Those first meets - your recollections...

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Following on from Rod trotter's thread, What made you [get in to this line of work], I'm sure that many here would like to read about those first tentative steps....... or maybe they weren't. Maybe you hit the ground running and have never looked back since. Either way, there were probably some moments of hilarity, some of confusion, and even job satisfaction after the first few punters had left.
I appreciate that this is the sort of thread you'd find on Saafe but indulge the readers, why not... over on UKP we have several similar ones that almost always start from the default position: "I wish I'd started sooner." I definitely belong to that group :hi:
 
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My first booking was an outcall and I didn't have a clue. I stood outside the hotel door for over 20 mins shaking and too scared to knock. He then rang and must have heard my phone outside as he opened the door. I took off running as fast as you can in 5inch heels and soon as I got home I took my profile down. It took another few weeks before I had the nerve to put it back up
 
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I was dead lucky, dead lucky, I mean really dead lucky, couldn't have found a nicer more knowledgeable escort. She's gone now but left her AW profile up.

http://www.adultwork.com/988163

She did the full GFE so I learned to snog again, her mother was a nurse so taught me all about what is safe, taught me punter etiquette like don't leave the toilet seat up, taught me about how to approach a wg and what not to say. She was quite unbelievable and I still hold her in high esteem. She remains in my archive hotlist but after 15 months I am sure she is gone for good. The candle burns while the profile remains. Please note her last look in was March but that was just one day, she left July 2014. Fortunately for me there have been many lovely ladies since but you do hold a special place for your first.
 
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I`d had 2 failed punts when I started and nearly saw me give up totally.
Then I contacted a girl on AW who had a load of good rep. She was great to me. Recommended me to her friend and slowly i built up confidence.
Had it not been for her I would probably have given up before I got started.
 
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My first punt was with a very experienced escort up here in the North East and was one of the NG's, its fair to say her OWO got to me before my boxers were off.


Sometimes that happens now........:drinks:
 
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I was nervous as hell before my first booking but thanks to some reviews and advice on UKP I made a good choice. She was a really good laugh and within the first few minutes the nervousness had gone.
 
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I was lucky with my first ... probably as I spent so long reading profiles on AW and agency sites to build up the courage.

Unfortunately she is no longer working, but the experience was amazing. She opened the door in lingerie and immediately wrapped herself round me to pull me into a DFK as she kicked the door closed. It only got better from there.
 
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I remember my first ever booking.
It was in seaham- in a flat above a hairdressers. I was working for an agency at the time but still didn't quite know what to expect or what to take with me.
The guy I seen is still on UKP now and he was wonderful. Gentle- aware I was shiny new and took his time.. He booked me for an hour and a half and I truly had an amazing time. He made me orgasm on his first attempt!!
I knew by the end of my first day that I was absolutely fine with everything and my morals didn't really play a part in it.

The saying goes that you'll know by the end of the first week usually if this line of work is for you- and it is so true xxx
 
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My first job was an outcall to a student flat. The client was visibly more nervous than me which helped me feel more comfortable, as I didn't realise at the time that punters would be nervous too. The booking was great, very relaxed and we had a great time. The only down side was that his room was horrendously dirty with no sheets on the bed etc. That certainly didn't put me off, but it is one of the reasons why I eventually decided to no longer visit homes.
 
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My first would have been comical for anyone who was watching (not that anyone was)... didn't have a clue, i was so nervous, shaking to start with with, I froze and when he was touching my boobs I didn't no how to react... he ended up walking out! He rang the agency I worked for told them I was too nervous... agency came over to have a word with me, asked me if I wanted to try again, which I did... I just went for it and smashed it! Loved it. Never looked back since.
 
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My first job was with a lovely guy at a shared house/brothel (now gone) in Victoria - I was indie, just using a room there. I was sooooo scared. I offered only vanilla services back then, and wasn't sure if I would even be able to remember how to open the condom...anyway, he was mid-40s, in London on business, nice looking, large round tummy, spoke freely about his wife and family (he punts, she has lesbian experiences) as they both wanted to stay together AND get the best out of life. We snogged, I sucked, he licked & fingered. Can't remember where he came - on my tits I think.

Totally shattered my mental image of what a typical punter looked/acted like.

