Was escorting/punting what you expected it to be?

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I was a little worried at first, too much negativity surrounding it all I guess, where people would have you believe you're going to be beaten and robbed on a daily basis! It stopped me getting into it for quite a while but it's actually been a lot of fun and I've met some absolutely amazing people (both punters and WG's) so I'm so glad that I finally did it.

What did you expect when you started? Have you found it better or worse than you expected?
 
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I had no idea what to expect when I started but when I found girls who operate from there own homes or serviced apartments, it gave an impression of far greater respectability than I had imagined. Nothing seedy about it at all, the girls I've met have been willing participants and, as a rule, seem to genuinely enjoy it. Granted, my experience is fairly limited and I have had the odd poor meeting, but by and large it's been great and not something I regret at all.
 
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I was a little worried at first, too much negativity surrounding it all I guess, where people would have you believe you're going to be beaten and robbed on a daily basis! It stopped me getting into it for quite a while but it's actually been a lot of fun and I've met some absolutely amazing people (both punters and WG's) so I'm so glad that I finally did it.

What did you expect when you started? Have you found it better or worse than you expected?
I started punting decades ago when I was 19 and have experienced my wildest fantasies which I doubt I would of if I wasn't a punter. On the whole its been good fun. The downside are the liars and low life that exist trying to rip me off or worse. All I ask is honesty and a WG to have a good attitude offering what she agreed when I booked. A/W this year is like wading knew high in shit looking for a gem, its got markedly worse due to low lifes and the owners who are the same in my opinion.

So good overall but a lot of room for improvement.
 
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I started a long time ago searching through the local papers, streetwalkers it always seemed a bit grubby (but still fun) then. It wasn't until the internet really took off that I have found I have more control of my meets. I am able to try out new experiences and do thing I would never have dreamed of doing all those years ago.
I have met some fantastic people over the years and I am friends still with escorts that have given up long ago.

The journey still goes on where it will end I do not know.
 
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I had no idea what to expect when I started but when I found girls who operate from there own homes or serviced apartments, it gave an impression of far greater respectability than I had imagined. Nothing seedy about it at all, the girls I've met have been willing participants and, as a rule, seem to genuinely enjoy it. Granted, my experience is fairly limited and I have had the odd poor meeting, but by and large it's been great and not something I regret at all.
Yes, even from the SP side of it, it is far less seedy than the impression you get from the media. I was surprised, pleasantly of course, by how many guys actually want to chat and get to know you a bit and care about your pleasure etc. it's a hell of a lot more fun than I thought it would be at first :D
 
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Yes, even from the SP side of it, it is far less seedy than the impression you get from the media. I was surprised, pleasantly of course, by how many guys actually want to chat and get to know you a bit and care about your pleasure etc. it's a hell of a lot more fun than I thought it would be at first :D
I hate meets where there's no connection and no chat. And of course the girl must enjoy it too :rolleyes:
 
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I tried it once and had an awful meet (pre my UKP days) so did nothing again for six months.

Then had two more meets, again both poor, and starting to think punting was nor for me.

Stumbled on UKP and after looking at some reviews thought I would give it one last try.

This meet went really well and not stopped since. Done stuff I know I would not have got with any civvies I had dated previously.

Also meet some great ladies and long may it continue.
 
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I hate meets where there's no connection and no chat. And of course the girl must enjoy it too :rolleyes:
The 15 minute meet obviously appeals to some but I do enjoy a little chat and getting to know somebody as well. I've been known to be a little too chatty and allowed longer bookings at no extra cost because of this!
 
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The 15 minute meet obviously appeals to some but I do enjoy a little chat and getting to know somebody as well. I've been known to be a little too chatty and allowed longer bookings at no extra cost because of this!
Used to do a lot of 30 min meets, particularly on first meets, but I find that's even a bit short of you really hit it off with the girl. My best meets so far have been 2 hours with my regular, a lot of fun but some chat, a Greggs and a cuppa, magic :dance:
 
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I only started 6 months ago as I got to a point in my life when I thought if I don't try the things I want to now then I won't ever, it carries risk to my personnal that I'm sure a lot of others face too, but, at this point I feel it's worth it. I have experienced things and met people that have been amazing, I've made new friends via forums and have a lot of things still to do and personnal boundaries to push.

