Nipple biting???

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Okay a few years ago when I was smaller with little boobies you could get a little rough with my nipples and they liked it to a point. Now I in possession of a pair of boobs the size of which I never thought I would have my nipples have decided to turn into delicate highly strung little things. I dont mean you cant play with them or suck them, I just mean that you cant use the sort of forceful suction once required for the original maccy d thick shake and you cant nibble them or bite them.

A lot of men however automatically give them a little nip or tooth scrape or try to suck them in as if they are the last drop of cola in the straw, not all men, but enough that I now feel I have to let guys know that biting isnt allowed.

Guys, why do some of you do this without asking if its okay. Those of you who do bite even gently (to your mind) how would you feel if we did the same to your nipples or worse the end of your cock without asking first if it was okay? Its not okay, I know a lot of girls do like it but still you should ask first just in case as it can be very painful.

Girls, is this something that you encounter a lot, I do. I dont know if its because I have big boobs so guys think they are maybe less sensative than pert little ones. It seems to be on the increase

Just genuinly interested in the guys reasons behind not asking first.

There seems to be four standard reactions from men when I flinch after a quick chew

a) Mortified that they have hurt me and these guys are easy to forgive and never do it again

b) Act as if Im some sort of freak with a "no idea what your problem is facial expression", these guys tend to have to have a second bite and when the third comes I have to remove mouth access to my boobs at which point they nip instead, remove hand access also very pointedly

c) Smile as if its funny but then they dont usually do it again

d) deny they did it and these guys tend to be serial offenders during the booking also

Currently sporting a tiny finger tip size black bruise on one boob and thigh from someones grip action which almost had me jump of the bed in pain also. Whats the roughness all about?
 
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Its perhaps because they are called NIPples, that we give them a little nip
Now if they were called SUCKles we might start with a little suck :P
Just a thought

Raddy
 
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Its perhaps because they are called NIPples, that we give them a little nip
Now if they were called SUCKles we might start with a little suck :P
Just a thought

Raddy[/QUOTE
Okay I gave it a little though, it doesnt work for me. you have a PENis but we dont shove a pen down the end of it lol :D
 
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If it's a booking with a new WG, I'll be guided by the her rather than just bite away. Usually, I would get encouragement to go harder or if I'm too rough, more gentle. If I've seen her before, and already know how/what she likes. then no probs.

Same goes for me too. I like mine bitten and treated roughly and the only way she will know this is me telling her.

However, have had nipple clamps tried and these were too much... :scare:
 
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Go on I will try and be sensible for a change, :P I always start with a little suck and a gentle nip and ask if that's ok, I do try and gauge for myself if I could bite a little harder and sometime I will ask, but I don't get out of bed in the morning with the intention of asking :-
Can I kiss you?
Can I put my tongue in your mouth?
Can I bite your nipple?
Can I use my fingers on you?
Seems a bit clinical really
So no I don't ask, I tend to look for reactions, but certainly don't wade in and bite hard

Hope that gets you inside my head...opps, you really don't want to be there... its a dangourous place

Raddy
 
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I have absolutely no interest in biting but acknowledge that some will differ in their opinion. As long as I can play with hand and tongue I am very happy. What makes me upset is girls who say their boobs are too sensitive to be played with for long, especially after orgasm. The thing is, very often it is girls who advertise their boobs as a striking feature which tend to limit activity. Happened to me a couple of times, it's a mood killer and a guarantee no return.

Finally it seems to most affect the ones who have had their boobs enhanced. You don't put your new improved, major asset in the shop window and then say it's off limits. :unknown:
 
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Okay Raddy thanks for being honest. Would you find it acceptable for an escort to have the same view and give your cock (her version) a gentle nip and gauge your reaction then rather than ask.

