PSE or GFE?

PSE or GFE?


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#4
What would you say defines the difference between the two in particular? I know GFE is more 'tame/vanilla' but is there one specific activity that makes PSE different? I mean, you get Porn stars that make fairly 'vanilla' porn movies... :unknown:
 
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#5
Do you have a preference? I offer both but personally I prefer the PSE side of things...
As a punter it depends on what I fancy, sometimes it will be a GFE and sometimes a PSE and of course there are overlaps between the two. Also they might mean different things to different people. I see a GFE as more relaxed and a PSE as an all-out hour of filth (hopefully) which might include Rimming me and dirty talk which I like if done well with no silly giggles, the ex-pornstar Keira Pharrell has been the best at this in my experience and she has a husky voice which is even better.
 
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#8
i really don't care, what make a punt above everything else is that the girl has a bit of enthusiasm about it, a bonus is if she's a right filthy little fucker anarl
 
#9
GFE I consider to be very gentle fucking, more missionary, lots of kissing, maybe more talking than sex.
PSE I consider to be pounding hard, maybe doggy style, deepthroating, anal etc and any dirty talk.

I much prefer being fucked hard than the kissy kissy stuff. When I'm horny I just want to be filled with cock, not have someone being gentle with me...

But I know some people hate rough sex and prefer the vanilla side of things. Thought I'd see what people preferred!
 
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#12
Utterly filthy GFE for me:D

Had a few PSE but they all felt very choreographed - a filthy GFE has all the filth thrown in but flows better:drinks:
 
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#13
GFE I consider to be very gentle fucking, more missionary, lots of kissing, maybe more talking than sex.
PSE I consider to be pounding hard, maybe doggy style, deepthroating, anal etc and any dirty talk.

I much prefer being fucked hard than the kissy kissy stuff. When I'm horny I just want to be filled with cock, not have someone being gentle with me...

But I know some people hate rough sex and prefer the vanilla side of things. Thought I'd see what people preferred!
Does that include the things I like about you other than your writing style Jessica:D
 
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#14
GFE I consider to be very gentle fucking, more missionary, lots of kissing, maybe more talking than sex.
PSE I consider to be pounding hard, maybe doggy style, deepthroating, anal etc and any dirty talk.

I much prefer being fucked hard than the kissy kissy stuff. When I'm horny I just want to be filled with cock, not have someone being gentle with me...

But I know some people hate rough sex and prefer the vanilla side of things. Thought I'd see what people preferred!
God I love it when women say things like that :yahoo:
 
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#16
I don't know what you would call mines then haha I feel now after reading these a tad out there lol
GFE and PSE mixed think I'll change my profile to saying its a bit of both instead of one or the other :)
 
#17
GFE is well explained as a more vanilla, slower kissing experience.

For me PSE doesn't have to include anal. Filthy/dirty talk, fast,hard, deep and urgent sex, with a little experimentation on a little rough or more, depending on what limits are agreed.
 
#18
I think everyone has a different idea of what a GFE is. A GFE has to be tame to me, so whilst a bit of both is possible, a "kinky GFE" sounds like an oxymoron.

Still, who says your girlfriend can't be a horny fuck who just wants to be told what a dirty whore she is and fucked hard... So I guess there's always potential for a hybrid. Personally, I always get more excited about bookings where they say they want an hour of filthy fun than an hour of gentle teasing and kisses. Don't get me wrong, there's a time and a place for everything and I can enjoy a good GFE, but for me that's the one that feels a little more constructed - we've just met. In my mind you're more likely to want to fuck a stranger than smooch them. Maybe I'm just too horny though ;)
 
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#20
Sometimes pure sensual GFE does for me, but every now and again I like to inject a bit of kinkyness like whips, spanking, chocking, hair pulling etc. I think DT, CIM and facial fits within the GFE experience but it's not essential.
 
#22
All these people saying GFE and then talking about some very horny things! Maybe I don't understand what a GFE is?? Haha! Maybe I do more GFE than I think I do. I just think if you're swallowing cum and taking it from behind it's the kind of thing I watch in porn....
 