I did think though it would be like living in a porn film, this I quickly discovered was far from the truth, but as I gain more experience the more I'm glad it's not like that, fantasies are realised in different ways but with each carefully selected punt i edge closer to ticking off my bucket list. The next meeting I'm trying to sort currently is sure to be one of my best yet and open me to even more experiences.

I have to say I feel like I've found my place around other people with the same likes as me, after years of burying my head in porn and cam girls it actually feels like I've seen the light!!
 
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I had no idea what to expect when I started but when I found girls who operate from there own homes or serviced apartments, it gave an impression of far greater respectability than I had imagined. Nothing seedy about it at all, the girls I've met have been willing participants and, as a rule, seem to genuinely enjoy it. Granted, my experience is fairly limited and I have had the odd poor meeting, but by and large it's been great and not something I regret at all.
Good to hear you weren't a sheep who listened and read the medias general bias against prostitution fuelled by being shit scared of the femi-Nazis like Julie Bindel and Harriet Harridan, but found out for yourself. And of course it sells their rags which is another reason they mainly push the seedy scenarios.
 
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The 15 minute meet obviously appeals to some but I do enjoy a little chat and getting to know somebody as well. I've been known to be a little too chatty and allowed longer bookings at no extra cost because of this!
I can't do a 15 minute meet I struggle with 30 mins must be a minimum of 1 hour. or preferably longer
 
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It's roughly what I expected, though if anything my clients have been more varied and also probably much nicer as an overall group than I anticipated.
 
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I didn't have too many expectations when I first started punting - it was just dodgy ads in the back of the local paper, no idea who/what was going to turn up at your door. I'll be honest most of my first punts weren't all that which is probably why I never really got into it and went and got a girlfriend or two, then a wife. If punting back then was like it is now I may never have bothered, which would have been to my detriment.

I can understand why the hobby is growing in popularity as it's never been so easy as it is now - sites like AW and this let you see and even talk to an escort before you meet, reviews give you a much better idea of what to expect service-wise. It's taken much of the "punting" out of punting for me anyway.
 
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Being the goody two-shoes that I am (or should I say used to be ha ha!), I was very apprehensive... But that's where my inquisitive nature comes in handy ;) Well, I couldn't just forget and move on, so the only other option was to take the plunge and see for myself! And *shock-horror*, it turned out to be more "normal" than I ever could have imagined. Nothing seedy or deplorable about this little hobby of ours, quite the opposite in fact!

In spite of all the media scaremongering, I've yet to meet any junkies, pimps, rapists or any other such "villains" commonly associated with prostitution...
 
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Not at all. I'll be completely honest and say that my opinion was based on what I had heard/read in the media so I was worse than clueless. When all you hear are stories about drug abuse, trafficking, violent assault etc etc you tend to assume that is the way the whole industry works. I was very naive and didn't even realise it was legal :unknown: I did a lot of reading on the subject, eventually stumbled across sites like UKP and SAAFE and was staggered at how different the reality is. Now when I hear negative comments on the subject from other people I just want to give them a good shake and tell them to educate themselves. I don't though because it would be hypocritical of me since I was in the same position not too long ago. I would like to set them straight on a few misconceptions though.
 
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I'm not sure I had expectations when I started. For me, it's been the ability to play out fantasies which has been the best thing about punting. Never thought I'd do a party and yet now it's one of my favourite things to do because of the fun you have. Loads of people all fucking away with great banter thrown in. Can't beat 'em.

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Was escorting/punting what you expected it to be?


No

It's been miles better! Im ashamed to admit I also believed the media hype and stereotyping about prostitution and waited far too long to get started because of my own ignorance.