But anyway. I went straight home and deleted my profile and web site and switched off my whore phone as the experience had left me feeling strangely freaked out. It was at least a few months (maybe even a year) before I started everything back up and offered bookings again. But this time I started camming as well, which helped immensely with talking to complete strangers who JUST want to fuck me.
 
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i had never heard of escorting and that it existed everywhere like i do now. It came about after reading all these sordid stories about celebs, footballers using escorts on tabloids. This was around 2000 when it was rife in the news. So much so there were many documentaries and programmes at that time, the more i read and watched the more i was curious, curiosity led to searching online and then inevitably the first punt. I remember it well, booked an hour, she left after 20mins as i was done and didn't know what to do after so told her to leave. I chose a milf called Christina, she came to my house in a porsche.....dressed in black over the knee boots, a leather dress that unzipped from the from to the bottom, a large fur coat and no knickers, me a youngster nervous as hell, like pigs to the slaughter, david vs goliath esq. needless to say now, am so cool, chilled before a punt, nerves of steel.
 
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My first time was with BustyNiki in Cardiff. I had been tempted to punt for about a year, studying AW, noting down girls numbers, typing them in then not calling in fear.
But one day, I bit the bullet, rang Niki on the train one day and never regretted it. She was friendly, pretty and we had a great time, worth every penny! Then I found UKP, found the HNDF and other girls. But that is another story..
 
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#16
I had booked an hotel for my first stint at it. I was very apprehensive but excited waiting for my first client. I followed all the guide lines suggested on saafe for my safety (thank god for that site). Then I stood behind the door with my eye glued to the spy hole. He knew I was new but was very helpful, giving me lots of tips. Next guy was again lovely and recited his own poetry for me, that was lovely. Then a hot stud, oh my. I was so elated at the end of the day I couldn't wait for the next day. I felt like I was in a bubble, it was such a high. And yes I wish I had started sooner.
 
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I remember my first client who i still see occasionally now. I was so fortunate he was an attractive guy in his late 20's it was like screwing a boyfriend alot of fun, but I was super nervous at the beginning. I couldn't believe what had happened at the end of the first day it was like a whirlwind. After the first day I never looked back.
 
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I'd done a lot of online dating over the previous years, so pretty much hit the ground running as I was used to talking to, and being intimate with, different types of men. My first booking was about as 'average' a client as you could imagine and it went fine, then the second was lovely and we really clicked. I think being older and experienced really helped me a lot.
 
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Got bored with swinging, things like water sports were never really played in the club's I attended and wanting to broaden my horizon and learn new things I decided to take the plunge and well I began my journey and still remain lol x
 
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My first was with the fabulous @-xhannahx- before she switched to massage (less than 18 months ago but seems like a world away). I was very nervous but she was so relaxed and friendly that the nerves vanished and within a few minutes I was getting my face snogged off, before she sank to her knees and said hello to Little MrB. Any performance anxiety went straight out the window and a very short time after that I had a view before me which was exactly like her avatar on here :yahoo:. It was a bit like an out of body experience at times, that feeling of 'I can't believe this is happening'. After that I never looked back and have had an absolute blast with many more gorgeous women. However that first time will always be an incredible memory.
 
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My first few were honestly pretty terrible (sorry to break your heart if you're reading.. as far as I'm aware none are members here). Not in a violent way or anything but I hadn't yet learned the art of trying to screen out those who were more into a PSE service. At the time I was freshly 18 and had only fucked a few people, so the aggressiveness/rough sex that I was immediately thrown into was quite shocking to the system. I was also generally nervous about the situation because money pressures etc., and life wasn't great back then. Things have changed dramatically in a year, I still have a long way to go in terms of confidence but I now enjoy myself more as I specifically cater to those seeking the kinds of services I like to give. :)
 
#25
My 1st was British Redhead, Ruby.
She was absolutely awesome.
My 1st review sounded so fluffy but still remains my best punt to date.
Shame she no longer works.
 
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40 years ago in the Rue St. Denis in Paris. I had never paid. Too proud - and in those days didn't need to. Also had not learnt the realities of renting rather than buying. But my business partner who I was with paid all the time and encouraged me.

