I Love You

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You ask a lot of questions.

I'd suggest that any punter who says that to a WG needs to take a step back, slap himself and get back to reality! Punting is fun, but fun is all it is :)
 
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I hear those words and the person goes straight on my do not see again list. I don't understand it personally as they don't know me they know the image they see for an hour or so but then think they are in love. They must realise we don't feel the same way as are still charging them. I have found it to either be the much older widowed men or the socially inept men that do this
 
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Ha I think I would laugh ,in the height of an intense orgasm words come out could be an embarrassing mistake on the other hand if the person was totally serious I would politely explan how wrong that is tell them this is not real life block there number and move on . :)
 
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As I've said on other threads, I often tell my reg that I love her as a person, and sometimes sexually too, when we're in the throes of mutual orgasm.
This, in my mind at least, is far from meaning "I'm 'In Love' with you and want to marry you and 'take you away from escorting forever' " type of thing.

I hear those words and the person goes straight on my do not see again list. I don't understand it personally as they don't know me they know the image they see for an hour or so but then think they are in love. They must realise we don't feel the same way as are still charging them. I have found it to either be the much older widowed men or the socially inept men that do this
As a an older, widowed man myself, but I like to think not " socially inept" at all, I have to say that I think you could be making a misjudgement here, Dani, and that you're being unduly harsh in putting guys like I am immediately on to your "do not see again" list :angry::mad::diablo:
 
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I've said "I love you..." just to watch her face, and then I quickly follow it up with "...sucking my cock"

You can go on for ages...

"Seriously, I do love you... licking my balls"

"No really I love you... wearing stockings and heels"
May I add -

I love you... sitting on my face.

I love you... in missionary position.

I love you... in as similar position but with your feet ( still in stockings and FM heels ) around my ears.

I love you... in cowgirl.

I love you... in.... oh dear ! I would take up far to long to list all the positions I love you in, so I'll STFU.
 

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#14
I've had it said to me before and I've said it too...usually in the throes of an orgasm or in the immediate afterglow...in that context, it doesn't mean anyone's 'in love' any more than if I said 'I love chocolate'...I've always taken it and used it as a compliment than a declaration of undying love.

I've sometimes said it along with a kiss when saying good-bye to a girl who went beyond the call of duty to please me during the session...in that context, it means 'I love what you did to me to make me feel so good'
 
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I only said it once at the height of orgasm and was more an expression of the intensity she had given me than any feelings for her.
I explained to her after and she understood. Been very careful since.

Love is not a good word in this business.
 
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I love (inter alia) chocolate, single malt whisky, ginger nuts, rum & raisin ice cream, and my motor car, all of which I have to pay for and none of which are supplied free, and I frequently admit it in the establishments where I purchase these items. Using Dani`s philosophy, does this mean that I should be blacklisted by Cadbury, Glenmorangie, McVitie & Co., Walls, and the Lexus motor company, or simply the establishments where I obtain these things?
 
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As I've said on other threads, I often tell my reg that I love her as a person, and sometimes sexually too, when we're in the throes of mutual orgasm.
This, in my mind at least, is far from meaning "I'm 'In Love' with you and want to marry you and 'take you away from escorting forever' " type of thing.



As a an older, widowed man myself, but I like to think not " socially inept" at all, I have to say that I think you could be making a misjudgement here, Dani, and that you're being unduly harsh in putting guys like I am immediately on to your "do not see again" list :angry::mad::diablo:
Not at all. It's only if I know they mean it and it is better I stop seeing them than leading them on just for the money. Once it's been said in that way every time I agree to see them I am just encouraging them and I personally feel that's cruel. If it's said during orgasm I will laugh it off if it's said in a way that means they are not in love then fine but when it's said ion that way it's unfair to see them again
 
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Not at all. It's only if I know they mean it and it is better I stop seeing them than leading them on just for the money. Once it's been said in that way every time I agree to see them I am just encouraging them and I personally feel that's cruel. If it's said during orgasm I will laugh it off if it's said in a way that means they are not in love then fine but when it's said ion that way it's unfair to see them again
Fair enough :hi::drinks:
 