There have been a couple of lows during the last 3 years, but far more highs and I've met and had fun with some really nice women. What's not to like? :thumbsup:
 
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When it works it's one of the best feelings - I've left punts floating on a natural high. And for me it's the human connection, having a mutually enjoyable time. I've never booked a 15min quicky as my min is 30mins so I can have a chat (ideally) - some of my worst meets have been where I've booked 30 but am out after 15 because of the girls bad attitude. And I leave those feeling terrible. So this is a real high / low hobby. And I've heard some horror stories talking to girls both about punters and pimps.
The best is where it's an independent girl who controls who she sees and when she works, if she's doing it because it's something she enjoys rather than a chore to grind through to get paid. Thankfully ukp helps sort them out and now only those sort of girls will frequent here which is handy
 
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......I also believed the media hype and stereotyping about prostitution.
Must admit when I started early last year I though prossies were girls that stood on street corners and escorts were girls you took out to dinner - honestly! I'd never come across the term punter or punting. Some of the girls I've met and the venues have opened my eyes, and would open other peoples eyes I can tell you!

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Even before I started punting I always believed that people (the girls in particular) should be allowed to have sex for money it if they want to. It made me a bit angry that: people in general look down on the profession; and that it was illegal (as I thought then).

My biggest revelations were:

- How many of the girls involved enjoy what they do: I didn't quite buy into the line that almost all girls involved in prostitution would hate themselves for doing the job and/or be forced, but I did think most might be plodding through their job the same way most checkout staff do.

- That it was not, in fact, illegal. I still think it should be legal to have more than one girl in a flat (surely that's safer?), or parties and the like.

- That it us so much fucking fun!
 
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For years the mere thought of it would have me running for the hills, dirty toothless crack-heads selling themselves so they could afford their next hit..... No thank you!!!

Then.......

I was propositioned by a young cute blonde opportunist in a hotel I was staying at in Blackpool. And I had the time of my life.
The rest is history & up until this year It was full stream ahead. Starting at some rather seedy parlours then onto better quality then indies & finally x3 punts per week made up of a mixture of regulars & parlour girls (until I stopped nearly 11 months ago)

So to answer the OP's question, No it wasn't anything like I expected but there again I never went near the street scene so my original appraisal may still be valid?
 
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Was punting what I expected it to be.... mmmm, as a punter I don't think you can know what to expect when you start, you're thinking with your dick for one.

What I will say is I find punting in the last few years is the best it's ever been for me. Aw has its faults but it sure beats the ad's in various papers where you had no idea who was about to open the door. Twenty years ago when I started it was a very different game to now.

From the outside, people still view wg's as toothless disease riddled crack addicts and punters as greasy haired, long mack wearing perverts who hang around in bushes.

From the inside we all know that's not the case (I don't have a mack :D)

What I will say is that I think the younger population have a better handle on it than the older, the older population have the bigotted views.

If that lot makes sense then you're doing a better job than me :D
 
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Through this hobby I've met some incredibly interesting women, the best of whom invariably have a very interesting life story. Punts with these women, where a connection is established, are the most satisfying. So, as well as satisfying my more primeaval urges, I've had conversations on incredibly diverse topics.

I've also had a punt with an EE young woman who plainly wasn't enjoying her role in life, and it affected me for quite a while. I'm pretty sure she was coerced, and unsually for me, I had no idea what course of action to take.
 
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No it wasnt, I had a very definate career plan, when I turned 18 I got a pension and life insurance immediatley. I had it all planned out, career woman all the way. Trouble is I met a bad boy and life took an entirely different path because I allowed myself to be blinded by a pretty face,a hot body and a sexy accent. Cei la vie
 
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- That it was not, in fact, illegal. I still think it should be legal to have more than one girl in a flat (surely that's safer?), or parties and the like.

