Time to confess!

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#3
I think if there is a regular relationship and it is agreed that this can happen then its not a problem,,,good business sense in fact. It wouldnt bother me or other single blokes I suppose.
But just off the bat, no way bad news and would damage future business as word would get round and punters would dry up a bit
 
#6
Oh god no. As mandy says many guys are in a relationship of some sort..you would be playing with their private life over a fire and for the sake of a few more pounds in pocket..I'd rather suffer if was the case than risk destroying another's life.
 
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#7
I don't mind getting texts anytime as they're not a problem to me the way I have my messages set up. But I'd not be very happy to receive anything from anyone who didn't check it was ok first.

If I text a wg about meeting I always add its ok to reply any time as I know some won't if they were busy and couldn't reply straight away. Which is how it should be.
 
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Had a close scrape on holiday, left my phone in the room and came back to find a text from a Dominatrix on the screen (had previously told her it was ok to text any time as my OH doesn't check my phone) quickly changed the settings to stop the display on a locked screen and now got a dedicated punting phone
 
#10
I've never done this. As i only work part time I always put my availability up on my profile and if a reg wants to see me i'm sure they would get in touch.
I dont want to incriminate anyone via text.
 
#11
Only since I went outcall, only because clients interested in incalls have asked me to contact them to inform them of the few incall days I organise every few months, and because it's also based around our combined availability.
 
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#12
Nope! I take bookings as and when the enquiries come to me. My marketing and advertising is a lot more involved and long term than texting. I don't live booking to booking, I live for the next 6 months' projected income (which doesn't just involve bookings, my space in the Adult Entertainment industry isn't just about those one hour bookings. I also do camming, make fetish and vanilla movie clips, photos, phone chat, long-distance domming, used clothing (and other personal stuff) sales, and more.)

So no. I wouldn't ever text to say I was available.
 
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#13
Only since I went outcall, only because clients interested in incalls have asked me to contact them to inform them of the few incall days I organise every few months.
This is great, you've already agreed (so no problems there) and would be really handy for those of us who can't accommodate outcalls and would really like to see someone who normally doesn't do incalls (one or two on here like this in my area already)
 
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#14
I have received text messages from WGs to advise of availability or checking in to find out how I was. I do not mind them but try not to encourage it
 
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#15
If a girl contacted me touting for business, I'd expect a significant discount on her normal rate. I'm not big on repeats so there's only a handful of girls it could happen with and they know if I've seen them recently, I won't want to see them again for a bit.

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#16
Hell no. Most of my clients are married so I would never contact them out of the blue as you never know who they may be with. If I have quiet periods I put an extra offer on my profile instead.
 
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#17
My 2 regs know it's OK to text me anytime but only 1 does.

A few WG's have texted me replies 2 or 3 days after I've texted them :dash:

No problem tho, my punting phone is either off (99% of the time) or on silent unless I'm on final approach to a punt.
 
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#18
I think this thread has confirmed what most of us would expect to hear; decent and professional escorts wouldn't be so indiscreet as to text clients, regular or otherwise, unless it was previously agreed. Also confirms that this forum is attracting the very best girls. :hi:
 
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#19
Yes if it's agreed it's fine. I have a few guys who now I do limited hours struggle to get a booking as they book last minute so they always asks to be on a cancellation list. If someone cancels I'm to let them know by miss calling and they will call straight back as soon as free. It works for them but for most it wouldn't
 
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#20
Hell no never!! My only exception is a private message on twitter to a regular gent "come save me, damsel in distress" need a booking to pay the unexpected bill!
 
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#21
Whoa, no, never. I have a reg who had left his phone at home once when he was coming to see me. He had to go straight from work for it. Luckily I hadn't text him but if I had for any reason, I hate to think. He said a girl had text him she was available once, called him hun in the text. He was out of the car and his young daughter opened the message. :scare:. Yes we know, punting phone a must.
 
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#22
I've never had any texts but I do get emails on AW from one girl informing people of her next tours.. I do t mind it on there but never in a text!
 
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#25
A former regular used to send me AW emails asking if i wanted a booking/giving her availability. No problem with this and it was an easy way to find a convenient time/date for both of us.

Texting me would be ok but pretty pointless as my punting phone is only ever switched on for the few minutes it takes to arrange a booking.
 
#27
Let's flip this slightly...... Would it be OK to send a PM via UKEscorting, instead?

