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Curious to know which fellow ladies offer something similar to a bogof, occasional freebie or whatever applies ?
Of course not straight from the 'off' but after a period of seeing a client regularly.... do you, would you do it ?

Personally I do as I love the initial element of surprise when I state out of the blue no charge.... and only with clients who have never pushed their luck prior such as those we all often get who ask for a discount / freebie from the first contact. Even after they do not assume it will always be a freebie, so basically only with clients who I know would never take the P but like the surprise.

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Curious to know which fellow ladies offer something similar to a bogof, occasional freebie or whatever applies ?
Of course not straight from the 'off' but after a period of seeing a client regularly.... do you, would you do it ?

Personally I do as I love the initial element of surprise when I state out of the blue no charge.... and only with clients who have never pushed their luck prior such as those we all often get who ask for a discount / freebie from the first contact. Even after they do not assume it will always be a freebie, so basically only with clients who I know would never take the P but like the surprise.

Lou
I have been punting for decades and freebies are as rare as rocking horse shit in my experience not that I expect a freebie. More common are WGs who offer extra time over and above the time I booked, again not something I expect, its always been offered.
 
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I have been punting for decades and freebies are as rare as rocking horse shit in my experience not that I expect a freebie. More common are WGs who offer extra time over and above the time I booked, again not something I expect, its always been offered.
One freebie but plenty of over-runs, mainly just chatting. I tend to make sure I've completed my business in the time I've paid for - if a girl wants to chat on, and some do, that's fine as I enjoy a bit of a natter. One girl I see on a not too regular basis always wants an update on my punting as I started with her, so I allow a bit of extra time in my schedule for a catch-up. She likes ALL the gory detail....

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Not something I would so as you never know who is going to come back or just feel like they had their cake for free. Extra time i've no problem with I would feel more comfortable with that.
 
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Curious to know which fellow ladies offer something similar to a bogof, occasional freebie or whatever applies ?
Of course not straight from the 'off' but after a period of seeing a client regularly.... do you, would you do it ?

Personally I do as I love the initial element of surprise when I state out of the blue no charge.... and only with clients who have never pushed their luck prior such as those we all often get who ask for a discount / freebie from the first contact. Even after they do not assume it will always be a freebie, so basically only with clients who I know would never take the P but like the surprise.

Lou
I have ,I've met a good few guys that have been amazing and we have got on that much they come to free swingers parties and helped out with fantasies all free and no charge if it's in a swinging scenario MMF ,MMFF , Group that sort of thing :)X
 
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I choose carefully who don't take liberties, these have been with clients I have gotten to know .... and when they book at another time never presume its another freebie... I have to keep to a strict ish timescale as I rent a room by the hour for incalls. However for outcalls I don't clock watch as many will know.
 
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Nah couldn't accept if offered, if I pay asking it's a level playing field
I get the concept of that as I'm happy to pay for whatever I take in life. My freebie was a request to help her out - she thought I'd be happy to help. I was. Very happy indeed....and slightly surprised when the email dropped in my inbox! I hope nobody was looking at me when I read it - my face must have been a picture. Then I cleaned the coffee off my keyboard.

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I have given a few freebies but normally as an apology for having to cancel at short notice as I've gone into hospital. Otherwise I'll just give extra time. I don't mention it to the client I just give it. The first time I mentioned it he tried to pay extra so now I keep quiet. I will also sometimes knock an extra £20 off my discount rate as a Thankyou for keep coming back. Again I don't tell them I just say you have given me too much. It's only when they get home they realise and text to say I was wrong and I then say no it's a Thankyou. I wouldn't give free bookings just for the sake of it as I am limited on how much I can work so it wouldn't be viable for me to do so
 
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Nah couldn't accept if offered, if I pay asking it's a level playing field
Totally with Com on this. Don't want any freebies. Just want an honest time with girl who does her likes list and makes me feel like a king.
Dont want to arrive early or stay late, don't want the shower as an extra. Just make damn sure that when the door closes there is a huge smile on my face. Simples.:hi:
 
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I have long since learned never to believe any promise made by a WG, whether in respect of freebies for birthdays or freebies for helping them out of trouble, or sorting out an awkward problem for them; invariably either some paltry excuse was made for cancelling them at the last moment or I was told that it was at the WGs. "Professional discretion" to honour it; in other words, whatever promises have been made, and for whatever reason, if no cash is changing hands then it`s ok for her to `welsh` on the deal.

So I expect precisely what I pay for, and nothing more.
 