The trouble is that once that nip has occured the pain has been caused and Im not here to recieve pain. Once nipped then it takes a while into the booking before I can start to relax whilst the guy is giving my nipples attention as Im automatically on guard in my head because of what he did. Once someone has been sucking my nipples for a minute without nippiing then Im relaxed as I then know hes not a biter but still, I dont like saying to guys "oh you can lick and suck but please dont nibble" as to me thats putting things off with a negative hanging in the air but SO many guys do it, and what they class as a gentle nip isnt that gentle when on the recieving end, that its necessary. I hate saying it because it feels like the guy is going to feel as if Im prejudging him but I dont want to feel pain, theres no reason on the planet why someone should be allowed to think its okay to inflict it just because they think its a suitable level. I wouldnt dream of doing it to my guys unless I ask first.

I think it stems from when I worked in an MK parlour and I met the MK biter, tiny little asain dude who used o pop up in the mk parlours every couple of years and bite someone, bit down hard on my nipple so that when I pushed his head off there were actually two tooth shaped holes over the top of my niipple and the blood just started pumping out. Later bit a girl on her fanny causing blood loss too. I just think, what right does someone have to cause me pain for their own pleasure
 
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i think its an instinct thing with us, i do it often with OH and to be fair it gets on her tits( pardon )

and yet still i do it ever so often without thinking, if an escort gave me a list of shit about fingers biting etc etc it would kill it for me, i'd like to go with the flow then do as she wishes when prompted, a clinical list is a passion killer.

we don't do it to hurt you, maybe its a male domination thing in our genes ? dunno
 
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I have absolutely no interest in biting but acknowledge that some will differ in their opinion. As long as I can play with hand and tongue I am very happy. What makes me upset is girls who say their boobs are too sensitive to be played with for long, especially after orgasm. The thing is, very often it is girls who advertise their boobs as a striking feature which tend to limit activity. Happened to me a couple of times, it's a mood killer and a guarantee no return.

Finally it seems to most affect the ones who have had their boobs enhanced. You don't put your new improved, major asset in the shop window and then say it's off limits. :unknown:
My boobs are definatley not off limits, just off limits to biting. My boobs are natural, they just changed their mind as to what they find acceptable without any consultation with me :unknown:
 
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i think its an instinct thing with us, i do it often with OH and to be fair it gets on her tits( pardon )

and yet still i do it ever so often without thinking, if an escort gave me a list of shit about fingers biting etc etc it would kill it for me, i'd like to go with the flow then do as she wishes when prompted, a clinical list is a passion killer.

we don't do it to hurt you, maybe its a male domination thing in our genes ? dunno
I know sometimes guys just get carried away, you can tell by their expression when they realise what they did hurt you. I dont reel off a list,its just the nipple bitey thing, I try to say it in a playful way too so as not to put a dampner on things but still... :(
 
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I know sometimes guys just get carried away, you can tell by their expression when they realise what they did hurt you. I dont reel off a list,its just the nipple bitey thing, I try to say it in a playful way too so as not to put a dampner on things but still... :(

i think the bland roma girls are more guilty of it, very cold list, i agree a subtle "you can lick the fuck out of them but no nibbling!" would suffice
 
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In my early punting days I sucked too hard on a WG's nipple and she cried 'careful, tiger!'
I was mortified that I had caused her discomfort and since then always take it steady and establish the boundaries first.
I did have a previous regular who absolutely loved me sucking and biting her nipples hard!
Sure she would have let me swing mid air hanging onto a nipple with my teeth if I had felt comfortable enough doing this :D
 
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Okay Raddy thanks for being honest. Would you find it acceptable for an escort to have the same view and give your cock (her version) a gentle nip and gauge your reaction then rather than ask.