Seems like a safe compromise, seeing as we're mainly enjoying this site for the ability to interact between SPs & clients
 
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#30
As an unattached widower I`m always delighted to received both texts and emails from any of my Regular - makes a change from having to chat up the checkout girl inTesco
+1 I often chat to one or two of my regulars on WhatsApp - sometimes random chit-chat, sometimes arranging our next meet, sometimes exchanging ideas about what we'll get up to at our next meet. If someone I've seen and liked was to msg me and say - "hey I'm free this evening, would be happy to offer you a discount if you're interested" then I would probably be extremely amenable if it was a good deal. ;)
 
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#31
Any TXT just seems a really bad idea as for example my punting phone is only turned on near a booking, so could be off for days and I wouldn't get it, but also from a security point of view re the OH. If the guy is using his normal phone then that's just really bad news all round, shouldn't been done.

AW message or PM on here, I can see a couple of senarios.

If you have only seen a girl a couple of times and had fun, but not sure you want to return, then any AW message or PM could be a really bad idea, unless of course it was offering a discount ? that might tempt you to book again.

BUT if a regular girl messaged then I would be fine about that, happy to help. :):):) they will know your going to book in the future as you will probably say so at the end of the previous meet.
 
#32
I have never received a personal email or a text telling me that they are 'available' (it would be ok if I did though, my private phone and email addresses are private)
I do receive 'newsletters' from a couple of indies with their own websites who are very business-like about the whole thing - I approve. It is the right approach, giving info of when available, when on tour etc
I have exchanged a couple of PMs on twitter, but only banter, nothing detailed and no arrangements made.
Many of us refer to this thing as 'the hobby' and it is definitely that too. However you think of it, so long as it does not lead to EAS all is good.
:)
 
#33
I have had one or two that sent uninvited random texts which pissed me off and I asked them to stop, but I have said to a couple of others it would be ok to try a text if they had a cancellation but neither actually have.

Like other punters, my punting phone is usually off except when making arrangements and I often don't log in to AW unless I am making plans, so would most likely miss it anyway.
 
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#34
+1 I often chat to one or two of my regulars on WhatsApp - sometimes random chit-chat, sometimes arranging our next meet, sometimes exchanging ideas about what we'll get up to at our next meet. If someone I've seen and liked was to msg me and say - "hey I'm free this evening, would be happy to offer you a discount if you're interested" then I would probably be extremely amenable if it was a good deal. ;)
Sometimes get a text or two, but I have said it's all OK. As a single guy I have no OH to hide from
Would never have a problem with getting a text out of the blue
 
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#35
I wouldn't do that either its way to risky as you don't know there circumstances.
I always wait for them to make contact.
I don't even text when I've missed a call as I once text guy I had a missed call from and his wife nearly saw the message, so I now never contact clients unless they say its OK.
 
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#36
I wouldn't do that either its way to risky as you don't know there circumstances.
I always wait for them to make contact.
I don't even text when I've missed a call as I once text guy I had a missed call from and his wife nearly saw the message, so I now never contact clients unless they say its OK.
Its ok definitely anytime feel free :)
 
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#39
Good point Wilson.
If I could pass on a bit of advice from the punters point of view, if you have to send an unsolicited text try to make it businesslike e.g. "Meeting at 4pm cancelled" instead of "Soz hun cant do tomoz xxx luv AnalCumSlut". Lots of guys have girls stored under male names so the former is easier to explain.
That's a really good point Wilson.
 
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#40
Being relatively new to this (and being single) i can say i'm a big fan of flirty texts. Got my first few last week leading up to the day and it was such a turn on, one to two each day for three days.
Also texts for sorta "reverse booking" would be good too, in most cases i would probably oblige if finances were ok.
 
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#41
Things like Twitter and whatsapp and kik are relatively easy to keep quiet but texts can be a nightmare and should be avoided, pages such as this are easily hidden in a secret iPad app and is no problem for flirting
 
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#42
If I could pass on a bit of advice from the punters point of view, if you have to send an unsolicited text try to make it businesslike e.g. "Meeting at 4pm cancelled" instead of "Soz hun cant do tomoz xxx luv AnalCumSlut". Lots of guys have girls stored under male names so the former is easier to explain.
I always send inocuase texts like that, if I missed a call or replying to a text some time after, sorry I missed you call, nothing else. I only get flirty if the text are current.
 
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#43
I don't want to know availability unless I specifically asked

It would be like my dentist ringing up and saying his not very busy

If I got unasked for availability messages I probably wouldn't go back
 
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#44
I don't want to know availability unless I specifically asked

It would be like my dentist ringing up and saying his not very busy

If I got unasked for availability messages I probably wouldn't go back
My dentist has text me to see if I can come in and see him earlier as he's had a cancellation as have other services, a simple tweet or message on here wouldn't bother me
 
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#46
I think a message from WG to punter here is totally acceptable, just as texts etc if agreed up front. Especially if a girl knows the guys usual preferred punting day or time etc.

I think girls see it different to us though as the comments made before about seeming desperate etc, but us guys see at as more business sense I think.

Me I'd see it as an invite I couldnt refuse...have a shower clean my knob and then go find my wallet, vroooom Id be off.
 
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