normally, as soon as I`ve got the girl into the bedroom I start to undress her while I`m kissing her, and everything follows from there - goes with the flow as you might say. However, one of my most memorable punts ever was the only occasion when I didn`t start the ball rolling. I arrived at the girl`s house after dusk, the front door was slightly ajar and a voice shouted "come right in"; I walked in into complete darkness, and a hand suddenly grabbed my arm and dragged me in, I was thrust back into an armchair where hands swiftly removed all my clothing and then I was pulled out of the chair and pushed down onto a bed. Then a glimmer of light suddenly appeared, and then slowly increased in brightness until I could make out a figure, her face in darkness and the rest, draped in numerous layers of diaphanous drapes through which, outlined against the light, her figure showed as she moved; at the same moment the music began, a haunting beguiling melody full of eastern promise, and she began to dance, sinuously, seductively, invitingly and most suggestively, and as she danced she slowly shed one drape after another. I was so entranced I didn`t want to move or risk anything which might break the spell, and I lay there with an erection like a tent pole and my cock almost bursting at the seams watching her; then suddenly, the last drape fell, but before I could move she was straight on to me - I`ll swear she must have had the condom in her hand ready throughout, because before I could move it was on my cock, and she was riding me like a champion steeplechase jockey at Aintree. I think she had got even more excited than I had, because she orgasmed very quickly, and I was able to hold back and turn us both over, and take control. God, what a fuck that was.
Glad it wasn't a guy in a dress :rolleyes:
 
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Or there are some who are obviously confident but it's just a natural adjustment to me that things can end up very soft and intimate. One of my favourites is like this. She's just a brilliant reader of mood I think.

Another regular isn't exactly innocent maybe, but she's completely un-escort like but at the same time confident. I showed up once and she was just in jeans and a shirt because she had been walking her dog. For some reason I loved this. Her boudoir (as she calls it) is really nice and non punting in feel too as it's basically her bedroom and full of her actual stuff.
I can see how that would be great. I guess it would make the booking seem different from the usual and more like a normal encounter with a civvie. The possibility of so much variety is one of the things I love about punting.
 
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I can see how that would be great. I guess it would make the booking seem different from the usual and more like a normal encounter with a civvie. The possibility of so much variety is one of the things I love about punting.
Yeah, I'm always amazed by the diversity you can easily find. For many WGs it is a 'performance', obviously, but it is still them (or a version of them) in some respect or they would just all be the same and do the same stuff the same way.
 
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Normally, as soon as I`ve got the girl into the bedroom I start to undress her while I`m kissing her, and everything follows from there - goes with the flow as you might say. However, one of my most memorable punts ever was the only occasion when I didn`t start the ball rolling. I arrived at the girl`s house after dusk, the front door was slightly ajar and a voice shouted "come right in"; I walked in into complete darkness, and a hand suddenly grabbed my arm and dragged me in, I was thrust back into an armchair where hands swiftly removed all my clothing and then I was pulled out of the chair and pushed down onto a bed. Then a glimmer of light suddenly appeared, and then slowly increased in brightness until I could make out a figure, her face in darkness and the rest, draped in numerous layers of diaphanous drapes through which, outlined against the light, her figure showed as she moved; at the same moment the music began, a haunting beguiling melody full of eastern promise, and she began to dance, sinuously, seductively, invitingly and most suggestively, and as she danced she slowly shed one drape after another. I was so entranced I didn`t want to move or risk anything which might break the spell, and I lay there with an erection like a tent pole and my cock almost bursting at the seams watching her; then suddenly, the last drape fell, but before I could move she was straight on to me - I`ll swear she must have had the condom in her hand ready throughout, because before I could move it was on my cock, and she was riding me like a champion steeplechase jockey at Aintree. I think she had got even more excited than I had, because she orgasmed very quickly, and I was able to hold back and turn us both over, and take control. God, what a fuck that was.
If she's called Salome I think I'll stay clear, seem to remember that this story ends up badly if your name is John!
 
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It depends on what meet I am looking for and the person I am seeing..
Sometimes I want to dominate, other times I am looking for GFE and other times I just want to be really lazy..
Each lady is different and I tend to have a preconceived idea of what I want in the meet..
New escorts I tend to go with the flow.
I really get off in pleasuring woman and that always seems to go down well and can lead to more intense meets.
 
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I prefer to be instructed a fair bit on what the client likes because it differs so widely and I am still relatively inexperienced. I try to convey this as much as possible on my profile though, and I tend to get more confident as the booking goes on and by the time there's a subsequent one I'm pretty knowledgeable about what said client likes and doesn't like. Because my services are slightly scaled back, there is an actual nuance to what I do because it can't just be the same set of things every time (and I hate the thought of working to a routine anyway) but generally I like the thought of tailoring the session to each individual which is why at the screening stage I try to gather as much info about what they like as possible. There are loads of notable exceptions, but I think the majority of teen escorts are going to be at the stage I am where we're sort of still "figuring things out" (especially if we haven't had much sex outside of work) and in a way, the client is paying for that genuine virginesque experience. The majority of my clients these days book me for my authenticity/eloquence (!!?) anyway, I certainly wouldn't recommend myself to those that prefer the pornier/performatory side of things, or the "fuck and go" types either - each to their own, and I fully accept that I am in many ways a niche. I'm more than happy to stick to that until I get a better grasp of the ropes - and I think it's to my credit that I acknowledge this and don't mislead in any way.
 
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I'm generally submissive which means letting the punter lead! If I get a GFE and the punter says he's new/nervous then I do my best to put him at ease, find out what he likes and guide the way to make it happen. Most of us are lovely, I promise!
I like to lead in a mild domme way. I like to decide what we do but happy if the girl chips in during the meet with suggestions.

The perfect meet is one where I get to text/PM/email the girl a bit beforehand to figure out what she likes and dislikes. Then I (and hopefully she) can get really excited about the meet as I know what will happen. Also helps to avoid her saying "no" to something during the meet which can affect the dynamic.

I hate the uncertainty that comes from meeting a new girl with whom I cant ascertain beforehand if she will do everything on her Enjoys List or will try to lead.
 
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