Do you do your homework on new clients?

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Chatting with a reg the other day, she told me if contact is made via AW, she'll look back through his feedback to see what sort of girls he's seen and any reports to see what he might like. If she personally knows any of the escorts visited, she may contact them to find out his likes, particularly if he isn't particularly forthcoming in what services he wants. The aim was to send him away with a smile on his face. Do any of you also do this kind of thing?

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I check feedback but I haven't ever contacted any other WG's to ask about them. I like to ask the guy himself what types of services he's interested in anyway so I can get an idea of what sort of meeting he's after (if he hasn't already specified it himself that is).
 
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Chatting with a reg the other day, she told me if contact is made via AW, she'll look back through his feedback to see what sort of girls he's seen and any reports to see what he might like. If she personally knows any of the escorts visited, she may contact them to find out his likes, particularly if he isn't particularly forthcoming in what services he wants. The aim was to send him away with a smile on his face. Do any of you also do this kind of thing?

tcm
Yes I do this, I don't contact any girls he may have seen but I look at the type of girl he likes and read any field reports that may have been written. Of course this can only be done if contact us made via AW.
 
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Yes I do this, I don't contact any girls he may have seen but I look at the type of girl he likes and read any field reports that may have been written. Of course this can only be done if contact us made via AW.
Is that also to see if he has a thing for girls that openly advertises BB?
For your own safety
 
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#6
I do it in reverse - if I know the UKP or UKE nickname of someone on AW who's seen a WG I'm interested in I might drop him a PM or I might just click through his own AW feedback to check whether he's got positive feedback from WGs I've met (better if he's seen her more than once).
 
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I'll have a nosy, but because I know that AW feedback can be misleading, I generally prefer to make up my own mind. If however he has a particular request, he looks like he's been a bit flakey, or as happened last year doesn't have say a mobile phone, I have been known to contact someone else he's seen to ask if he was fine with her.
 
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I do it in reverse - if I know the UKP or UKE nickname of someone on AW who's seen a WG I'm interested in I might drop him a PM or I might just click through his own AW feedback to check whether he's got positive feedback from WGs I've met (better if he's seen her more than once).
Yeah, there's a group of us in the NW who know each others names on AW/UKP so we can swap ideas and thoughts. It's saved me a number of times from wasting my money and helped me get bookings with girls who are only part-time. The UKP NW Podging team - you know who you are boys!

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I know this happens as I have had at least one WG admit to me that she'd asked around. Absolutely fair enough IMO.
Whereas I wish to punt as anonymously as possible but still post about the punt so when I book a WG all she will know about me is my number and after she has met me my description, if I then do post about punting with her she may recall who I was.
 
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I don't really look at AW feedback unless they have more than one negative from different ladies. Most people won't leave a negative for fear of getting one in return so unless I know the females leaving the feedback I don't trust it. When we had the notes system I used to see a female leave positive feedback then leave notes saying he was aggressive or ripped the condon etc so now I take feedback with a pinch of salt. I used to actively seek to avoid those who did BB until one guy who had booked emailed me from his 'other' AW alias that wasn't linked about the booking by mistake as this was one he used solely for BB so I realised I can't avoid it that way either so now I take each person as they come and on how they approach me
 
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I check the feedback for any negatives, and field reports to get an idea of what they are into/what not to do. I also read through the client's profile, as sometimes there is plenty of information on there, including the 'interview' and their likes. Some even have pictures! :)
 
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From the majority of answers so far does that mean that you are only willing to take official bookings through AW , would you not accept a booking by direct phone contact which bypasses AW membership and the ability to check feedback ?
 
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I read feedback but that's pretty much it. It's why I insist on AW bookings. Its especially good if they have feedback from other escorts I know.
 
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From the majority of answers so far does that mean that you are only willing to take official bookings through AW , would you not accept a booking by direct phone contact which bypasses AW membership and the ability to check feedback ?
I still take bookings via phone, but then I have to quickly judge whether or not to see that person, based solely on how they come across during the conversation. With experience, you can pretty much tell straight away if you will 'click' with that person or not.
 
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I still take bookings via phone, but then I have to quickly judge whether or not to see that person, based solely on how they come across during the conversation. With experience, you can pretty much tell straight away if you will 'click' with that person or not.
Like your signature. Got a real craving for that over the last few days.