The trouble is that once that nip has occured the pain has been caused and Im not here to recieve pain. Once nipped then it takes a while into the booking before I can start to relax whilst the guy is giving my nipples attention as Im automatically on guard in my head because of what he did. Once someone has been sucking my nipples for a minute without nippiing then Im relaxed as I then know hes not a biter but still, I dont like saying to guys "oh you can lick and suck but please dont nibble" as to me thats putting things off with a negative hanging in the air but SO many guys do it, and what they class as a gentle nip isnt that gentle when on the recieving end, that its necessary. I hate saying it because it feels like the guy is going to feel as if Im prejudging him but I dont want to feel pain, theres no reason on the planet why someone should be allowed to think its okay to inflict it just because they think its a suitable level. I wouldnt dream of doing it to my guys unless I ask first.

I think it stems from when I worked in an MK parlour and I met the MK biter, tiny little asain dude who used o pop up in the mk parlours every couple of years and bite someone, bit down hard on my nipple so that when I pushed his head off there were actually two tooth shaped holes over the top of my niipple and the blood just started pumping out. Later bit a girl on her fanny causing blood loss too. I just think, what right does someone have to cause me pain for their own pleasure
Yep
bite away.... :)
Raddy
 
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I would never bite down on a girls nipple - even at her request - I would shit myself that I bit through!!!!!

I have at their request nipped very hard for a period of time followed by some very light licks once the blood has rushed back to them

This is only done with girls I know want it done and enjoy it

Other than that it's always gently gently does with nipples
 
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I love to play with a girl's nipples ie. suck, lick and a light nibble, but never bite. I've had the pleasure of meeting a couple of girl's with very long and responsive nipples (you know who you are lol), which makes tugging and twisting an option, but not to the point of pain, unless that's part of the agreed session. Otherwise a gentle sucking and flicking of the tongue usually does the trick. One girl was particularly responsive to me licking very gently around her nipples with the tip of my tongue.
 
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my nipples have decided to turn into delicate highly strung little things.
oo nipple play is my main turn on the harder the better but i get some women are just to sensitive,,, glad im not!
That's the problem really, particularly if you are seeing a girl for the first time. I've not been punting for long but I'll admit that before I started one of my biggest worries was that I might do the wrong thing during a booking.

I did a lot of reading on sites life UKP and SAAFE before I took the plunge and made my first booking because I wanted to get a better idea of what was generally acceptable (just keep in mind that at that point I didn't know the first thing about punting). Some of the threads on SAAFE about the girls likes and dislikes were very interesting but to be honest didn't really help as much as I thought they would. It just made me realise that the difference in preferences with girls is far bigger than I realised. There is a thread on there about fingering for example and the responses included everything from 'I hate it, won't let them do it' to 'It's ok as long as it's gentle' right through to 'god I love it, the harder the better'. It's the same with RO ('I always cum though RO and love it' to 'I find it really uncomfortable and hate it'. So it can be a bit of a minefield for us guys. I can't speak for anyone other than myself but I suspect that most guys are far easier to please. I can't say I've ever had a bad blow job - just blow jobs, good blow jobs and great blow jobs. 99% of the time for me if a girl has her mouth round my cock I am going to enjoy it.

I understand that it is easy enough to ask but sometimes it can be a real mood killer if you feel you constantly have to ask 'can I use fingers? (followed by finger inspection), how many? how hard/fast?'. Sometimes I just won't bother even if it's something I love doing because I would hate the idea that a girl was just gritting her teeth and putting up with it. To be honest I'm not really sure what the answer is apart from maybe a combination of the punter hinting at things they like or the girl setting out her boundaries but in a sexy way (e.g 'Oh god my nipples are SO sensitive when I am turned on but it makes me really want to have my pussy licked').

Boundary pushers and repeat offenders must be a real pain (literally) and I guess it is another reason why getting to know a regular (client or WG) well is such a great thing.
 
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That's the problem really, particularly if you are seeing a girl for the first time. I've not been punting for long but I'll admit that before I started one of my biggest worries was that I might do the wrong thing during a booking.