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#23
All these people saying GFE and then talking about some very horny things! Maybe I don't understand what a GFE is?? Haha! Maybe I do more GFE than I think I do. I just think if you're swallowing cum and taking it from behind it's the kind of thing I watch in porn....
Think that's a valid point; what is the true definition of each? However in my experience within a fairly unadventurous relationship where sex is concerned, CIM and facials are pretty standard fare even for my OH; in no way could you describe our sex as porn. :hi:
 
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#24
I don't know what you would call mines then haha I feel now after reading these a tad out there lol
GFE and PSE mixed think I'll change my profile to saying its a bit of both instead of one or the other :)
Well you have the advantage of offering both with, presumably, anything in between the two. Surely that's most punters catered for :thumbsup:
 
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#25
All these people saying GFE and then talking about some very horny things! Maybe I don't understand what a GFE is?? Haha! Maybe I do more GFE than I think I do. I just think if you're swallowing cum and taking it from behind it's the kind of thing I watch in porn....
No that to me is raunchy GFE - PSE to me is more straight into the naughty stuff with very little warm up, OTT dirty talk OTT spreading of legs etc more of an exhibition that's why I have found my experiences somewhat choreographed
What you describe Jessica is, to me, a raunchy GFE experience that builds up in intensity throughout - good girl Jessica :thumbsup:
 
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#26
Think that's a valid point; what is the true definition of each? However in my experience within a fairly unadventurous relationship where sex is concerned, CIM and facials are pretty standard fare even for my OH; in no way could you describe our sex as porn. :hi:
I think a lot of it depends on the way it is done too: sensual, slow doggie (GFE) compared to a hard, fast, pounding doggie (PSE). A lot of stuff could easily be included in both.
 
#27
No that to me is raunchy GFE - PSE to me is more straight into the naughty stuff with very little warm up, OTT dirty talk OTT spreading of legs etc more of an exhibition that's why I have found my experiences somewhat choreographed
What you describe Jessica is, to me, a raunchy GFE experience that builds up in intensity throughout - good girl Jessica :thumbsup:
Mmm I love being called a good girl...

I think I must just do a filthy GFE then... But I do love it filthy...

I think of GFE as something you do to satisfy an emotional need and PSE as something to get your rocks off. I like getting off, but I guess if I look at it from your perspective I'm just doing a horny GFE...

Now you're making me wonder what the difference is haha!
 
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#28
No that to me is raunchy GFE - PSE to me is more straight into the naughty stuff with very little warm up, OTT dirty talk OTT spreading of legs etc more of an exhibition that's why I have found my experiences somewhat choreographed
What you describe Jessica is, to me, a raunchy GFE experience that builds up in intensity throughout - good girl Jessica :thumbsup:
Ooh 'dirty talk' no thanks. I know how big my cock is; I know I'm the hottest guy you've ever met; and yes, I intend to fuck you hard :dash:
 
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#29
PSE for me, but that means adventurous, dirty, filthy but respectful with it. Got to have loads of DFK done with vigour and no inhibition's.
Use of fingers in pussy and ass and plenty of tongue action also a must. Sloppy deep blowjobs and a CIM finish. I will try anything once, :P

I have tried GFE with loads of kissing and talking and it is ok, but not me. In fact Mandy says it HAS to be PSE next time even though we both enjoyed the GFE. :wacko:

So Dirty PSE for me....

Raddy
 
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#30
Ooh 'dirty talk' no thanks. I know how big my cock is; I know I'm the hottest guy you've ever met; and yes, I intend to fuck you hard :dash:
Especially when it's non stop!!!! The occasional dirty thing said out of the blue to shock is a turn on though

I had one girl look me in the eyes and whisper
"give me your load, I know it's about to happen - your balls have gone all tight" - I blew there and then!!! :D
 
#31
I get really shy about dirty talk, but that just turns me on more. When a client says "talk dirty to me" I'll probably blush, but it turns me on to no end to have to tell him how much I want to swallow his cum... I don't tend to talk dirty much unless asked to though.

