Bareback

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How many times a month do you get bareback requests and how do you react?

How do you react when in the middle of a punt, a guy asks for bareback?
 
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It'll be interesting to see how many girls terminate a punt instantly when bareback has been asked for and whether that has led to any confrontations?
 
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I don't answer .
It is on my profile that I don't do it so if they haven't read my profile before they send a message then it just tells me that are stupid .
It's usually guys with 0 feedback that I get that daft request from. :D

Never been asked in a meet if they did I would refund them and ask them too leave .
 
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I am asked perhaps once every 6 months. Sometimes clients hint at it in a subtle way. Always I say no and maintain the no. Repeatedly asking will put me on edge and does then affect the remainder of the booking, so perhaps I'd be better leaving. It's so rare these days that it's not usually something I encounter very much.

If the person tries to rebook I'd advise them upfront that I will walk out the door if they ask this again, this also goes for other services I don't offer.

On the whole I find most either don't ask for another booking, or stick to my rules.
 
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I get asked probably once or twice a week on the phone. If during a booking all services stop as I cannot trust that person as they knew from my profile I don't offer it so even asking is trying to push my boundaries and I wouldn't trust that they wouldn't suddenly whip the condom off.
 
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I get asked once or twice a month or sometimes I seem to get asked all the time. I've never been asked in a not so subtle way it's always been blatant. First time I got asked he said would you do 'bear back' and I thought me meant animal sex haha.

If I get asked in an email depending on my mood I ignore it or I read them the riot act about not reading my profile.

I actyally would hope they would at least ASK me in a booking for BB instead of trying to hide it as its happened twice and once I just burst into tears as I felt so violated and the second time I wanted to do some serious damage to him. It's crossing the line or consent in my eyes. Thankfully I noticed both times and was also in the clear.

if I got asked again in a booking that's it they're out the door x
 
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I can go weeks without being asked, and then have a run of emails all asking for it.
Always makes me think just because we say no to them some girls might oblige them with BB ,now I know we don't but who's to say they don't book us after being with them I know condoms protect us but it's a horrible thought. Sti spreaders are just nasty humans :vomit:
 
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I get asked once or twice a month or sometimes I seem to get asked all the time. I've never been asked in a not so subtle way it's always been blatant. First time I got asked he said would you do 'bear back' and I thought me meant animal sex haha.

If I get asked in an email depending on my mood I ignore it or I read them the riot act about not reading my profile.

I actyally would hope they would at least ASK me in a booking for BB instead of trying to hide it as its happened twice and once I just burst into tears as I felt so violated and the second time I wanted to do some serious damage to him. It's crossing the line or consent in my eyes. Thankfully I noticed both times and was also in the clear.

if I got asked again in a booking that's it they're out the door x
It is bad enough punters asking for it beforehand, but to actually attempt it during the meet is bang out of order!!
 
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It'll be interesting to see how many girls terminate a punt instantly when bareback has been asked for and whether that has led to any confrontations?
I was once asked for it in a booking, said no, the client tried to force me into it but I managed to wriggle away from him. I was alone in the flat and I was terrified, so I just grabbed a condom like "oops, you forgot this" and finished the booking.

As a 110lb woman, I stand no match against most of my clients and that's why I prefer to not work alone. If I'm ever asked for it again then the booking would be over immediately. It's not unreasonable, like Brooke said - attempting bareback crosses the line of consent.

But I don't mind being asked for it over text or email, just means I know who not to see!
 
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I've often wondered about this. I do know some punters ask this question to double check a WG doesn't secretly offer it. Of course the girl may think he's requesting it and why wouldn't they given it is requested by those who genuinely seek that service. I subtly ask if there are any extras when making a booking and double check if that's all to satisfy my safe guarding criteria and not put the girl off. It can be a double edged sword just asking it outright.
 
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#15
They are like buses, none for ages then you get a little run of them. I refuse and tell them Im blocking them. Sometimes they try to hide it

"do you do anal without a condom"
"no, thats and you should remember you only have one cock, you should look after it"
"oh noo, baabe I was just checking I dont want it"
"too late...im blocking you"

Thats the standard. Nope, no NOOOOO

Perhaps they are sincerely just checking that I dont offer it but its up to me to make my own safety judgement calls for my body and Id rather not take the risk. I know there is no way to know if any guy who walks through the door is barebacking with half of the town so i just have to be cautious when I can.

If someone tried to bareback me during a booking then its game over time to leave.
 
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I get asked for it all the time in bookings, hardly ever by email/text. I don't end the booking straight away but I am on edge after that.