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I check the feedback for any negatives, and field reports to get an idea of what they are into/what not to do. I also read through the client's profile, as sometimes there is plenty of information on there, including the 'interview' and their likes. Some even have pictures! :)
Plus points for reading the profile. In my experience not so many do.

I know - us punters can be just as bad, though I'm a good boy and read every word :cool:
 
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I still take bookings via phone, but then I have to quickly judge whether or not to see that person, based solely on how they come across during the conversation. With experience, you can pretty much tell straight away if you will 'click' with that person or not.
I make most bookings by phone and have never been asked any screening type of questions ; many of the conversations have been very brief - time and duration of booking , postcode and then told to call when there for the house /apartment number.I thoroughly read escort's profiles and check UKP for any info before making contact so the brevity of this is OK for me; I already know what I need to, but it gives the girl's minimal information on who they will be seeing.

I would assume that the phone booking method is best for girls who do not have a pre-planned schedule and are happy with limited notice / last minute bookings , and for punters with the same MO.
 
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I never really ask any questions, except what day/time the booking is for, and any requirements/requests the client might have. I wouldn't dream of asking anything personal, sometimes they don't even tell me their name, and that's ok. As long as they come across as pleasant, polite and not completely crazy :cool:
 
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I make most bookings by phone and have never been asked any screening type of questions ; many of the conversations have been very brief - time and duration of booking , postcode and then told to call when there for the house /apartment number.I thoroughly read escort's profiles and check UKP for any info before making contact so the brevity of this is OK for me; I already know what I need to, but it gives the girl's minimal information on who they will be seeing.

I would assume that the phone booking method is best for girls who do not have a pre-planned schedule and are happy with limited notice / last minute bookings , and for punters with the same MO.
Just talking to you is the screening :P we get very good at determining what a person is like by how they speak to you.
 
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Oh I admit I takes a sneaky peek, mainly as want to make sure no negatives and if so, are they well justified or just vindictive. Because you guys sometimes like to try different things, with different girls, I prefer to ask in email conversation what you want than rely on feedback alone.
 
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you guys sometimes like to try different things, with different girls, I prefer to ask in email conversation what you want than rely on feedback alone.
Good plan. I tend to read (yes - read!) the profiles I'm considering to see who is most compatible with myself and with and my current desires.
 
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Plus points for reading the profile. In my experience not so many do.

I know - us punters can be just as bad, though I'm a good boy and read every word :cool:
Yes I go over the interview to see what favourite things are and to see whether they're similar to mine.

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Just talking to you is the screening :P we get very good at determining what a person is like by how they speak to you.
That's reassuring , and thinking about it I also often get a lot of additional insight from the girl's phone manner.Hopefully they deduce from me that I am a decent enough client who will not cause any trouble , and at the same time that the chance of me giving them an orgasm are somewhere between slim and none ( OK I admit ; just none ) !

Another question for the ladies ; do any of you believe the Adultwork client feedbacks that go on about what great lovers they are ? A bit silly , but when I read the feedbacks left by a girl I am interested in seeing and they are mostly along these lines it does disconcert me ; even though I suspect it is usually just written as a part of the service.
 
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It's not important what is written, but although many don't leave negatives, they also wouldn't leave feedback if they had a bad time. So a client with numerous feedback is most likely not dangerous.
 
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I don't tend to view AW feedback unless it is negative, but I always ask them for what they want from the booking so I can tailor the experience to them. I like to know what to wear, what their favourite thing to do with me is, what kind of style of booking they are after etc before I see them, then always read through conversation history before a meeting so I know "schoolgirl outfit, PSE, lots of hardcore anal, pigtails in the hair, no knickers" or "short client requests flat shoes, classy dress, lots of deep French kissing, wants me to take the lead" etc etc etc :) I find if you ask, even if they don't know what they want, they appreciate being given the option of a bespoke experience and hopefully makes them come back!
 
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Do you actually read the negatives or just avoid a client that has one ?
I have a negative which if the comment is read is an obvious mistake by the escort
 
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Do you actually read the negatives or just avoid a client that has one ?
I have a negative which if the comment is read is an obvious mistake by the escort
I read them. And I have seen clients who have them as sometimes there is a good reason. But if there are not many positives alongside a neg or 2 or 3 of them I won't see the person.
 
