Fingering - Do You Allow It ? Like It ? Risks ?

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#1
To some an awkward topic but I think it is one worthy of sensible discussion.

Fingering , as in inserting a finger or fingers into the vagina , is something that many customers enjoy doing during their booking , me included as I find it a very intimate act.As it is such an important thing I find it very strange that Adultwork do not include it as an option on their likes list , especially when you consider some of the fringe interests that have made the list. I am embarrassed to ask an escort if she likes fingering over the phone and so I only find out during the booking.

Knowing that girls' have mixed opinions regarding it I always ask before attempting it.From my own experience most British girls are fine with it and say ' of course , you didn't have to ask ! ' whereas every EE girl I have seen has said a definite NO to it as though they think it would be in some way medically harmful.

I always make sure my nails are neatly trimmed with no sharp edges and would be happy to especially wash my hands again if asked.

Girls ; do you offer fingering as part of your service , do you enjoy it and is there any risk of harm associated with it ?

Any views punters have on the topic are equally welcome.
 
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#2
To some an awkward topic but I think it is one worthy of sensible discussion.

Fingering , as in inserting a finger or fingers into the vagina , is something that many customers enjoy doing during their booking , me included as I find it a very intimate act.As it is such an important thing I find it very strange that Adultwork do not include it as an option on their likes list , especially when you consider some of the fringe interests that have made the list. I am embarrassed to ask an escort if she likes fingering over the phone and so I only find out during the booking.

Knowing that girls' have mixed opinions regarding it I always ask before attempting it.From my own experience most British girls are fine with it and say ' of course , you didn't have to ask ! ' whereas every EE girl I have seen has said a definite NO to it as though they think it would be in some way medically harmful.

I always make sure my nails are neatly trimmed with no sharp edges and would be happy to especially wash my hands again if asked.

Girls ; do you offer fingering as part of your service , do you enjoy it and is there any risk of harm associated with it ?

Any views punters have on the topic are equally welcome.
Well it's something I do enjoy doing but like you I always ask 'are fingers ok?' first. Having read a thread about it on SAAFE I always make sure my nails are trimmed and filed and show them to the girls as well. I usually add that 'I will be gentle....unless you tell me otherwise' ;) Never had a refusal yet.
 
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#4
I do like it, but after a booking where I ended up with a tear due to untrimmed and jagged finger nails I am now weary. When I looked afterwards they were dirty as well. I was so grossed out. I went immediately and put on my profile that finger nails should be cleaned and trimmed if you intend to use them on me. I do check them now. And I have hand gel for the use of.
 
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#5
I do love using my fingers, especially during RO, and like you I always trim my nails first and keep them clean.

I do however have very fond memories of the time Mandy told me she'd been scratched by someone so could only do anal...ah well, never mind eh....

It is possible for fingering to be done with long nails as long as you're careful, as Koa32 demonstrated on MissKDD in my presence recently - in fact I think it was ass fingering on that occasion :yahoo:
 
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To some an awkward topic but I think it is one worthy of sensible discussion.

Fingering , as in inserting a finger or fingers into the vagina , is something that many customers enjoy doing during their booking , me included as I find it a very intimate act.As it is such an important thing I find it very strange that Adultwork do not include it as an option on their likes list , especially when you consider some of the fringe interests that have made the list. I am embarrassed to ask an escort if she likes fingering over the phone and so I only find out during the booking.

Knowing that girls' have mixed opinions regarding it I always ask before attempting it.From my own experience most British girls are fine with it and say ' of course , you didn't have to ask ! ' whereas every EE girl I have seen has said a definite NO to it as though they think it would be in some way medically harmful.

I always make sure my nails are neatly trimmed with no sharp edges and would be happy to especially wash my hands again if asked.

Girls ; do you offer fingering as part of your service , do you enjoy it and is there any risk of harm associated with it ?

Any views punters have on the topic are equally welcome.
IMO it should certainly be on the A/W enjoys list which should be called an offers list in my view. I like to finger if its on offer and take guidance from the WG as to how to do it with them.
 
#8
I am impeccably manicured even if I say so myself and I have been disappointed on the rare occasion where fingering has not been allowed. It hasn't happened often, but I have never returned if it has, which makes me realise fingering must be one of my essential services. :)
 
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I find alot of punters are happy to do RO but no fingers. I like fingers if it's done right nothing too aggressive and of course a discrete once over of the hands is a must.
 
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#14
I don't know I find it more easy to concentrate on ro if I'm not fingers deep

I'm not one of those pat your head rub your belly people , I can't multitask
It's not difficult coma, just having them in there is a big plus for many ladies in my experience. If you can just push upwards from inside while using your tongue from above that seems to be well received in most cases.
 
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It's not difficult coma, just having them in there is a big plus for many ladies in my experience. If you can just push upwards from inside while using your tongue from above that seems to be well received in most cases.

Oh I can do it but how will I manage my shadow puppet reverse oral show if me hands are busy
 
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I used to offer it happily until June this year when I had to have surgery to fix abrasions on my cervix caused by men's nails. I'm very careful who I offer it to now and check the skin and nails and make it clear they are not to dig too deep. My surgeon said he does this surgery mainly on women in this job due to finger nails damaging the fine tissue on the cervix so there are risks and the surgery and recovery is not pleasant
 
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#20
I'm fine with it, but your nails really do need to be short and very smoothly filed - it's so easy to nick the vaginal area and it can sting like buggery for 48h+.
 
