The G Spot - Real or Fake?

Do you have a G spot?

  • Yes

    Votes: 17 65.4%
  • No

    Votes: 3 11.5%
  • Maybe but never found it yet

    Votes: 6 23.1%

  • Total voters
    26
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#1
OK so the fingering thread got me thinking. The jury's still out on the existence of the G Spot. I'm interested to know escorts' views on the matter, given that you're more likely than most to have found it. So what do you think?
 
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#5
Why don't WGs actually advertise it?

Most men wouldn't know where their wives/girlfriends' g-spots are so would be immensely interested if a WG would allow them to stimulate hers.

So, if it exists, why isn't that service provided and advertised?
 
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#12
Took four fingers to find it though from what I heard - now that's dedication. There's a Kitkat joke waiting to be told but I'll give it a miss for now.

We had an apprentice once we used to call kitkat cause he was always on a break...dont think raddy got called kitkat for the same reason somehow!!!!
 
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#19
Honestly, I'm not sure. I come ridiculously easily, but I'm not sure it's associated with a particular zone in the vagina.
 
#23
definitely real, used to have a vibe called the corkscrew which spun around, it was excellent for stimulating it

or laying face down the guy straddling me, he stays perfectly still & let's me fuck him, I can stimulate it that way
 
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#25
Why don't WGs actually advertise it?

Most men wouldn't know where their wives/girlfriends' g-spots are so would be immensely interested if a WG would allow them to stimulate hers.

So, if it exists, why isn't that service provided and advertised?
Possibly because we dont really want to have guys foraging around unable to find it and thinking its all about getting the fingers as deep as possible, its not, its only a little way in and on the front wall, similar location to a guys prostate spot except thats in his bum
 
#26
When I was about 25(many yrs ago) I met a lady through a contact mag (remember them?) and she made me read a bloody book before I was allowed to touch her, she was about 45 and knew what she liked and the book was called ' The Graffenberg spot ', hope I have spelled that right. Anyway it was all about the Gspot and she believed in it and after our first try at it so did I and I still do. It is a wonderful thing to witness it happening for a lady for the first time. A couple of yrs ago I with a very experienced lady in her 40's who hadnt 'gushed or squirted' before, she screamed that much her next door neighbour knocked on her door to make sure she was ok ! So yes it does exist.
 
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#29
I have the same senation! To make me squirt I need it in my arse though... I think my anatomy is wrong and I ended up with a prostate ;) x
Leaving aside for a moment the massive horn this gives me, I do wonder whether the 'need to pee' sensation mentioned by Dani and Chloe might be the beginning of a squirt. Do either of you ladies squirt, and if so is that something different to this?
 
#30
Leaving aside for a moment the massive horn this gives me, I do wonder whether the 'need to pee' sensation mentioned by Dani and Chloe might be the beginning of a squirt. Do either of you ladies squirt, and if so is that something different to this?
I have squirted five times in my life and every time I had the same need to pee sensation and then I realised it wasn't pee... Every time I needed something in my arse though :P
 
#31
I have squirted five times in my life and every time I had the same need to pee sensation and then I realised it wasn't pee... Every time I needed something in my arse though :P
My experience is that before a lady squirts they do feel like they are gonna pee and for some that is too much thats why it is important that trust is established and the lady is willing to let herself get passed that feeling.
 
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#33
Oh yes it exists alright, now whether it exists/works the same way in every woman is a different matter, along with the usual sex begins on the brain thing. So maybe if your an ugly smelly 40 stone punter, I think you may "struggle" finding it!!!!!!
(sorry ugly smelly 40 stone punters..no offence):D
 
#34
Relative attractiveness has nothing to do with my sexual pleasure. I've never found my G spot, I do however know what gets me going so very much like the sex toys I'm not interested in wasting more time looking, I'd rather do the things that I know work.
Oh yes it exists alright, now whether it exists/works the same way in every woman is a different matter, along with the usual sex begins on the brain thing. So maybe if your an ugly smelly 40 stone punter, I think you may "struggle" finding it!!!!!!
(sorry ugly smelly 40 stone punters..no offence):D
 