I was attracted to a voluptuous lady, all black leather with a whip in her belt. When we got upstairs she had the full equipment - but I had not a clue about domination. So it ended up with a wank/blow job.

One of the many, many times I look back in anguish. The French of course have a phrase for it: "Si jeunesse savait; si viellesse pouvait." - If youth only knew;if age only could. Thank God I still can; but when I look back on my countless wasted opportunities I think of what an idiot I've been
 
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Mine was an outcall to a hotel. I was incredibly nervous and convinced that the hotel reception would stop me from getting to the lifts - thankfully, they didn't. I think it was a 2hr booking and he spent most of the time explaining his theories on dating and women. Nice guy but hard work! I don't think I took another booking for a couple of months because I was disappointed at how little fun my first experience had been. Thankfully they started to improve after that. :)
 
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I've remembered ..... After graduation I went travelling around the Far East with two mates. I was all "I'm not paying for it" on our first stop in Bangkok while my mates were bringing 2 or sometimes 3 girls back to their rooms. We went to Koh Samui for a week and I pulled a couple of Aussie back packers during the week. Rubbish, fumbling, rushed, crappy sex.
Back to Bangkok for two nights before travelling to Cambodia. I thought fuck it. Everyone else in the whole place is having fun, why not me. From that day, whatever my relationship status, I have never had a single qualm about mixing things up with paid for sex of one form or another.
 
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I broke up with my long term boyfriend and missed the sex and company.
One of my best friends suggested I try escorting as I've always had a ridiculously high sex drive and fancied older men but I just laughed and said "Don't be silly, I'm too ugly and my boobs are too small.. Nobody is going to want to pay for me!"..
I didn't even bother putting my phone number up or getting any professional photos taken as I never thought in a million years anybody would actually book but within a couple of weeks I was booked up for a month!

My first meeting wasn't a sexual meeting.. He didn't believe I was real and I didn't think he was either so he said he'd pay me to meet him for a coffee.. Lol!
I was so nervous but he was really nice and after chatting for an hour we arranged to meet up "properly" a couple of weeks later! ;)

It's all just been a bit of a crazy whirlwind since then!!! xxx
 
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I broke up with my long term boyfriend and missed the sex and company.
One of my best friends suggested I try escorting as I've always had a ridiculously high sex drive and fancied older men but I just laughed and said "Don't be silly, I'm too ugly and my boobs are too small.. Nobody is going to want to pay for me!"..
I didn't even bother putting my phone number up or getting any professional photos taken as I never thought in a million years anybody would actually book but within a couple of weeks I was booked up for a month!

My first meeting wasn't a sexual meeting.. He didn't believe I was real and I didn't think he was either so he said he'd pay me to meet him for a coffee.. Lol!
I was so nervous but he was really nice and after chatting for an hour we arranged to meet up "properly" a couple of weeks later! ;)

It's all just been a bit of a crazy whirlwind since then!!! xxx
Ugly? And small boobs are definitely under rated. I take it things took off for you? :rose:
 
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I broke up with my long term boyfriend and missed the sex and company.
One of my best friends suggested I try escorting as I've always had a ridiculously high sex drive and fancied older men but I just laughed and said "Don't be silly, I'm too ugly and my boobs are too small.. Nobody is going to want to pay for me!"..
I didn't even bother putting my phone number up or getting any professional photos taken as I never thought in a million years anybody would actually book but within a couple of weeks I was booked up for a month!

My first meeting wasn't a sexual meeting.. He didn't believe I was real and I didn't think he was either so he said he'd pay me to meet him for a coffee.. Lol!
I was so nervous but he was really nice and after chatting for an hour we arranged to meet up "properly" a couple of weeks later! ;)

It's all just been a bit of a crazy whirlwind since then!!! xxx
Speaking of professional photos.. I check your website regularly hoping that page will pop up. Am I being an optimist?
 
