Things you ONLY do in your working life

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We all know there are things we do in our personal lives that we won't do for work - are there any you do for work that you don't do in civvie life? For me it's seeing married men. In my personal life I try and avoid being "the other woman" but in work I turn a blind eye because I figure if they're booking an escort they're going to do it anyway, so why not with me? If someone is paying for my time and discretion I won't pry into their personal life - that's their business. When it becomes part of MY personal life, I suddenly become a lot more cautious about it. Is that odd? Is there anything you don't do for fun that you do for work?
 
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I don't think it's odd at all. I met a girl once who wouldn't do CIM as she save that for her boyfriend. It's good to draw a distinction between work and personal lives I think. You're right about married men. I see escorts because I enjoy sex with others but have no interest in having an affair and all the emotional stuff it would bring. I save that for Mrs tcm.

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Yeah there's plenty I do in my personal life that I don't do for work (full bondage on me etc) I'm just curious about the other way round - things you don't do in your personal life but you would for work. It could be as innocuous as wearing stockings if you secretly hate them or even be "sex with men" if you only do it for work and have no civvie sex life or only normally sleep with women etc x
 
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Drink. I've been single for a long long time so for me, in civvie world I have to have quite a few drinks in me before I feel confident enough to do anything, whether that's a date or a one night stand, whereas in work, I'll have a glass of wine on a sat night about once a month and that's it for me, I really can't stand being drunk on the job, it's risky enough.

And have multiple showers - it's a great habit to have now though as when I do something outside of work, I HAVE to shower before, I wasn't so bothered before this job, as horrendous as that sounds. It just doesn't seem the norm to insist on a shower before anything happens
 
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Day to day I don't wear make-up, stockings or suspenders. Regards services I don't put fingers up bums in my personal life, I also don't do snowballing or spanking. These I only do when I'm being paid and only if/when requested.
 
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Drink. I've been single for a long long time so for me, in civvie world I have to have quite a few drinks in me before I feel confident enough to do anything, whether that's a date or a one night stand, whereas in work, I'll have a glass of wine on a sat night about once a month and that's it for me, I really can't stand being drunk on the job, it's risky enough.

And have multiple showers - it's a great habit to have now though as when I do something outside of work, I HAVE to shower before, I wasn't so bothered before this job, as horrendous as that sounds. It just doesn't seem the norm to insist on a shower before anything happens
Think I read the OP a little wrong, no idea what I'm going on about here :D

Note to self - don't post when you're half asleep
 
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I don't think it's odd at all. I met a girl once who wouldn't do CIM as she save that for her boyfriend. It's good to draw a distinction between work and personal lives I think. You're right about married men. I see escorts because I enjoy sex with others but have no interest in having an affair and all the emotional stuff it would bring. I save that for Mrs tcm.

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I do that too (though not for a boyfriend as don't have time for one lol). I like having an invisible line so that both work sex and non-work sex are different. I think I'm more giving in work sex lol :D

Oh and I never wear dresses outside of work!
 
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Make-up is probably the main one for me - I never used to wear it regularly, even for e.g. a first date.

I would also say stockings, but unfortunately one of my FWBs loves them, and my other one has a tights fetish! :blush:
 
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We all know there are things we do in our personal lives that we won't do for work - are there any you do for work that you don't do in civvie life? For me it's seeing married men. In my personal life I try and avoid being "the other woman" but in work I turn a blind eye because I figure if they're booking an escort they're going to do it anyway, so why not with me? If someone is paying for my time and discretion I won't pry into their personal life - that's their business. When it becomes part of MY personal life, I suddenly become a lot more cautious about it. Is that odd? Is there anything you don't do for fun that you do for work?
I'd imagine that if you didn't see married men business would be a bit quiet.

Actually this might be a good subject for a vote.
What percentage of men (who tell you) are married or in a relationship?
 
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Have sex!!! No seriously I tend to offer the same things. If I like something in my private life then it means I enjoy it so will offer it in work too as it makes it more enjoyable for me. Make up however is the one thing I never wear in my private life and struggle to wear when working as my skin hates it and my eyes dislike mascara. So now I just have my lashes tinted and rarely put make up on. High heels. That is the one thing I don't wear in my private life anymore simply because I cant but I still manage them for work as I have to walk very little in them
 
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Similar to a lot of others - make-up and dressing up.

Sexwise I don't do anything differently, if I offer it then I enjoy it so I'll do it in both work and personal life.
 
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I don't think there's anything different. :( It's more what I do in my personal life that I don't do in my working life. This makes me feel a little bad actually, I definitely need to look into learning new skills...
 
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Bloody tidying up! haha. My place is usually chaotic during the week, with textbooks, papers and all sorts lying around. As I'm part time and don't have set working hours/days, it's as much about getting all that stuff sorted as it is about getting groomed and glammed up :D:D
+1 lol
 
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Here I am on a "for the escorts" thread again, sorry all :(

Bloody tidying up! haha. My place is usually chaotic during the week, with textbooks, papers and all sorts lying around. As I'm part time and don't have set working hours/days, it's as much about getting all that stuff sorted as it is about getting groomed and glammed up :D:D
I know how you feel about tidying the place up, Sonia.
Not textbooks, papers et al lying around for me, but just the trying to make my usually untidy home "nice" for her to relax and feel comfortable in when she visits me here.
Change the bed linen, put out extra fresh towels and shower and shave self ( everywhere ) just before she arrives :D, and try my best to make her feel welcome.
She seems to appreciate my efforts from the way she relaxes and enjoys her time here with me ( I truly believe :lol:), as she gets "groomed and glammed up" as you put it, for me when she arrives here ( shower for her then sexy lingerie before the main event(s) ), but one of my favourite times is next morning, post shower ( often shared :wacko:), as she gets ready to leave, and sits on my bedroom floor, wrapped in towels and getting ready for her next day as she goes from no make-up at all to fully "glammed up"in front of my very eyes, without a hint of being shy, except for perhaps when she is entirely without make-up.
Do you girls realise that we chaps can appreciate your natural sexual attractiveness, even when you're not "glammed up", and more your normal selves ?
 
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Must be the only punter who is not a fan of stockings, heels, suspenders, hold ups, copious amounts of make up, etc.

Nothing hotter than a woman with minimal make up on and little or no underwear protecting her lady parts :yahoo:
 
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"Must be the only punter who is not a fan of stockings, heels, suspenders, hold ups, copious amounts of make up, etc.

Nothing hotter than a woman with minimal make up on and little or no underwear protecting her lady parts "



- same here, I can't stand all that stuff. I prefer girls with no makeup, or maybe just a little eyeliner. And wearing just a t-shirt & cotton panties.
 
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