I did a lot of reading on sites life UKP and SAAFE before I took the plunge and made my first booking because I wanted to get a better idea of what was generally acceptable (just keep in mind that at that point I didn't know the first thing about punting). Some of the threads on SAAFE about the girls likes and dislikes were very interesting but to be honest didn't really help as much as I thought they would. It just made me realise that the difference in preferences with girls is far bigger than I realised. There is a thread on there about fingering for example and the responses included everything from 'I hate it, won't let them do it' to 'It's ok as long as it's gentle' right through to 'god I love it, the harder the better'. It's the same with RO ('I always cum though RO and love it' to 'I find it really uncomfortable and hate it'. So it can be a bit of a minefield for us guys. I can't speak for anyone other than myself but I suspect that most guys are far easier to please. I can't say I've ever had a bad blow job - just blow jobs, good blow jobs and great blow jobs. 99% of the time for me if a girl has her mouth round my cock I am going to enjoy it.

I understand that it is easy enough to ask but sometimes it can be a real mood killer if you feel you constantly have to ask 'can I use fingers? (followed by finger inspection), how many? how hard/fast?'. Sometimes I just won't bother even if it's something I love doing because I would hate the idea that a girl was just gritting her teeth and putting up with it. To be honest I'm not really sure what the answer is apart from maybe a combination of the punter hinting at things they like or the girl setting out her boundaries but in a sexy way (e.g 'Oh god my nipples are SO sensitive when I am turned on but it makes me really want to have my pussy licked').

Boundary pushers and repeat offenders must be a real pain (literally) and I guess it is another reason why getting to know a regular (client or WG) well is such a great thing.
Good post Hank...can't better the sentiment better so won't try... I could comment on good and bad blow jobs but won't except to say I tried my best

Raddy
 
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Good post Hank...can't better the sentiment better so won't try... I could comment on good and bad blow jobs but won't except to say I tried my best

Raddy
Cheers Raddy. From reading your review and the response you got during your MMF session it sounds like you are a natural born cocksucker (meant in the nicest possible way!). There may be a market out there for you to hold workshops and training sessions for some of the newer/less experienced WG (but I would want a 10% commission for suggesting the idea :D)
 
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My technique with nipple play, RO and fingering is to start gently and gradually increase the intensity, but if it is having the desired effect then why step it up a level?

With nipples a gentle brush of the hand can be sufficient,
followed by a flicking of the tongue if the build up has been slow enough. Sometimes if more is desired I will gently press the nipple with my tongue against my top teeth, but never bite unless specifically asked to do it harder.

I do think the idea of asking where all the boundaries lie beforehand puts a bit of a downer on things, just try and be responsive to what she likes and if she does like what you're doing, why try to go further?

I find the same goes for fingering, although it is rather easier to ask if your mouth isn't occupied in the activity.

One girl has been reviewed many times on UKP, and it says in a few of those reviews that she doesn't allow fingering and in all of the others fingering has never been mentioned.

When we met first time I went gently on the external bits, she appeared to be getting very wet and so I started to explore her vagina, but just at the opening and very gently, at this point I asked her if it was ok . If I had asked earlier she would have had no idea what my approach would be, and I am pretty certain she would have said it wasn't allowed. I can categorically say that she doesn't say no fingering because she doesn't enjoy it!

On my next visit, having fingered her whilst performing RO, I moved to caressing her breasts at which point she pushed my hand away. Thinking I had been too rough I apologised, she told me, no it's not that, I just want you to put your fingers back inside me - this request from a girl where it had been stated that she specifically didn't allow it (of course I didn't put it in my review and others may have done the same).

It probably helps that in an hour booking I am a one pop merchant and the focus of the whole hour for me is to get us both to the same level of excitement/satisfaction by the last few minutes of that hour.

If I were to be able (and wanted) to do three or four pops, then I suppose my approach would be very different and perhaps there would be no time for this gentle at first approach building up the intensity until it seems to be having the desired effect, so I probably wouldn't bother with nipple stimulation, RO and fingering at all.
 