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Why do people correlate fucking with love, anything or anyone I had a pang of love (heart expanding butterfly in stomach) for has been during a completely platonic scenario

See a stray cat = I love you furball
Thirsty and see water = I love you water
Watching despicable me = I love you minions

Getting a blowjob = pleasant but hardly evokes feelings of love
 
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Nope it all depends on their other behaviour, as I've posted on another thread, some guys don't push in any other direction and it's all part of the booking, which starts and ends when the booking does. The client who caused me real problems in the emotional attachment area was someone who DID NOT ever say "I love you".

Those that did have been mostly fine.
 
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#23
Errrrm :).
No, just punters :)

This is UKE so the language is gentler and softer, punters = guys = escorts = girls.
Would this comment be more appropriate on UKP rather than UKE, Matium ?
I think your final conclusion ( as it could be seen :( ) that "punters = girls" is misleading to say the least. :yahoo:
May I suggest if you can't be more constructive in your posts, that you f**k off back to the "punters only forum" of UKP and leave this forum to listen to ,and allow, both sides of the situation to develop even better than it's doing already ?
Each to their own, of course, but I am much happier here on UKE than I ever was as even a lurker on UKP.
Many thanks to Admin for having the sense to set this site up, so that I don't have to trawl through some of the B*** S*** from some guys who don't even seem to like Ladies at all, and only use escorts so that they can degrade and abuse them to a legally acceptable extent "because they're paid whores" :vomit:
Not for me, thank you, and UKE is much more "ME" :drinks:
 
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No, just punters :)

This is UKE so the language is gentler and softer, punters = guys, escorts = girls.
You said "guys" so that implied all guys (in a lady's life).

Clients, customers, gentlemen callers are all softer than 'punters' but all mean specifically punters rather than 'guys'.
 
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Errrrm :).


Would this comment be more appropriate on UKP rather than UKE, Matium ?
I think your final conclusion ( as it could be seen :( ) that "punters = girls" is misleading to say the least. :yahoo:
May I suggest if you can't be more constructive in your posts, that you f**k off back to the "punters only forum" of UKP and leave this forum to listen to ,and allow, both sides of the situation to develop even better than it's doing already ?
Each to their own, of course, but I am much happier here on UKE than I ever was as even a lurker on UKP.
Many thanks to Admin for having the sense to set this site up, so that I don't have to trawl through some of the B*** S*** from some guys who don't even seem to like Ladies at all, and only use escorts so that they can degrade and abuse them to a legally acceptable extent "because they're paid whores" :vomit:
Not for me, thank you, and UKE is much more "ME" :drinks:
I was only referring to my own language. I thought that was clear. I've made it clearer, saying "my".
Punters=girls? I never said that. Where did you get that from? You missed the comma in between punters and escorts.
 
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No, just punters :)

This is UKE so the language is gentler and softer, punters = guys, escorts = girls.
I wasn't aware that we have to use a particular name, or that thought police were in operation. I thought the whole idea on this site was an open and honest discussion. In fact all the different terms and names, have been discussed in a previous thread. When I last looked the conclusion was that subject to not being used maliciously, different members use the terms with which they are most comfortable.
 
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I have no wish to "pick a fight" with you, Matium, as I do not believe that is appropriate for this site.
Apologies if I misunderstood the true meaning of your post.
I think what I am trying to imply is that, just because you are a long term and respected poster on UKP, you can't necessarily expect the the same sort of respect on UKE .
I think we all, guys and gals alike, have to "earn our stripes" as members of this new and different forum.
 
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#30
Excuse me if a punter buts in.

I sometimes get the urge to shout "I love you" at the point of orgasm, if it is a particularly intense one. Reading some of the replies I feel a bit worried that girls might find this alarming and think I am going weird on them because I don't actually mean it, (unless with a loved one) and it can happen whether it is a paid or civvie situation. It is a nervous reflex, chemical (oxytocin?) in nature rather like swearing or reacting to a score in sport. I might not even actually like the woman sometimes and the feeling disappears immediately.
 
