To cum or not to cum

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I think I'm pretty lucky that I can control myself very well and cum on demand(ish) so this puts me in a situation of not really knowing when to pop. In a 30 booking I wait until the end as there's not really time for two but in an hour or longer it plays on my mind? I wonder what others do and would girls prefer foreplay, cum, sex, cum??
 
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I cum once if I'm lucky (I'm getting better since I gave up wanking and porn 5 weeks ago) so it's more a case of can I can't I.
 
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I prefer the lack of control, I find it sexy when a guy can't restrain himself.

And I don't have a one pop rule so it's not like it's over after the first!
I've never thought of it that way before.. It's not like it takes loads of concentration to hold back but I think I could go with it too so I may well try that too. I have found though, even girls who say unlimited cum arn't always that forthcoming in starting round two.. But I guess that's were I need to be more assertive.
 
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I've never thought of it that way before.. It's not like it takes loads of concentration to hold back but I think I could go with it too so I may well try that too. I have found though, even girls who say unlimited cum arn't always that forthcoming in starting round two.. But I guess that's were I need to be more assertive.
I had a guy I saw a few times who popped like 5 times. He could never hold it for long it wasn't like it was an hour long fuckathon or anything. Just liked to orgasm :D I had no problems with that!
 
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I can only manage 1 pop an hour. once its gone its gone and i can never squeeze another one out for ages so delaying is essential.

I can normally keep a hard on tho so finishing time is not really a problem except it seems a bit pointless if you know you're not going to cum.
 
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#11
Mine can be once or twice, I've learnt to stop stressing about it and go with the flow. On the plus side I have no problem getting and staying hard (luckily no need for chemical assistance - yet!) so if it's not gonna happen there's other stuff I can do and it becomes about the journey rather than the destination. Had a duo recently where I managed to avoid cumming for nearly two hours of pretty intense activity - I think the secret's in lots of variation.

But when it did happen - :yahoo::yahoo::yahoo:
 
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I prefer the lack of control, I find it sexy when a guy can't restrain himself.

And I don't have a one pop rule so it's not like it's over after the first!
Control is everything to me.

I cum if and when I decide to. Sometimes the experience is intensified by not cumming at all. Even after several hours.

Of course, I prefer to control more than that but that's a whole different subject. :D
 
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I like seeing how many times I can get a guy to come. The record is 5 in an hour. I take each orgasm as a massive compliment, so the more they can manage (ESPECIALLY if they can usually only manage one and are amazed that you get another one out of them) is great :)
Also it's one of my party tricks to keep going with a blowjob until he's come twice if he can, as I love to feel it respond just after he comes and it's twitching and sensitive and salty and to see it battling between going flaccid and remaining rock hard, and then growing again in my mouth and giving me another load... Mmm.
 
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Further to this, it may sound funny but premature ejaculation really turns me on. It's like hell yeah, I made him cum in his pants with pure sexual energy. Whilst I do like being rewarded for hard work and it's great to finally get some after an hour of trying, I think I prefer guys who can't help but cum - makes me feel amazing!
 
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I like seeing how many times I can get a guy to come. The record is 5 in an hour. I take each orgasm as a massive compliment, so the more they can manage (ESPECIALLY if they can usually only manage one and are amazed that you get another one out of them) is great :)
Also it's one of my party tricks to keep going with a blowjob until he's come twice if he can, as I love to feel it respond just after he comes and it's twitching and sensitive and salty and to see it battling between going flaccid and remaining rock hard, and then growing again in my mouth and giving me another load... Mmm.
Holy crap @jessica95 that sounds amazing, bring on those incalls again! I never had anyone carry on after I've popped but the though of battling through that fine line of pleasure/pain sounds amazing and intense.:thumbsup:
 
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I can only pop the once in an hour but I can pretty much decide when and I can hold out to the bitter end if needs be. There are times though when I've decide to come earlier purely because it feels at the perfect moment. I have put it off before to get the full time shagging and I've past the peak and it becomes a lack lustre orgasm.
It's interesting some of the girls find it exciting to see a punter lose control and come prematurely, it's mainly frowned upon in normal civvy sex. But then again to see a working girl is a far less judgemental experience.
 
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It's interesting some of the girls find it exciting to see a punter lose control and come prematurely, it's mainly frowned upon in normal civvy sex. But then again to see a working girl is a far less judgemental experience.
I love it in my civvie life too. I think any pressure to "hold back" is often from the men themselves? Besides, even if you can't fuck again, there's plenty you can do without penis-in-vagina sex if we want to carry on and you're finished...
 