- That it us so much fucking fun!
This. There's no doubt some of the changes in law have helped but it would make complete sense to allow two or more independent girls to work together for a number of reason but particularly for increased safety. Hopefully the girls who are working hard campaigning for a more sensible legislation and workers rights will have some success :thumbsup: Hopefully as attitudes change it might remove a bit of the stigma for punters too. I'm a single bloke who sees independent, free-thinking girls (for bloody marvellous sex!) so why should anyone else pass judgement on me or her? :unknown:
 
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I had a reasonable active sex life in my younger days and got up to some wild stuff MMF and the like, and I have been in a faithful relationship for over 20 years for the first time in my life... Then I searched for Escorts on the Web and found the AW site and signed up. I wanted to tick some boxes and fuck young girls.
To be honest I have been incredibly lucky and my experience with punting has been good, I must say primarily because of research done and finding UKPunting in January 2015, I was being tempted towards some doggy profiles on AW showing pictures of stunning young girls who do everything and more and they are only aged 19 and 20, I searched on UKP and found they are scams etc. without UKP I would or could have been scammed etc. So aside TOFTT on a couple of occasions all my punts have been with established girls and have been exceptional experiences.
So as I say, I didn't have any preconceived ideas and I have been lucky. I have met and fucked some incredible girls (young and older) on here who have fucked my brains out and more..... :P This site is now adding to the experience, and I am either going to increase my bucket list with my regular girls or break the bank and get up to Scotland and Newcastle or get over to Nottingham he he
 
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I have always stated since I started this that I have met a better quality of man on the whole from doing this, don't get me wrong I've had a few plonkers (unfortunately two in as many days) but nothing to put me off as the good out weighs the bad. At this moment in time it gives me what I need and I would struggle to go back to a civvy. Best thing I ever did and wish I had started so much sooner.
 
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My first punt was an umitigated disaster and I was so depressed afterwards, I swore to never do it again.

Then a few mates were chatting and one of then mentioned someone who he said was phenomenal and I decided to take the plunge and have not looked back since.

I do take breaks here or there as the pickings on AW these days especially close to my office are mediocre.

I generally punt on business trips now and the occasional regular near my office.

I have had probably 2 or 3 horrible punts, so far, no violence , threats, etc. Most of the ladies I've been with have been fun to be around and in some cases I'm not sure in would have been able to pull them in civvy life
 
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I didn't have any expectations when I started but I do now

Thankfully due to UKP I am able to find the type of girl, type of service and type of accommodation I am seeking
 
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I was a little worried at first, too much negativity surrounding it all I guess, where people would have you believe you're going to be beaten and robbed on a daily basis! It stopped me getting into it for quite a while but it's actually been a lot of fun and I've met some absolutely amazing people (both punters and WG's) so I'm so glad that I finally did it.

What did you expect when you started? Have you found it better or worse than you expected?
Pretty much exactly what I expected 20 years ago, when I started but knew nothing.

So much better now :D
 
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Not at all. I'll be completely honest and say that my opinion was based on what I had heard/read in the media so I was worse than clueless. When all you hear are stories about drug abuse, trafficking, violent assault etc etc you tend to assume that is the way the whole industry works. I was very naive and didn't even realise it was legal :unknown: I did a lot of reading on the subject, eventually stumbled across sites like UKP and SAAFE and was staggered at how different the reality is. Now when I hear negative comments on the subject from other people I just want to give them a good shake and tell them to educate themselves. I don't though because it would be hypocritical of me since I was in the same position not too long ago. I would like to set them straight on a few misconceptions though.
I take the cake on clueless kind sir, I think I lived in a shell all my life. I heard whispers from work colleagues of another world (bit like narnia through the wardrobe) , I read news of escorts doing it on planes or trains and getting caught by the press. I heard of uptown 'hookers' getting into a right muddle with some miscreant MP. But I never imagined it could be a community of like minded people providing and receiving services not available to them in civvie life. Sure it attracts the weirdos but doesn't every walk of life? Since I started just over two years ago, I have been as happy as Larry.
 
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I take the cake on clueless kind sir, I think I lived in a shell all my life. I heard whispers from work colleagues of another world (bit like narnia through the wardrobe) , I read news of escorts doing it on planes or trains and getting caught by the press. I heard of uptown 'hookers' getting into a right muddle with some miscreant MP. But I never imagined it could be a community of like minded people providing and receiving services not available to them in civvie life. Sure it attracts the weirdos but doesn't every walk of life? Since I started just over two years ago, I have been as happy as Larry.
Who you calling a Weirdo - :sarcastic:
 
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Sorry Raddy, I should have said 'dangerous weirdos' not soft fluffy weirdos who are perfectly fine and quite adorable and admired by all and and and...