#32
Interesting that you mention Oxytocin (also know as the post-coital-cuddle hormone) I sometimes wonder are WGs immune to it, meaning they can fuck 10 guys a day with no need to form an intimate connection, or are they Oxytocin addicts meaning they have to keep getting a fix?

http://io9.com/5925206/10-reasons-why-oxytocin-is-the-most-amazing-molecule-in-the-world /QUOTE]
That is extremely interesting.

A friend is an expert on behavioural economics. Apparently when people give to others the result is not that they expect something in return (though they may). It is that they feel more inclined to give again.

I can't imagine any activity where economics and behaviour are more linked than paying or giving pleasure. I now understand why I feel two uncontrollable gushes - one of affection - most times. Anyhow, I have really liked almost all the ladies I have seen.
 
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Interesting that you mention Oxytocin (also know as the post-coital-cuddle hormone) I sometimes wonder are WGs immune to it, meaning they can fuck 10 guys a day with no need to form an intimate connection, or are they Oxytocin addicts meaning they have to keep getting a fix?

http://io9.com/5925206/10-reasons-why-oxytocin-is-the-most-amazing-molecule-in-the-world
I very much doubt whether any escort who sees 10 clients in a day is getting any kind of rush out if it. This frequency would not allow for any kind of pleasure buildup or post-coital cuddling, just one bang to the next. I think she'd be more worried about keeping clean and/or avoiding getting too sore.

Maybe with two or three longer bookings in a day this might be the case. It's not a nice thought that anyone could develop immunity to oxytocin, meaning they derive little if any pleasure from sex.
 
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Interesting that you mention Oxytocin (also know as the post-coital-cuddle hormone) I sometimes wonder are WGs immune to it, meaning they can fuck 10 guys a day with no need to form an intimate connection, or are they Oxytocin addicts meaning they have to keep getting a fix?

http://io9.com/5925206/10-reasons-why-oxytocin-is-the-most-amazing-molecule-in-the-world
I don't think that escorts are immune to it, I've had WGs say things to me that they would never have said prior to sex. Not only compliments that are sometimes so ridiculously over the top that if they were thinking properly they would never say, even as part of their professional service, such as, "you're perfect" (I'm so obviously not!!), but sometimes they just want to cuddle and chat. I've never gone into the science of it and likened it on UKE before to the female equivalent of "Beer Goggles" where the male judgement is impaired by alcohol, but in women it is a hormone that's resposible; I've nicknames it "Cum Specs".
 
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I sometimes get the urge to shout "I love you" at the point of orgasm, if it is a particularly intense one...

That's probably preferably to what I shout during intense orgasm. I tend to go very religious like Oh God or Christ or something like that - which I believe is quite common (a lot of my civvie sex partners used to do that).

Which brings me to another question, I wonder what do people from other religions shout when they cum? Do Jews shout Jehovah? Do Muslims shout Allah? What do Druids shout? Stonehenge!? :D
 
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Interesting that you mention Oxytocin (also know as the post-coital-cuddle hormone) I sometimes wonder are WGs immune to it, meaning they can fuck 10 guys a day with no need to form an intimate connection, or are they Oxytocin addicts meaning they have to keep getting a fix?

http://io9.com/5925206/10-reasons-why-oxytocin-is-the-most-amazing-molecule-in-the-world
Haha, definitely not immune but for a real bond to take hold there has to be more substance between guy n girl. But it's probably why you can open up easier after booking
 
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I just think they've been watching too many Rom coms if a client says I love you. Or anyone really unless we are in love, clearly. Not one for mush and fakeness, makes me really uncomfortable even in civvie life if guys are too full on
 
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Haha, definitely not immune but for a real bond to take hold there has to be more substance between guy n girl. But it's probably why you can open up easier after booking
What you say about opening up and disclosure during pillow talk is so true.That is why so many countries made use of female secret agents in the past ; many a battle was won in the bedroom.
 
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