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I don't think about it anymore and just go with the flow. Sometimes it's twice in an hour or it might be once in two hours. Very occasionally not at all - usually when I've stopped myself coming too early. On a recent 1 hour punt, I enjoyed the initial oral so much I came in about 10 minutes which never usually happens but it felt so good I didn't want her to stop. Didn't cum again during the rest of the time but had fun trying :D.
 
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I love it in my civvie life too. I think any pressure to "hold back" is often from the men themselves? Besides, even if you can't fuck again, there's plenty you can do without penis-in-vagina sex if we want to carry on and you're finished...
Very well put and of course you're right, it's the mans ego feeling he should be able to control himself.
There have been times I could of cum in the first five minutes but I've held it back. I do wonder now if I was to just let it go would be more satisfying.
 
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Also it's one of my party tricks to keep going with a blowjob until he's come twice if he can, as I love to feel it respond just after he comes and it's twitching and sensitive and salty and to see it battling between going flaccid and remaining rock hard, and then growing again in my mouth and giving me another load... Mmm.
I once had a girl do something similar to me last year. I'm usually a cum once kind-a-guy in an hour but on this occasion booked two hours. Anyway came after about 30mins & took a brief breather for a chat then back into the action. The session went over two hours as she was determined to get me off twice :D. So she was giving me a great bj & I finally came for the second time, however she kept on sucking & licking afterwards. I have to say that my dick was extremely sensitive (combination of pleasure & pain) but stayed hard & she kept teasing me for another 10/15mins. Because I stayed hard she asked if I'd taken any viagra, when I said no she couldn't believe it & gave me a final suck. The second she stopped my dick went as limp as a wet biscuit & stayed that way for a couple of days, not even a twitch :D
 
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For me punting is probably 20% sexual gratification and 80% mental stimulation, which is why I prefer BDSM over vanilla sex. I can easily cum three or four times in a session but I hate the post orgasm feeling of laziness, disinterest and lethargy one often experiences. I then started to play around with edging and now full-on orgasm denial which I just find much more rewarding than simply shooting a weeks worth of juice over a paid-for and then struggling to maintain any further interest thereafter. Orgasm denial just leaves me feeling mentally sharp afterwards because the adrenaline rush is continuous and doesn't drop off until I've walked away from the session. Don't get me wrong, I still enjoy multiple orgasms in session, in fact a strict forced orgasm stress test makes for a great (hard) sub/Domme role-play. Variety keeps it interesting.
 
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I have managed to cum twice in an hours session a few times, but generally it is a one cum punt for me. If I am on the rampage I can keep from cumming until the end of the session with a credible amount of control for an old bloke, whereas before I started punting I would start to shag Mrs Raddy after my RO session with her and be cumming within a minute or two. :(

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Only once in an hour for me and I've never had a punt longer than an hour but I think the recovery time would be about 1.5 - 2 hrs.
Went to a 2 girl GB once, came on one girls face within first 10 mins, went for something to eat and drink, had a bit of a play around, managed to get hard and started fucking the other girl but after 15 minutes my back was killing me and there was no sign of me cumin but I managed to wank on her tits!

My 2 regulars know the score so in an hour booking we work around a crescendo which results in penetration 10-15 mins before the end and cumin approx 5 mins later!

I think some girls in a half hour appointment get worried that you're going to go over time ( or want to get you out the door!) and do all they can in the first few minutes to make you cum. I've had half hour meetings though where the girl is so utterly gorgeous that I've just gone for it and shot my load inside her with a good 15 mins to go.
 
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One cum per hour from me if i'm lucky, but thats getting better the less i masturbate to porn :).
Wish i could cum faster because i only need about 5 mins recovery time and i'm ready to go again, and post orgasm cock ache is something i enjoy.
 
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I like seeing how many times I can get a guy to come. The record is 5 in an hour. I take each orgasm as a massive compliment, so the more they can manage (ESPECIALLY if they can usually only manage one and are amazed that you get another one out of them) is great :)
Also it's one of my party tricks to keep going with a blowjob until he's come twice if he can, as I love to feel it respond just after he comes and it's twitching and sensitive and salty and to see it battling between going flaccid and remaining rock hard, and then growing again in my mouth and giving me another load... Mmm.
Really like the idea of continuing with the BJ after cumming and getting the guy hard again :yahoo:
 
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