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Remember it was with a Spanish girl in a Newcastle hotel, was nervous and didn't have a clue worried I wouldn't be able to finish and ended up finishing after about 10 seconds and she couldn't believe it! Looking back on my about 60 meets since then and realise how far I've come bedroom wise that I wouldn't of without punting
 
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Ugly? And small boobs are definitely under rated. I take it things took off for you? :rose:
Aww thanks dg.. :rose:xxx

Speaking of professional photos.. I check your website regularly hoping that page will pop up. Am I being an optimist?
Lol! Never say never! I'm just so busy and as the lack of pro photos have never made a difference to my volume of enquiries, it's not particularly high on my list of priorities.. Besides, I get really shy when other people get their camera out!
I'm just going to concentrate on improving my comms for now and trying not to piss any more people off! Lol.. xxx
 
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Aww thanks dg.. :rose:xxx



Lol! Never say never! I'm just so busy and as the lack of pro photos have never made a difference to my volume of enquiries, it's not particularly high on my list of priorities.. Besides, I get really shy when other people get their camera out!
I'm just going to concentrate on improving my comms for now and trying not to piss any more people off! Lol.. xxx
Personally I prefer amateur selfie type photos on a profile. I'm also gutted that I've recently changed jobs as my last one took me to Bristol quite a bit. Mind you that's my neck of the woods, born in Bradford-on-Avon, so I could always visit family :cool:
 
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I've only had 4 meetings, the first I was incredibly nervous and a total noob! I really didn't now what was expected (well to a degree!!) but I didn't have a good time and not convinced she was all there! Very strange behaviour and I'm sure she'd had a few drinks or something! I took it all onboard and more or less decided to not do it again but met a lovely woman via a lucky RB on AW and it was amazing and great fun and my last two meets were great and felt like a regular girlfriend who really looked after me. I've no doubt that with connections made on here I'll have a much better time going forward than my first encounter. I'll still be nervous though!!!
 
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I prefer amateur selfie type photos on a profile
:thumbsup:Agreed. So much more natural and offers a glimpse of what to expect.
I see p'shopped and it's instant turn-off.
Even someone as highly regarded as Emily's Crème Brûlée is off-radar because of such non-necessities. (Not that my lack of custom makes a difference)
 
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So both @Little Katie and @Lindsey_xxx say that they felt that they weren't attractive enough at the beginning. Hopefully by now you've both had enough attention and compliments to dissuade you of that notion, though that the irrational side of oneself can be hard to overcome by paltry things like mere evidence :)

More generally, I'd like to say that I think most women would be surprised by how attractive men find them. I've heard or read more than a few escorts saying that this business can be very good for self confidence.
 
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@Little Katie and @Lindsey_xxx A girl's attraction & popularity to men also comes from not only physical attractiveness and 'aptitude' towards escorting but your 'attitude' to the job ie how much you immerse & enjoy yourself with a client:hi: When that happens, even what you consider your tiny imperfections become much more attractive:thumbsup:So your attractiveness, aptitude as well as attitude determines one's altitude:)
 
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:thumbsup:Agreed. So much more natural and offers a glimpse of what to expect.
I see p'shopped and it's instant turn-off.
Even someone as highly regarded as Emily's Crème Brûlée is off-radar because of such non-necessities. (Not that my lack of custom makes a difference)
I agree, I definitely prefer a "selfie" to an unrealistically edited image but a "professional" photographer should be able to capture an honest yet beautiful image without needing to get heavy handed with photoshop.
 
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I was lucky with my first punt. I think she still may escort in the south west, as she advertised on AW last year. The booking was made after taking a punt on her website. Tall, blonde, leggy - booked for 2 hours and her friendly attitude and her looks knocked me for six!

Strangely, I haven't had the inclination to book her again, as I enjoy the memory of an excellent first punt.
 
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My first punt was pre-UKP. I was incredibly nervous but the charming girl took me in hand. I've learnt a bit more since then, and been lucky thanks to UKP and now this site! I wouldn't go back to that 1st punt cos she's too expensive now!
 
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My first experience wasn't really a punt, but a rub n tug, but it opened up the world of punting to me.

I was in Bali. The girls there are stunning, tanned, slim and just gorgeous, I have a thing for Asian girls, but the ones in Bali were among the most beautiful. Everywhere you go in Bali, you get these amazing looking girls asking if you want a massage.

One afternoon, I'd snuck away from the OH and was on a walk. This stunning girl called Rosemary, she pretty much grabbed me and dragged me into her massage parlor. I get inside and she DFK me...I was shocked tbh, never had that before. Any ways, I get naked and lay on the bed thing.