#42
It's not important what is written, but although many don't leave negatives, they also wouldn't leave feedback if they had a bad time. So a client with numerous feedback is most likely not dangerous.
I know of several AW members who have oodles of positives, yet many Escorts wouldn't see them again. The positives are either to keep the peace, gain positive themselves, or because the guy was fine with them for that one booking before going on to really mess around on future bookings.

I also know of punters who were honest, trying to warn iothers only to receive a negative in retaliation. For these reasons I make up my own mind.
 
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I know of several AW members who have oodles of positives, yet many Escorts wouldn't see them again. The positives are either to keep the peace, gain positive themselves, or because the guy was fine with them for that one booking before going on to really mess around on future bookings.

I also know of punters who were honest, trying to warn iothers only to receive a negative in retaliation. For these reasons I make up my own mind.
I make up my own mind based on what I see and how they communicate with me. Feedback is a part of that to me and it hasn't steered me wrong in over 2 years. Doesn't mean it's all I base my decision on :)
 
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I don't tend to view AW feedback unless it is negative, but I always ask them for what they want from the booking so I can tailor the experience to them. I like to know what to wear, what their favourite thing to do with me is, what kind of style of booking they are after etc before I see them, then always read through conversation history before a meeting so I know "schoolgirl outfit, PSE, lots of hardcore anal, pigtails in the hair, no knickers" or "short client requests flat shoes, classy dress, lots of deep French kissing, wants me to take the lead" etc etc etc :) I find if you ask, even if they don't know what they want, they appreciate being given the option of a bespoke experience and hopefully makes them come back!
"Short client requests flat shoes"
Sorry, that really made me laugh! :D:D

I'm the very opposite, my feet hang well over the end of the bed. I've had a couple of massages where the girl couldn't get round the end of the table!!

In future I'm going to ask for 8 inch "fuck me" heels!!
 
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I had two escorts respond to RB'S of mine having noted that I'd seen another escort they knew. It was pretty clear I got a better RB response because they'd checked me out. Makes very good sense especially when there appear to be some genuinely dangerous low life's out there.
 
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I don't tend to view AW feedback unless it is negative, but I always ask them for what they want from the booking so I can tailor the experience to them. I like to know what to wear, what their favourite thing to do with me is, what kind of style of booking they are after etc before I see them, then always read through conversation history before a meeting so I know "schoolgirl outfit, PSE, lots of hardcore anal, pigtails in the hair, no knickers" or "short client requests flat shoes, classy dress, lots of deep French kissing, wants me to take the lead" etc etc etc :) I find if you ask, even if they don't know what they want, they appreciate being given the option of a bespoke experience and hopefully makes them come back!
I regularly ask girls to do this when making a booking or even face to face when in the room. So far not one of them has done so. I'm not talking dom,
I don't know why, but its just never happened
 
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#47
I like my feedback: I think I've done fairly well. Sometimes I'll see someone and they comment on it. I like to try especially hard, then, to make sure there's a reason for another positive :)
 
#48
I don't tend to view AW feedback unless it is negative, but I always ask them for what they want from the booking so I can tailor the experience to them. I like to know what to wear, what their favourite thing to do with me is, what kind of style of booking they are after etc before I see them, then always read through conversation history before a meeting so I know "schoolgirl outfit, PSE, lots of hardcore anal, pigtails in the hair, no knickers" or "short client requests flat shoes, classy dress, lots of deep French kissing, wants me to take the lead" etc etc etc :) I find if you ask, even if they don't know what they want, they appreciate being given the option of a bespoke experience and hopefully makes them come back!
It's basic commonsense in any business to find out what your customers want and how they have dealt with other suppliers. It saves time, tells both of you what to expect and is far more likely to lead to a better experience for both parties
 
#49
I make up my own mind based on what I see and how they communicate with me. Feedback is a part of that to me and it hasn't steered me wrong in over 2 years. Doesn't mean it's all I base my decision on :)
And that's great. Two years in I'd not started to see some of the real games people play, it's all a learning curve!
 
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And that's great. Two years in I'd not started to see some of the real games people play, it's all a learning curve!
Lol 2 years on adultwork. I've been in the industry for 8. I did have a feeling you were going to say something about me being new... I'm not.

(By in the industry I do mean full blown sex work btw :) )
 
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