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#35
Funnily enough I had this conversation with a girl last night. I think that the recent obsession with squirting is down to the need to show the point of climax on-screen in porn, which was why the "money shot" facial became more popular than the internal climax, because it couldn't be seen on screen. There then came a demand to see that women had actually climaxed too and because some women do squirt this was then demanded from female porn stars who couldn't do it so peed instead. The copious amounts of fluid ejected could come from nowhere else but the bladder and a good soaking seems to be required for porn shoots that would be impossible to produce from the skene's gland (or female prostate).

Year's before the vogue for squirting in porn I did used to see a WG who when we had sex with her over her massage table and me taking her from behind used to have to ask me to stop because she felt as if she was about to wet herself, but in my many years of punting this is the only lady who has come close to a genuine squirt. So I think that it does exist, but perhaps is not very common
 
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#36
Thanks Lindsey, that was really informative.

I knew about the erectile tissue and the skene's gland (referred to as the female prostate in the article). I also knew that squirting as the result of an orgasm results in a *lot* less fluid than porn would have us believe.

I didn't know about the connection to the urethra or the potential for squirting without an associated orgasm.
 
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#38
It is a bit tedious being asked if I squirt: as noted above, it's actually very rare. What does very occasionally happen with me is that I'll suddenly feel some warmth, think the man has come, but it's actually me - I release perhaps about a teaspoon's worth of liquid as I climax during penetration. But it only happens every couple of months, if that.
 
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#39
So do and some don't. Usually the girl will say if you are doing something right and she is appreciating being stimulated in that area.
It's quite easy to find, but not so easy to work out what each lady requires to stimulate this area.
Generally a soft and gentle approach seems to help.

Also, the lady may not be quite as receptive as you had hoped, if she has had a number of other clients before you.
Chemistry towards you, how she feels, time of day, all sorts of things come into play.
 
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#40
I was always sure it was pee. The female anatomy if pretty well understood and for girls to have a hitherto unknown "squirt" bladder capable of holding a significant amount of fluid is ridiculous.

I mean, in evolutionary terms, why would it even exist?
 
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#41
Have I got this correct?

Squirting is a bit of urine that is the result of feeling the urge to pee through sexual excitement and not resisting the urge
And
Female ejaculation is the production of a pronounced amount of vaginal secretion at the point of orgasm thicker than a squirt ( which I would class under the phrase to gush)

I have had experience of both on occasions - squirting has the unique sound of urinating associated with it - you can hear it happening

The female ejaculation in my experience produces a noise as a result of increased secretion - more a squelchy (sorry!) noise

Close? Or no banana?
 
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#45
Possibly because we dont really want to have guys foraging around unable to find it and thinking its all about getting the fingers as deep as possible, its not, its only a little way in and on the front wall, similar location to a guys prostate spot except thats in his bum
I think I've found the g-spot for my fave which tallies very closely with your description of where it is, Chloe, and thank you for that :).

I don't even have a clue where my own prostrate gland is, apart from knowing it's "somewhere up my backside". Maybe a bit like your guys "foraging around", Chloe, but no-one is ever likely to find it as I, personally, don't want anything to do with "bottoms" male or female, except to admire a nicely shaped female one from time to time, but without the desire to "get into it".
Maybe I'm odd on this one, but a bit to close to homosexuality ( which I tolerate for those who 'can't help themselves' but don't like for promiscuous men " just trying it for it's own sake" ) for my own liking, and if my creator also created a specific place in the female body designed especially to give me sexual pleasure ( and sometimes procreate too ), and it's tight enough to give me pleasure and well muscle toned enough to give me a nice squeeze at just the right time, then why ever would I want to get into her waste disposal unit ?

As I said already, just my personal opinion, and it doesn't prevent me from enjoying oral, both ways, as a prelude to the main event ( for me ) of having my little chap enjoying himself inside a tight, slippery and well muscled vagina.
 
