One for the girls- does it matter if a regular books others?

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The only knock on effect I can see is if a regular goes elsewhere it's money spent elsewhere

Is there any more to it than that

I really like the regular I see never had a bad time, but in the future it may be nice to occasionally to venture elsewhere

Max I punt is twice a month if I divided it to one regular trip and one new every now and then would it be contentious?

It's not human top trumps no one is being compared against the other
 
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In my experience WG like the regulars to keep going to see them and some not all but a few do get jealous and annoyed when you punt elsewhere
 
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Why would a WG get jealous? It's a business transaction, money for sex.

A WG has no right to complain if a guy chooses to see another girl.
 
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In my experience WG like the regulars to keep going to see them and some not all but a few do get jealous and annoyed when you punt elsewhere

But that surely be about the booking loss? Not saying it to make it seem all about money but it is business not a social meet
 
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It's your money therefore shouldn't be any escort's business if you go elsewhere.

Saying that though, when chatting with a client it's often nice to hear good feedback about other escorts I know, plus it means I can recommend other girls if I think I client might like them and have fun with them too.
 
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If your regular is half decent she will recommend girls for you to see. Ones she knows will give you a good time. I have often recommended someone else to regs as I would prefer they had a good time rather than waste their money. If you are still giving them a good time too they will still come back.
Yes it's business and you don't want to lose a client but if they only see you they will eventually get bored and go elsewhere permenantly so it's better they have variety
 
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Why would a WG get jealous? It's a business transaction, money for sex.

A WG has no right to complain if a guy chooses to see another girl.
Because some don't want to lose my business to another WG, this has happened many times over the years in brothels when the first WG I punted with gives me the evil eye when I punt with one of her flatmates, its not about having no right to complain, its about losing business. Not exactly jealousy as they don't fancy me, but jealousy at a flatmate getting my cash.

I have even had WGs try to put me off other WGs in brothels by telling me their flatmate has an STI, is HIV or offers BB.
 
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The only knock on effect I can see is if a regular goes elsewhere it's money spent elsewhere

Is there any more to it than that

I really like the regular I see never had a bad time, but in the future it may be nice to occasionally to venture elsewhere

Max I punt is twice a month if I divided it to one regular trip and one new every now and then would it be contentious?

It's not human top trumps no one is being compared against the other
Its only about the loss of money in my case, jealous that another WG gets it and not them again. I wouldn't tell a regular who I am punting with as its not relevant though through punting forums some might find out, if they did say anything negative I would be going elsewhere simply because punting ISNT dating to me so I don't want that hassle from a WG.

I would say some regulars have recommended other WGs in the area to me who they knew so not all get the hump about it.
 
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I posted this in a similar thread on UKP. Would be interesting to know whether UKE female members think I'm talking bollocks :)

"Women will always be jealous of other women. Having observed, and being fascinated by, women since I was a horny teenager I believe that women have a tendency to find something wrong about themselves and dwell on it. I don't think I've ever met a woman who is 100% happy about herself. That in itself would not be a problem, however, it does become a problem when they start comparing themselves with other women and then start feeling jealous if/when they perceive other women as better looking or have better hair, bigger boobs, or whatever.

This probably stems from the fact that since very little, girls/women are judged by their looks, how attractive, cute, sweet they are, etc. This gets worse of course when it comes to prossies. We judge them mostly by their looks followed by their performance (not always - granted). So any type of jealously a civvie woman feels for another woman will probably be nothing compared to the jealousy prossies feel for other prossies. For example in a brothel line up, a prossie who didn't get picked up not only loses out to other prossies in the looks factor but also economically. Double whammy!

I remember very clearly when I visited brothels (for a second time or third) the looks of thunder from the prossies I picked before when I chose another prossie."
 
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...I would say some regulars have recommended other WGs in the area to me who they knew so not all get the hump about it.
+1 to this - some of my best regs have recommended girls they've duo'd with or known otherwise based on what they know about me and my taste - they know I'm going to see other girls anyway so for some at least it's just good customer service.
 
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To be quite honest I can never tell. I have absolutely no clue as I stand at the door and say goodbye whether I am welcome back or not.
I have no way of getting inside her head, no way of knowing if the fluffy feedback on AW is exactly how she feels. No clue if the money was enough for her to appear encouraging. No clue, no clue no clue.

This view may change as I am seeing a local girl in a few weeks for a second time....may have to add a second comment to this thread.
 