One thing I used to love was until recently being able to ask "so when was the last time you fucked a teenager?" And see their reaction - priceless and different every time. And always seemed to stiffen the cock... I'm so sad to be 20 now :(
 
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#32
PSE for me, but that means adventurous, dirty, filthy but respectful with it. Got to have loads of DFK done with vigour and no inhibition's.
Use of fingers in pussy and ass and plenty of tongue action also a must. Sloppy deep blowjobs and a CIM finish. I will try anything once, :P

I have tried GFE with loads of kissing and talking and it is ok, but not me. In fact Mandy says it HAS to be PSE next time even though we both enjoyed the GFE. :wacko:

So Dirty PSE for me....

Raddy
What you describe Raddy is just vanilla ex in my eyes

Perhaps we should add that as a category

Vanilla Sex Experience (VSE)
 
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#33
Think that's a valid point; what is the true definition of each? However in my experience within a fairly unadventurous relationship where sex is concerned, CIM and facials are pretty standard fare even for my OH; in no way could you describe our sex as porn. :hi:
As I posted these terms might mean different things to different people, there is no exact definition, just peoples opinions of what they mean to them.
 
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#34
I get really shy about dirty talk, but that just turns me on more. When a client says "talk dirty to me" I'll probably blush, but it turns me on to no end to have to tell him how much I want to swallow his cum... I don't tend to talk dirty much unless asked to though.

One thing I used to love was until recently being able to ask "so when was the last time you fucked a teenager?" And see their reaction - priceless and different every time. And always seemed to stiffen the cock... I'm so sad to be 20 now :(
Shy? - bollocks!!!!
That sounds pretty bloody good to me!!!:thumbsup:
 
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#35
Especially when it's non stop!!!! The occasional dirty thing said out of the blue to shock is a turn on though

I had one girl look me in the eyes and whisper
"give me your load, I know it's about to happen - your balls have gone all tight" - I blew there and then!!! :D
Thats true. Less is definitely more with dirty talk. The right thing said in a convincing way can tip me over the edge. I can't stand the fake "more, more, more!" stuff. I can't give you any more, you're already taking the lot. It's a cock not a fucking telescope!! :D
 
#37
For me a GFE means lots of kissing and sensual foreplay but it doesn't mean that there should be more talk than action. As regards the fucking, it could be slow or fast but hopefully not gentle. The BJ can be more gentle but it is great to have deep throat thrown in when you least expect it. I do enjoy giving a facial too, when I can find the discipline to pull out. Otherwise cum in mouth or (covered) cum in pussy are great.So that's my definition of a GFE. I would think of a PSE as being more frenetic from the outset and with exaggerated dirty talk.
 
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#41
The lines are definitely blurry!

I don't do deepthroat (unless the client is hung like a hamster), CIM, facials or anal, so am definitely a GFE, but I also enjoy a good pounding and can have quite a filthy mouth if the client likes that sort of thing - what I describe as 'vigorous vanilla'. Likewise I don't mind a little anal play on clients.
 
#42
I am offering Gfe with some elements of PSE such as cim, swallow, anal, because I can't do deep throat, double penetration, anal in doggy (just in cow girl), face fucking, mmf or couple bookings etc. I love a good pounding and I'm probably a naughtier gf than most but I don't see myself as a pornstar. Its just how I see things, not necessarily how they are correctly classed.
 
#44
PSE never feels right when I've just met a lady. After five or six sessions with same lady things just seem to go with the flow and that's the adventure that makes this whole experience addictive and compelling. Love it and only money stops me wanting more.
 
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#45
All these people saying GFE and then talking about some very horny things! Maybe I don't understand what a GFE is?? Haha! Maybe I do more GFE than I think I do. I just think if you're swallowing cum and taking it from behind it's the kind of thing I watch in porn....
You're/have been someone's girlfriend & guessing you've done all the dirty things you offer.... if not more :D so that'd all be classed as a GFE for a Jessi punt ;)


One thing I used to love was until recently being able to ask "so when was the last time you fucked a teenager?"
lol I'd forgot about that :blush:
 
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