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#46
IMO that is correct, they are two different things.

Female ejaculate is as you described and looks a little like this-

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I do know that when my lady orgasms, she produces a lot of " Lady Juices" :D. Too much or me to get all onto my tongue or into my mouth, and some then makes my chin all slippery . Even then, there's some over to flow down her own bum, and make an unfortunate "wet patch" on the sheet, which she's not happy about being on "her side" of the bed, and where I expect her to sleep. One one occasion it was such a large wet patch that she refused to sleep on it herself and we changed sides of the bed, and I slept there, got all stuck to it to the extent that the sheet "followed me out of bed" (stuck to my thigh) the next morning :lol:.

Speaking only from my own experience, and not for a moment doubting other accounts, I have very rarely known genuine "squirting".:(. Yes - Ive been pissed on a couple of times by girls who claimed to be "squirting", but it's the tell tale and unique smell of urine that gives these lying charlatans away, IMO. Sorry to the ladies on this forum - I'm not suggesting that any of you who post on here would stoop to such a despicable "con", as this all took place many years ago anyway.

Are more modern ladies more likely and able to squirt, I ask myself ( and all you gals and guys on here too ) than the girls of yesteryear when the idea of this was less of a hot topic and fashionable idea ?

For myself, it's not a biggie ( unfortunate pun :lol: ) and the aforementioned flow ( rather than "squirt" ) of lady cum juice is all I ever want or need, personally.
 
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#48
IMO that is correct, they are two different things.

Female ejaculate is as you described and looks a little like this-

View attachment 111
Thanks Lindsey. I was always curious what a female squirt actually is and the study you quoted clearly proves it is urine. That's 'evidence based medicine' by you! Is there a difference in the pleasure a girl actually feels during an orgasm, squirting and female ejaculation?
 
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#49
I can only speak for myself here, but as I said previously, the two things are very DIFFERENT for me.

Squirting gives a feeling of 'release', as it subsequently 'releases' the aforementioned fluid mixture (urine and prostatic secretions).
If the woman is relaxed this can be pleasurable, but in my experience, it is not an orgasm.

When I cum/climax/orgasm, I most easily do so through simultaneous clitoral and G-spot stimulation. This is extremely pleasurable and leads to intense spasms/contractions (which can be felt by myself and any probing fingers).

These orgasms lead to the sticky cum/female ejaculate previously described/shown above.
Thanks. That all makes sense now & very helpful. So am I correct in thinking a 'multiple orgasm' is one orgasm followed by the others in very short succession, initiated by the first one like a nuclear chain reaction, as opposed to just one long orgasm?
 
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#50
I think I've found the g-spot for my fave which tallies very closely with your description of where it is, Chloe, and thank you for that :).

I don't even have a clue where my own prostrate gland is, apart from knowing it's "somewhere up my backside". Maybe a bit like your guys "foraging around", Chloe, but no-one is ever likely to find it as I, personally, don't want anything to do with "bottoms" male or female, except to admire a nicely shaped female one from time to time, but without the desire to "get into it".
Maybe I'm odd on this one, but a bit to close to homosexuality ( which I tolerate for those who 'can't help themselves' but don't like for promiscuous men " just trying it for it's own sake" ) for my own liking, and if my creator also created a specific place in the female body designed especially to give me sexual pleasure ( and sometimes procreate too ), and it's tight enough to give me pleasure and well muscle toned enough to give me a nice squeeze at just the right time, then why ever would I want to get into her waste disposal unit ?

As I said already, just my personal opinion, and it doesn't prevent me from enjoying oral, both ways, as a prelude to the main event ( for me ) of having my little chap enjoying himself inside a tight, slippery and well muscled vagina.
Its literally a couple of inches in and if you were laying on your back searching for it you would have to hook your finger upwards towards your abdomen. It just feels like a thickening in the wall thats all, its not a lump. Prostates are like g spots, some are sensative, some are almost numb so a guy cant work out what the fuss is all about
 
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