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E="archimedes, post: 11069, member: 128"]I have long since learned never to believe any promise made by a WG, whether in respect of freebies for birthdays or freebies for helping them out of trouble, or sorting out an awkward problem for them; invariably either some paltry excuse was made for cancelling them at the last moment or I was told that it was at the WGs. "Professional discretion" to honour it; in other words, whatever promises have been made, and for whatever reason, if no cash is changing hands then it`s ok for her to `welsh` on the deal.

So I expect precisely what I pay for, and nothing more.[/QUOTE]

You've got the wrong end of the stick...this isn't an advance promise... its a surprise at the time that no payment is wanted at that given time.
 
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I've had a loyalty card scheme ever since I started: five sessions and you get a sixth free, of the same duration as the majority of your bookings. So, if someone had booked 3x30m and 2x1h, they'd get a free 30m, if they'd always booked 2h they'd get a free 2h etc. It can be used independently, or to lengthen a booking. Also, while someone's accruing the 'points', they're immune to any price increases: they'd only kick in once it's been 'cashed in'.

The only other thing I've done is give a client a discount because my period unexpectedly arrived during his booking - nothing major and he was fine about it and carried on, but I was mortified!
 
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I've had a loyalty card scheme ever since I started: five sessions and you get a sixth free, of the same duration as the majority of your bookings. So, if someone had booked 3x30m and 2x1h, they'd get a free 30m, if they'd always booked 2h they'd get a free 2h etc. It can be used independently, or to lengthen a booking. Also, while someone's accruing the 'points', they're immune to any price increases: they'd only kick in once it's been 'cashed in'.

The only other thing I've done is give a client a discount because my period unexpectedly arrived during his booking - nothing major and he was fine about it and carried on, but I was mortified!
Now THIS is a brilliant idea that I'd love to see other escorts adopt.
 
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Nah couldn't accept if offered, if I pay asking it's a level playing field
I agree, an unexpected freebie would blur the provider/client boundaries and I think that I would find it a little uncomfortable, however, I haven't been in a position yet to turn one down and probably wouldn't turn one down. The loyalty card scheme seems a good business model though, and unlike a freebie, everyone knows where they stand.
 
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I did have a regular once who did this, we actually started developing feelings for each other and she stopped charging me altogether. Felt guilty as I was not looking for a committed relationship but started buying her gifts instead. Eventually I moved away with work. I have no problems paying every single time, all I want in return is a memorable experience
 
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I've had a loyalty card scheme ever since I started: five sessions and you get a sixth free, of the same duration as the majority of your bookings. So, if someone had booked 3x30m and 2x1h, they'd get a free 30m, if they'd always booked 2h they'd get a free 2h etc. It can be used independently, or to lengthen a booking. Also, while someone's accruing the 'points', they're immune to any price increases: they'd only kick in once it's been 'cashed in'.

The only other thing I've done is give a client a discount because my period unexpectedly arrived during his booking - nothing major and he was fine about it and carried on, but I was mortified!
Very good business sense, I have often joked about getting cards made up for me to stamp haha ....... things is where would you put the card? :D:wackogirl::wacko::angelgirl:
 
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No, I put out offers sometimes, fairly regularly, different things at different times etc, a few months ago it was the Nuru, this month its duo sploshing and my early birds, christmas who knows, it whatever I feel like at the time.

I started doing a loyalty thing, once you got to 5 bookings you had a permenant tenner knocked off your fee then once you got to ten you got a free half hour but no one seemed interested, some of my regulars said no, they were quite happy with me fee etc, some others said no dont do it its making you look like costa lol..it just seemed not that interesting so I stopped before it got going and went back to random offers.
 
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That's what I was trying to put across..... it's is only for those who are trusted, have never taken liberties or expected a freebie and certainly have never displayed any boundary issues.

I'm going to compare this to real life here

Have you ever had a colleague, friend , partner or family member that has crossed at least one of the above boundaries ?

Now they have a stake in your life and expectations are higher, punters dont

Back to punting

An assumed sense of security from a person's prior behaviour is reassuring in the sense that you know the current business relationship can exist harmoniously, problems occur if the dynamic is changed

Like giving away a freebie , because it pertains to your personal feelings to the individual (which you have acknowledged as they would have to be trusted )

You just heighten the potential for that person to change, take the piss or seem entitled


If you do a broad scale thing like a general special offer on your profile that works fine as its applicable to all

Once you single out individuals for freebies it could either wreck the business relationship you had or they go Cray and boundary push
Especially as they are reminded every time they see another review of you by a punter that they are held on a different level by you and in turn their imagination runs wild
Example "she must like me more, maybe something is there between us?"

Business = keep it simple
 
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I'm going to compare this to real life here

Have you ever had a colleague, friend , partner or family member that has crossed at least one of the above boundaries ?