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I am blessed with not being jealous at all, not even in my private life. I always put myself in the other persons shoes and judge the situation. I know that my regulars visit other escorts and I find it perfectly normal as I am one of many service providers. I never ask them specifics as in whom they saw or what they did in a booking as is not my bussines and I find it intrusive. I dont like to be asked such questions so I don't ask them myself :) And of course I feel great when they keep visiting me, I must be doing something right :)
 
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I am blessed with not being jealous at all, not even in my private life. I always put myself in the other persons shoes and judge the situation. I know that my regulars visit other escorts and I find it perfectly normal as I am one of many service providers. I never ask them specifics as in whom they saw or what they did in a booking as is not my bussines and I find it intrusive. I dont like to be asked such questions so I don't ask them myself :) And of course I feel great when they keep visiting me, I must be doing something right :)
 
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I would imagine it would depend on how confident the girl is in their looks/service the 3 semi regulars i see Know I see other girls as I am very much the kid in the sweet shop and i want to try something different from time to time
 
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My automatic assumption is that even my most regular clients book other girls aswell as me. This has been shown to be true as often Ive had guys ask me who my duo partner is then when I tell them they tell me they have had a booking with her...and she gets the same thing with her clients with me. When I worked in parlours often I would be going from room to bathroom and bump into a regular on the way to a bedroom to wait for another girl. Its normal and to be expected. Of course if someone is very regular then you sometimes think "why not me today" but its ridiculous to let it get you down or to voice that to a client. No one owns anyone in this industry
 

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My automatic assumption is that even my most regular clients book other girls aswell as me. This has been shown to be true as often Ive had guys ask me who my duo partner is then when I tell them they tell me they have had a booking with her...and she gets the same thing with her clients with me. When I worked in parlours often I would be going from room to bathroom and bump into a regular on the way to a bedroom to wait for another girl. Its normal and to be expected. Of course if someone is very regular then you sometimes think "why not me today" but its ridiculous to let it get you down or to voice that to a client. No one owns anyone in this industry
A very sanguine and healthy view! A lot of guys like to have the safety of a regular who knows his likes and dislikes, but also the variety of punting with new girls...a wise girl will realise this and any inkling of jealousy will be an instant turn-off and she'll likely lose his business for good. Punters want hassle-free punts, not to have to deal with emotional blackmail.
 
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Sounds a tad sad and bitchy why would anyone care ,I for one wouldn't care because I'm not that sad to stalk feedback or ask anyone who they have met ,I'm too busy having fun when I meet them .
 
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In my experience WG like the regulars to keep going to see them and some not all but a few do get jealous and annoyed when you punt elsewhere
WTF - you can't be serious. You're the client. It's a transaction, if you have a good time you go back. I can guarantee if you are trying to book and the WG has a better offer she's not going to worry about you. It's a business.
 
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WTF - you can't be serious. You're the client. It's a transaction, if you have a good time you go back. I can guarantee if you are trying to book and the WG has a better offer she's not going to worry about you. It's a business.
Oh it happens believe me. A guy from another forum saw one of the ladies on there then he saw me a few months later. He reviewed us both but when she saw his review for me she went absolutley bat shit crazy on him vi aw pm, he ended up removing the review he did on her. She saw him as hers and said it was an ultimate betrayal plus far worse. Its a sign of insecurity I feel, either that or she was jealous over the money, either way it was bang out of order and even when a guy I have seen has then visited one of the girls who is my virtual nemesis, there are two, I wouldnt dream of saying a word about it, well,other than to congratulate him on his survival if he was a very regular regular lol... he laughed, I knew he would :D
 
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Does anyone think that they are? :unknown:

They share some common features, but have all been quite different in my experience...hence why I like punting with a variety...each one has something unique to give.
I was posting in response to akauya, I have problems with quotes in posts. : 2244, member: 277"]Does anyone think that they are? :unknown:

They share some common features, but have all been quite different in my experience...hence why I like punting with a variety...each one has something unique to give.[/QUOTE]
 
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when my regular quit- she told me not to book any girls from the same agency, she even said cos its taking my money- like she owned me or something- at the time i thought nothing of it but when she sees u every week for more than a year, so a shit load of fucks then it becomes like a reliance i guess especially when they don't work so much- like 2 days a week even then not full heartedly.
 
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The only issue I have is when a client books another lady, and decides which one closer to the time, however I'm currently doing that with a hotel, so I am now a hypocrite!
I assume you mean the punter books 2 WGs at the same time and decides which one to see and which not. IMO that's a shitty thing to do, I have a plan B option often a regular but out of courtesy I don't book her at the same time as my plan A, if plan A goes tits up I then ring plan B and hopefully she can fit me in, which is often the case.
 