I get a fanatic massage, when she flips me over, I remember her kissing me, as I'm fingering her and she's wanking me off. It was amazing, since it was my first experience and she was stunningly good looking...way out of my league!

The hour cost me about £4, but I paid her £10. I wish I could have gone back, but I didn't get the chance. I came home and found AW and the rest is history.
 
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My first was in a parlour in Edinburgh. I'd passed it lots of times in ordinary 'civvy' life and I grew to wonder what it would be like. One day the curiosity got too much for me: I had a luxurious bath and got thoroughly clean and smelling nice; I got dressed and then phoned the parlour to find out how much for a 'massage', then left the house.

It took me about an hour to cover a fifteen to twenty minute journey, humming and hawing and nearly backing out more than once. Luckily it was a nice summer's day. Eventually I arrived, worked up my courage, and went in.

You pay a fee at the door in these saunas, which I did, and went in. A gorgeous, scantily clad lady showed me past several others to the dressing room where I got changed into a robe.

I remember sitting for ages in the lounge thinking 'how can I choose?'. Physically I fancied them all, but it wasn't picking someone I fancied that worried me: I worried more about hurting the feelings of those I didn't pick.

Now even then I knew that these ladies had to go through this little routine several times a day, and that if it hurt too much they would probably not be in this job, but still, it must sting a little bit?

Anyway, I slowly came out of my nervous shell and started chatting. I picked a girl who chatted back. I remember she was taller than I would usually go for, long curly hair, big boobs, though that's not why I picked her.

She showed me a thing or two :)

After that I became a bit of a regular and the rest, as they say, us history.
 
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#49
After much thought and research over about 2yrs (on & off, cos didn't initially want to take plunge as didn't think reality would live upto fantasy), my first booking was for 1hr through NG with Illie (http://www.adultwork.com/insatiableillie87).

After all these years, for a few reasons it's one booking I've never forgotten (not just for the obvious)... I was nervous but her whole attitude was perfect, and, frankly I think many ladies could learn a few things by working with or watching her work etc. For first timers, or experience punters - she takes some bettering!

From the initial kiss (& lots of it too), to taking you by the hand & leading you to be bedroom... She wasn't a come once and your out the door/I'm getting clothes on/turn cold & dis-interested lady like I've had few times since. Nor was the flat a grubby, s***-hole with stains on sheets, cold room, an just all-round totally un-welcoming place that you couldn't relax or feel comfortable in (how many NE'er's have been in such a place??)

Now very, few ladies get Highly praised yet when I've seen them they don't seem to have the right attitude to job or come close - which puts me off the whole thing (I had 5 bookings with 'Notorious Girls' - all Brilliant with amazing ladies).

Never seen Illie since, no fault of her own mind plus I've heard from many over the years she gets wilder the more you see her! Gulp...

Thanks again, Illie! :D
 
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After much thought and research over about 2yrs (on & off, cos didn't initially want to take plunge as didn't think reality would live upto fantasy), my first booking was for 1hr through NG with Illie (http://www.adultwork.com/insatiableillie87).

After all these years, for a few reasons it's one booking I've never forgotten (not just for the obvious)... I was nervous but her whole attitude was perfect, and, frankly I think many ladies could learn a few things by working with or watching her work etc. For first timers, or experience punters - she takes some bettering!

From the initial kiss (& lots of it too), to taking you by the hand & leading you to be bedroom... She wasn't a come once and your out the door/I'm getting clothes on/turn cold & dis-interested lady like I've had few times since. Nor was the flat a grubby, s***-hole with stains on sheets, cold room, an just all-round totally un-welcoming place that you couldn't relax or feel comfortable in (how many NE'er's have been in such a place??)

Now very, few ladies get Highly praised yet when I've seen them they don't seem to have the right attitude to job or come close - which puts me off the whole thing (I had 5 bookings with 'Notorious Girls' - all Brilliant with amazing ladies).

Never seen Illie since, no fault of her own mind plus I've heard from many over the years she gets wilder the more you see her! Gulp...

Thanks again, Illie! :D
Sorry to go all UKP on here. Interesting I can't see any photos on her profile and it says face pics in private gallery but she has no private gallery.
 
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