Now they have a stake in your life and expectations are higher, punters dont

Back to punting

An assumed sense of security from a person's prior behaviour is reassuring in the sense that you know the current business relationship can exist harmoniously, problems occur if the dynamic is changed

Like giving away a freebie , because it pertains to your personal feelings to the individual (which you have acknowledged as they would have to be trusted )

You just heighten the potential for that person to change, take the piss or seem entitled


If you do a broad scale thing like a general special offer on your profile that works fine as its applicable to all

Once you single out individuals for freebies it could either wreck the business relationship you had or they go Cray and boundary push
Especially as they are reminded every time they see another review of you by a punter that they are held on a different level by you and in turn their imagination runs wild
Example "she must like me more, maybe something is there between us?"

Business = keep it simple
I have never had that problem at all due to the individuals I see, they are mature enough and see it for what it is, a bonus for being a good customer. No different to being rewarded as you would elsewhere. None have never expected anything ongoing, hence the fact I am indeed careful and as sure as I can indeed be of those who would take it for than it was intended for. NONE have any delusions that it still isn't business.
 
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I have never had that problem at all due to the individuals I see, they are mature enough and see it for what it is, a bonus for being a good customer. No different to being rewarded as you would elsewhere. None have never expected anything ongoing, hence the fact I am indeed careful and as sure as I can indeed be of those who would take it for than it was intended for. NONE have any delusions that it still isn't business.
It is different, it's more personal there is no criteria as such, it's selective

A retail outlet for example a bonus would be applicable to all providing you met the openly advertised criteria

Now if you had a newsagent that run a tab because people shop there for years , most generally end up taking the piss

Call me cynical but I just don't trust people in general that much which is why I couldn't entertain the idea even as a recipient as I wouldn't want the dynamic to change
 
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It is different, it's more personal there is no criteria as such, it's selective

A retail outlet for example a bonus would be applicable to all providing you met the openly advertised criteria

Now if you had a newsagent that run a tab because people shop there for years , most generally end up taking the piss

Call me cynical but I just don't trust people in general that much which is why I couldn't entertain the idea even as a recipient as I wouldn't want the dynamic to change
You have every right to be cynical, evidently more so due to your trust issues. However it's something I enjoy doing and will continue to do.... again after only careful choice. Obviously it isn't something you are comfortable with, and that's fine. Agree to differ :P Now please send a suitable cat pic as they do make me laugh :lol: along with your posts. Always entertaining.
 
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Very good business sense, I have often joked about getting cards made up for me to stamp haha ....... things is where would you put the card? :D:wackogirl::wacko::angelgirl:
Do you mean every ( insert a number ) gets one free, sort of a la "Costa Coffee" ?
What are you going to stamp your loyalty cards with ? ( my dirty mind has gone into overdrive pondering on this question :wacko: )
 
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You have every right to be cynical, evidently more so due to your trust issues. However it's something I enjoy doing and will continue to do.... again after only careful choice. Obviously it isn't something you are comfortable with, and that's fine. Agree to differ :P Now please send a suitable cat pic as they do make me laugh :lol: along with your posts. Always entertaining.
 
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Do you mean every ( insert a number ) gets one free, sort of a la "Costa Coffee" ?
What are you going to stamp your loyalty cards with ? ( my dirty mind has gone into overdrive pondering on this question :wacko: )
:P:D It's something I have pondered, but at present its just a random 'act' as and when as stated prior with clients who I know see the humour and fun in it and certainly don't overthink it. It evidently works for Chilternline, so good for her.
 
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I'm going to compare this to real life here

Have you ever had a colleague, friend , partner or family member that has crossed at least one of the above boundaries ?

Now they have a stake in your life and expectations are higher, punters dont

Back to punting

An assumed sense of security from a person's prior behaviour is reassuring in the sense that you know the current business relationship can exist harmoniously, problems occur if the dynamic is changed

Like giving away a freebie , because it pertains to your personal feelings to the individual (which you have acknowledged as they would have to be trusted )

You just heighten the potential for that person to change, take the piss or seem entitled


If you do a broad scale thing like a general special offer on your profile that works fine as its applicable to all

Once you single out individuals for freebies it could either wreck the business relationship you had or they go Cray and boundary push
Especially as they are reminded every time they see another review of you by a punter that they are held on a different level by you and in turn their imagination runs wild
Example "she must like me more, maybe something is there between us?"

Business = keep it simple
I'm not necessarily agreeing with you but I can certainly see the logic to your post
 
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Curious to know which fellow ladies offer something similar to a bogof, occasional freebie or whatever applies ?
Of course not straight from the 'off' but after a period of seeing a client regularly.... do you, would you do it ?

Personally I do as I love the initial element of surprise when I state out of the blue no charge.... and only with clients who have never pushed their luck prior such as those we all often get who ask for a discount / freebie from the first contact. Even after they do not assume it will always be a freebie, so basically only with clients who I know would never take the P but like the surprise.