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I recall a great Polish WG I saw several earlier this year and she made a point of saying at the outset no fingering.
During quite an intense bout of 69 I was playing with her clit and my finger slipped in.
I muffled a 'sorry about that', to which she replied 'put it back in with another one!'
Still smile about that now :D
 
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I tend to avoid biting as it is difficult to judge how much pressure you are putting on the flesh and whether you are using a sharp bit of your teeth. A scream from the WG does tend to ruin the mood.
 
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I understand stopping and starting to ask permission for this and that would be a downer but then so would someone screaming, flinching or a tear or two possibley so either way...this is what communication is about though, for grey area things just ask when you book x
 
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#43
I love them being bitten my nipple clamps are out before the door bell goes but that's just me.
I can see the point in not wanting it then they actually do it could be painful if it's not what you are into , I can see both sides of the coin maybe the guys doing it to get you in the mood if it's not your thing and you tell him then he/she shouldn't persist .:)
 
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I understand stopping and starting to ask permission for this and that would be a downer but then so would someone screaming, flinching or a tear or two possibley so either way...this is what communication is about though, for grey area things just ask when you book x
Although it might seem a bit 'clinical' I guess it's a good idea to check these things at the start and then it is out of the way and hopefully nothing would need to break the mood.
 
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It would never really even occur to me to do nipple nipping or biting unless I knew beforehand this would be ok. I am very cautious about doing anything that might be painful. I have done a bit of light spanking and that's about it. Some of the girls on UKE have got me a bit more interested in exploring the spanking a bit further though.

A reg of mine used to to nip me on my nipples though. She just did it out of the blue one day, while teasing my torso and suddenly nip ! It was slightly painful but fun at the same time though, it intensified the pleasure of when she was actually kissing and sucking. It had never occurred to me I might like this being done to me. I guess she had developed a good intuition about what I might enjoy. Thankfully she never bit my cock !

The MK biter sounds worrying Chloe. Biting a girl on the fanny till she bleeds sounds like sexual assault to me. Might the vulva vampire have been a better nickname though ?
 
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#46
I used to love this until one guy got carried away and I had to have two stitches to keep my nipple intact. I also lost a nipple piercing due to it so now I don't allow any nibbling at all. What someone else thinks is not too firm could cause bleeding or worse as in my case as unless doing it to yourself it is hard to judge how firmly you are actually biting. The poor guy who did it to me was horrified as didn't think he had bitten that hard but he had two false teeth so his judgement was way off. He was so in shock I had to drive him home before going to A&E as he was too shaken to drive. I still see him now but he takes his teeth out before any play now bless him. I must admit I felt more sorry for him than me as he looked horrified and about to cry as he is a gentle soul normally (I asked him before posting this story as didn't want to upset him by posting it)
 
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#47
Why allow my teeth to get in the way of my tongue or my lips? No chance, the only time I think I had a nibble on a breast was when I was a teenager
 
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Since having my nipples pierced they are very sensitive but so much better dosent take as much pressure to stimulate it so no sore nipples after haha :p xx
 
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I understand stopping and starting to ask permission for this and that would be a downer but then so would someone screaming, flinching or a tear or two possibley so either way...this is what communication is about though, for grey area things just ask when you book x
It just isn't in my nature to ever do anything to intentionally cause pain, especially to a woman. I think if you are likely to want to take things to this stage you need to study the AW profiles very carefully and book the appropriate ladies.

Whilst I agree that you need to clarify that the services on offer meet your requirements in advance, the intensity of these can only be ascertained on the day, thus my mention of the girl who didn't like fingering. What she probably didn't like was punters with long dirty fingernails shoving their fingers up her before any foreplay had allowed her to get wet and having a good rummage inside her abdomen, but she did clearly enjoy it with the correct approach.

How can you sensibly discuss the degree that you allow these services beforehand? Much easier for her just to say I don't allow it. It needs a more subtle approach by the punter and then verbal communication becomes less necessary.
 
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