I'll shut up now, hole is getting bigger :P
 
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It is but then I researched for over a year before I took the plunge. I lurked on forums, I searched out any research that was not just from the Anti brigade. I met people and talked to them and when I felt comfortable I went ahead and did it myself. I guess I was less nervous not only because I did my research but I was also a swinger so knew quite well the types of people I would meet
 
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It took me about six months from deciding that 'I'm definitely going to do this' to actually booking to see someone. Since then I honestly haven't looked back at all; one of the best decisions I've ever made in my life.

When I travelled to my first meeting I remember the feeling that although I was nervous I'd discovered some kind of a 'life hack'. That feeling has only accelerated since then, together with not really being able to understand why everybody doesn't do this (although some people I know might for all I know... I've never told a soul that I do this).

I have also met some absolutely wonderful, genuine people along the way. In terms of my experiences I'd say a max of two were neutral, and that's probably being harsh by many people's standards. The rest fall into good, excellent or simply out of this world. :D
 
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Since starting just over a year ago after 10 years without sex (albeit in an otherwise very happy marriage) I have had the most amazing time. I have found that by choosing carefully (starting off with the spectacular Hannah in Birmingham/Wolverhampton) you can meet some fascinating people through this and have the most incredible sex.

It is an enormous rush to please, and be pleased by, a gorgeous woman (or women) and I have done things that would never have been possible but for this profession. I have discovered that an overweight middle aged man can still be appreciated in the bedroom (and yes I believe the women I have met are genuine in their enjoyment) and am happier now than I have been in a long time as I have companionship at home and hot sex outside (with a bit of companionship thrown in).

As I write this I am basking in the afterglow of yet another brilliant session, which may be affecting me a bit, but not much. Here's to the future of punting. :drinks:
 
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On the whole, it's been a really interesting and fun experience. There are some incredible mentalists around but I guess that could be the case in any walk of life. The rush from a good punt was also very addictive with negative consequences for me certainly.
 
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There have been one or two slightly dodgy episodes with slightly dodgy females, but on the whole it has been fun, satisfying and thoroughly enjoyable; the variety of ladies I`ve met has been surprising and very enlightening and one in particular has been most memorable. In fact, I`m almost tempted to write my memoirs.
 
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My first experiences were in Asia where the whole thing was paid arranged for me by the local salesman. First time I thought I was getting a foot massage (that's what I had been told to expect). She didn't speak English, I didn't know any Chinese, she got naked, I looked on confused, sales guy opened the door and asked if there was any problem (with a wink and a smile) and finally the penny dropped.
After that its all been about looking for different experiences. Some have been ok, some have been bloody awful, most have been good and some have been amazing.
 
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I wasn't sure what to expect and was pretty clueless. Wasn't sure what would happen in the meet. Thought that maybe the girl would only have sex if she fancied me!! I had had some bad relationships and thought I would book a girl. Was one of the best things I did. It annoys me now that the industry has so many stigmas attached to it. But hopefully one day that might change.
 
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I started to search for escortes just about one year ago and not 100% sure what to expect. Guess I was just after having sex with really good looking girls. Before I found UKP I went for looks/hot body only, but know better now so I rate a great service higher. Had very vanilla experiences before I started punting and there were so many things I wanted to try. Like many I had only the medias view on escorting and thought about it for a while before I finally took the plunge. In under a year I had suddenly experienced gang bang, MMF, MFF, MMFF, DP, DV, watersports and a lot of other stuff. Now I probably have experienced stuff that my friends never will get to try. Never looked back and definitely one of the best things I have done. Sexual confidence is for sure a lot higher than before I started punting

As I only had the medias view I was actually 'surprised' by how nice many of the girls I have met are. None I have seen seemed forced into it and my view on escorting is different now. Just sad you have to keep it to yourself and unable to add your view to the somewhat unbalanced discusson.
 
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