Lou

Nice post and clever advertising. I'm guessing your inbox is full now with punters wishing to become your regulars ;)

Personally I had a freebie from a prossie (harlot/whore/prostitute/escort/courtesan/whatever your favourite adjective) ages ago when I was a teenager and was just starting punting. Highly unlikely nowadays as I don't have regulars.

But it makes perfect business sense for prossies/escorts/etc. to offer incentives to their regulars. Every business should cultivate customer loyalty.
 
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Nice post and clever advertising. I'm guessing your inbox is full now with punters wishing to become your regulars ;)

Personally I had a freebie from a prossie (harlot/whore/prostitute/escort/courtesan/whatever your favourite adjective) ages ago when I was a teenager and was just starting punting. Highly unlikely nowadays as I don't have regulars.

But it makes perfect business sense for prossies/escorts/etc. to offer incentives to their regulars. Every business should cultivate customer loyalty.
To be honest I couldn't really call it an incentive to promote on my part given that I am only a part time prossie and enjoy my shenanigans for the sport of it amongst of course the additional benefits. I just like to surprise people, and to show appreciation for never having been a tw*t ..... :kissgirl:
 
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To be honest I couldn't really call it an incentive to promote on my part given that I am only a part time prossie and enjoy my shenanigans for the sport of it amongst of course the additional benefits. I just like to surprise people, and to show appreciation for never having been a tw*t ..... :kissgirl:
Same I have another job as well I do this 3 times a week seeing 3 people a week it's all I can manage and it keeps to fun :)
 
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I had a regular that only charged me an hours rate regardless of how long we spent together - including overnight

Sadly missed - great woman
 
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Nice post and clever advertising. I'm guessing your inbox is full now with punters wishing to become your regulars ;)

Personally I had a freebie from a prossie (harlot/whore/prostitute/escort/courtesan/whatever your favourite adjective) ages ago when I was a teenager and was just starting punting. Highly unlikely nowadays as I don't have regulars.

But it makes perfect business sense for prossies/escorts/etc. to offer incentives to their regulars. Every business should cultivate customer loyalty.
It seems to be working on here mate, just as admin designed it to.;)
 
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To be honest I couldn't really call it an incentive to promote on my part given that I am only a part time prossie and enjoy my shenanigans for the sport of it amongst of course the additional benefits. I just like to surprise people, and to show appreciation for never having been a tw*t ..... :kissgirl:
Well it certainly caught my attention. Anyway I do like subtle advertising - works better for me (even if that's not what you intended). :thumbsup:


It seems to be working on here mate, just as admin designed it to.;)

Exactly, so ladies/escorts/prossies should make the most of it :)
 
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Do you mean every ( insert a number ) gets one free, sort of a la "Costa Coffee" ?
What are you going to stamp your loyalty cards with ? ( my dirty mind has gone into overdrive pondering on this question :wacko: )
Yep... I've got some little plain yellow business cards. First I did heart stickers, now I've got a cat stamp! Because most men are attached, they have more of a 'virtual' card (i.e. in my memory), but a couple of single ones I've given the actual completed card to so they can cash it in when they want.
 
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It seems to be working on here mate, just as admin designed it to.;)
Depends on the sway of the potential client

I enjoy the added depth of character here and the back and forth but any promo or subliminal messaging would not sway me , maybe if wg has a cat I can pet my interest might peak but generally I know who I want to book
 
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Depends on the sway of the potential client

I enjoy the added depth of character here and the back and forth but any promo or subliminal messaging would not sway me , maybe if wg has a cat I can pet my interest might peak but generally I know who I want to book
Of course it depends on that, unlike you I find much of the back and forth cringe central but that's what UKE offers so others can do so as they wish.
 
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Of course it depends on that, unlike you I find much of the back and forth cringe central but that's what UKE offers so others can do so as they wish.

Courses for horses innit any forum whether sex or sloth grooming appreciation Algeria will have the people who are there for the either the job in hand, half task half social,, all social

I've always sat in the middle like social and I'm there because whatever the subject matter it's currently part my life

The middle (half social , half task) will divide into two

1. Those that will try benefit their task/job in hand/forum subject matter (whether grooming sloths or paying for a hand job ) situation by integrating socially

It's not devious it's human nature

2. Those that want to see what the sloth grooming or hand job world has to offer but just likes being sociable with like minded people and the social aspect does not go hand in hand with their sloth/handjob agenda

I like talking and listening to people in person and online
I think I'm in the middle and number two as my attitude to whether I book someone does not change if a carrot is dangled

Dangle a cat though and we can talk
 
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