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#23
Agree with all the above. We like to do it to give pleasure but it's obvious that without due care and attention it can result in pain and injury.

Personally I find one or two fingers caressing the G Spot along with a gentle suck on the clit is very well received and enjoyable for both parties, so it's naturally a bit of a disappointment when I'm not able to offer this. However this is clearly a personal preference which I'd never question.

Don't really see a solution to this as more and more idiots doing it badly resulting in girls reluctant to allow fingers seems to becoming the norm according to threads on SAAFE.
 
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#25
Agree with all the above. We like to do it to give pleasure but it's obvious that without due care and attention it can result in pain and injury.

Personally I find one or two fingers caressing the G Spot along with a gentle suck on the clit is very well received and enjoyable for both parties, so it's naturally a bit of a disappointment when I'm not able to offer this. However this is clearly a personal preference which I'd never question.

Don't really see a solution to this as more and more idiots doing it badly resulting in girls reluctant to allow fingers seems to becoming the norm according to threads on SAAFE.
They guys probably didn't do it right ..the art of fingering it's a dying art :D
 
#36
I do love fingering on a booking. I remember when I had my very first meet the escort I booked said she squirted on her profile. So before my booking I read this online sex guide about fingering to achive female ejactulation. In the booking I had her bent over the bed while I was doing oral and fingering, next think I knew she screamed fuck and I got sprayed full force in the face. Was fun but quite a shock lol
 
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#39
Love fingering but definitely something I like to clarify first during comms.

Also ensure nails are clean and manicured.
 
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#41
I like to stroke the inside thighs of the lady and the outside of her pussy. Sometimes blowing or gently tapping. If you are covered, it's nice to bring your manhood into play at this stage.

Then check with her if all is ok, before progressing to use my fingers. Thinking all the while, how I prefer to be handled.
Some ladies don't always welcome fingers, but most do. Especially, if they sense that you are careful how you use them.

Occasionally, a lady likes a finger or two up the bum, but this seems to happen quite naturally. I guess you can't learn this sort of stuff in text books.
 
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#42
I used to offer it happily until June this year when I had to have surgery to fix abrasions on my cervix caused by men's nails.
Bloody hell, where do they think a woman's G-spot is, at the bottom of your throat? I normally find that small spongy bit is only about a finger joint in and a little upward pressure towards where your tongue is gently rubbing the woman's clit is a fairly explosive combination, but I wouldn't get anywhere near anything internal until she is quite wet and obviously ready. First time I would also ask if it was ok to continue.
 
#43
To some an awkward topic but I think it is one worthy of sensible discussion.

Fingering , as in inserting a finger or fingers into the vagina , is something that many customers enjoy doing during their booking , me included as I find it a very intimate act.As it is such an important thing I find it very strange that Adultwork do not include it as an option on their likes list , especially when you consider some of the fringe interests that have made the list. I am embarrassed to ask an escort if she likes fingering over the phone and so I only find out during the booking.

Knowing that girls' have mixed opinions regarding it I always ask before attempting it.From my own experience most British girls are fine with it and say ' of course , you didn't have to ask ! ' whereas every EE girl I have seen has said a definite NO to it as though they think it would be in some way medically harmful.

I always make sure my nails are neatly trimmed with no sharp edges and would be happy to especially wash my hands again if asked.

Girls ; do you offer fingering as part of your service , do you enjoy it and is there any risk of harm associated with it ?

Any views punters have on the topic are equally welcome.
I don't like being fingered much prefer a cock inside me
 
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#45
I do love using my fingers, especially during RO, and like you I always trim my nails first and keep them clean.

I do however have very fond memories of the time Mandy told me she'd been scratched by someone so could only do anal...ah well, never mind eh....
In my defence it was a duo booking, so you wasn't deprived of some pussy action ;)

And from our previous solo meet you know fingers are not usually an issue for me :P
 
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#47
I love fingering girls, particularly when going down on her or in a 69. I make sure my nails are short and smooth, and that my hands are clean.

However, I do understand why some refuse it, as reading these stories here, it can be fraught with danger, what with sharp nails and that. Ouch!

There was one escort I was with, who, without warning tried to slide a finger, complete with long false nails, up my bottom. I've never tensed so hard in my life and I've thrown myself out of a plane before for giggles.

Tongue up there yes, fingers no, as hypocritical as I may come across.
 
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#48
Reminds me of some fellas who tried to stick their dry fingers up my arse regardless of having no anal play on my like list :) Just because one lovely regular mentioned it in a fr they thought I like it every day, which I don't. I've been scratched around my bum few times and the whole process of healing and how long it took its in the back of my head since then so anal play and fingrrs around my bum are off limits unless i feel up for it.
 
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Reminds me of some fellas who tried to stick their dry fingers up my arse regardless of having no anal play on my like list :) Just because one lovely regular mentioned it in a fr they thought I like it every day, which I don't.
If a girl has been kind enough to offer you something that is not on her likes list, the least you can do, in my opinion, is to not mention it in any subsequent review.
 
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