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I assume you mean the punter books 2 WGs at the same time and decides which one to see and which not. IMO that's a shitty thing to do, I have a plan B option often a regular but out of courtesy I don't book her at the same time as my plan A, if plan A goes tits up I then ring plan B and hopefully she can fit me in, which is often the case.
It is shitty but it is common. Ive been offering duos with one lady for about 6 months now, we have caught about ten guys out during that time who made bookings with both of us at the same time....but not as a duo. God knows how many times over the years one of us has been sitting there with a no show because the double booker decided on the other one on that particular day. What gets us is that we look nothing like each other whatsoever, or perhaps thats why we get double booked together so often...each a different type
 
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I assume you mean the punter books 2 WGs at the same time and decides which one to see and which not. IMO that's a shitty thing to do, I have a plan B option often a regular but out of courtesy I don't book her at the same time as my plan A, if plan A goes tits up I then ring plan B and hopefully she can fit me in, which is often the case.
It doesn't necessarily have to be at the same time. For instance man travelling to or in location x, dicusses availability with lady a and lady b, books lady a for one time, books lady b for a slightly different time (based on her exact location or her exact availability), decides closer to the time which lady he fancies seeing and cancels the other.

It does happen, most of the time she won't know but sometimes by comparing notes and/or feedback it becomes obvious what he's done.

I've even had guys cancel then contact me later saying they saw someone else and it was a big let down, wished they'd kept their booking with me.

So I'm in no doubt that it does happen.
 
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It doesn't necessarily have to be at the same time. For instance man travelling to or in location x, dicusses availability with lady a and lady b, books lady a for one time, books lady b for a slightly different time (based on her exact location or her exact availability), decides closer to the time which lady he fancies seeing and cancels the other.

It does happen, most of the time she won't know but sometimes by comparing notes and/or feedback it becomes obvious what he's done.

I've even had guys cancel then contact me later saying they saw someone else and it was a big let down, wished they'd kept their booking with me.

So I'm in no doubt that it does happen.
This is still double booking because he only has the intention of seeing one lady, the other is going to either get a cancelation text or a no show which isnt fair. Its fine to book one but then make a penciled in booking with another, this means that the second lady knows its not a definate booking and that its fine to take another definate booking instead should one come along, guys who do this usually say to us not to turn down another booking as they cannot guarantee theirs. Its a far fairer way to do it and causes no upset to either party
 
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I had cancelations too, a memorable one was when a guy booked me 2 weeks in advance and cancelled one hour before the scheduled time. I found out that day that he booked a friend for same time, cancelled on her too and he went to a third lady. Of course that behaviour is unacceptable and I blocked the guy. He had cancellation feedbacks as well buy I was willing to give him the benefit of the doubt. I'm not that willing since then. If a guy cancells on me twice he goes to my block list under TW.
 

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It is shitty but it is common. Ive been offering duos with one lady for about 6 months now, we have caught about ten guys out during that time who made bookings with both of us at the same time....but not as a duo. God knows how many times over the years one of us has been sitting there with a no show because the double booker decided on the other one on that particular day. What gets us is that we look nothing like each other whatsoever, or perhaps thats why we get double booked together so often...each a different type
It's probably a tactic to counter what happens the other way, aWG double-books 2 guys and takes the first one who turns up, switching the phone off for the other one, leaving him high & dry...not condoning either practice, but it does happen both ways.
 
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I had cancelations too, a memorable one was when a guy booked me 2 weeks in advance and cancelled one hour before the scheduled time. I found out that day that he booked a friend for same time, cancelled on her too and he went to a third lady. Of course that behaviour is unacceptable and I blocked the guy. He had cancellation feedbacks as well buy I was willing to give him the benefit of the doubt. I'm not that willing since then. If a guy cancells on me twice he goes to my block list under TW.
My friend and I were on tour once, I had a noshow, then she had a noshow afterwards, turned out to be the same guy, a third girl we know just happened to rock up to the same hotel just after lunch, she had a booking with the same guy coming along...talk about not making up his mind
 
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It's probably a tactic to counter what happens the other way, aWG double-books 2 guys and takes the first one who turns up, switching the phone off for the other one, leaving him high & dry...not condoning either practice, but it does happen both ways.
I disagree. I think its far more likley to be one of two things

a) covering arse with two different booking times incase traffic/meeting/work causes them to miss the earlier booking slot so they want a second one guaranteed in place
b) so that when it comes down to just before the booking they can decide which one they feel like seeing at the time...which girl is the cocktwitcher of the moment

I know it happens both ways but you cant go to a new lady and treat her with disrespectfully just because another lady messed you about. I dont do it, I dont expect it done to me. Imagine if I treated the next guy badly just because the previous guy had been an arse...how unfair would that be
 
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We are however on this thread talking about 'regulars', so to answer the question, so long as it's not affecting any booking he makes with me, no it doesn't matter.
 
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Few years ago, a regular of mine put me on automatic block on A W Emails.

When I enquired, she said was not happy that I'd seen another escort, and she'd spotted that I'd been left a new feedback,
(the first one in over 6 months, unrequested, but it was the first one since I had started to see her on a regular basis.
 
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To be honest if I got a hard time for booking others irregardless of how much I liked a regular that would be it I'd be done
 
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