I ALWAYS get punters trying to rub their genitals on mine uncovered though, and they are quite insistent about it usually, too. But I most certainly do not offer it, and I keep my hand in the way when they try to subtly do it.

I had a forum member try pinning my arms back and bbing me a while ago after I wouldn't let him rub it against me, that was really quite frightening.

Apart from that, I've had a few who've done it on the sly, like taking the condom off in doggy. That does get an immediate end/ban with no refund. Thankfully that hasn't happened in a long time and I was clean etc, but yes, it is violation.
 
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I get asked for it all the time in bookings, hardly ever by email/text. I don't end the booking straight away but I am on edge after that.

I ALWAYS get punters trying to rub their genitals on mine uncovered though, and they are quite insistent about it usually, too. But I most certainly do not offer it, and I keep my hand in the way when they try to subtly do it.

I had a forum member try pinning my arms back and bbing me a while ago after I wouldn't let him rub it against me, that was really quite frightening.

Apart from that, I've had a few who've done it on the sly, like taking the condom off in doggy. That does get an immediate end/ban with no refund. Thankfully that hasn't happened in a long time and I was clean etc, but yes, it is violation.
That is totally out of order total arsehole doing that to you .
 
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I ALWAYS get punters trying to rub their genitals on mine uncovered though, and they are quite insistent about it usually, too. But I most certainly do not offer it, and I keep my hand in the way when they try to subtly do it.

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To counter this, i was with a girl recently who initiated this - ie she tried to rub my bare cock on her fanny- i pulled back straight away and rubbered up.

Now if she's done this to me, she will be doing it for every punter. Bareback is not listed on her profile but i'm sure it will be available if asked (NOT by me!)

Behaviour like this encourages (some) punters to push their luck, or at worse, think its the norm.
 
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To counter this, i was with a girl recently who initiated this - ie she tried to rub my bare cock on her fanny- i pulled back straight away and rubbered up.

Now if she's done this to me, she will be doing it for every punter. Bareback is not listed on her profile but i'm sure it will be available if asked (NOT by me!)

Behaviour like this encourages (some) punters to push their luck, or at worse, think its the norm.
Yes I realise many girls do it, and I assume that if you mentioned bb to them, they'd bite your head off. It's simply down to ignorance.

The problem that I have though is when I refuse, they try and 'persuade' me. But again, it's not something that I'd ever offer.

Thankfully most of you seem to be pretty clued up on sexual health and wouldn't do these things.
 
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I don't answer .
It is on my profile that I don't do it so if they haven't read my profile before they send a message then it just tells me that are stupid .
It's usually guys with 0 feedback that I get that daft request from. :D

Never been asked in a meet if they did I would refund them and ask them too leave .
You may want to edit that as you could suddenly get a flurry of punters asking for BB 59 minutes into a 1 hour booking :D
 
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I get asked once or twice a month or sometimes I seem to get asked all the time. I've never been asked in a not so subtle way it's always been blatant. First time I got asked he said would you do 'bear back' and I thought me meant animal sex haha.

If I get asked in an email depending on my mood I ignore it or I read them the riot act about not reading my profile.

I actyally would hope they would at least ASK me in a booking for BB instead of trying to hide it as its happened twice and once I just burst into tears as I felt so violated and the second time I wanted to do some serious damage to him. It's crossing the line or consent in my eyes. Thankfully I noticed both times and was also in the clear.

if I got asked again in a booking that's it they're out the door x
That's a bad crack that like,you get some dodgy, unscrupulous people out there.
You should have kicked him in the bollocks!
 
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I was once asked for it in a booking, said no, the client tried to force me into it but I managed to wriggle away from him. I was alone in the flat and I was terrified, so I just grabbed a condom like "oops, you forgot this" and finished the booking.

As a 110lb woman, I stand no match against most of my clients and that's why I prefer to not work alone. If I'm ever asked for it again then the booking would be over immediately. It's not unreasonable, like Brooke said - attempting bareback crosses the line of consent.

But I don't mind being asked for it over text or email, just means I know who not to see!
People like him want castrated, it's bordering on rape the sick twat,he is !
 
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If someone deliberatly or accidentally tries to place their willy too near to my ladybits, not in, just too close I dont sqirm in silence. I just move myself away a bit down there and if it happens again I make a joke out of it but in a way that leaves no grey area for misunderstanding such as "oopsy your willy seems to be trying to go where he isnt allowed" then giggle or smile whilst putting my hand on their willy to give it a rub so it literally cant get to where I suspect it was about to try to get too. Guys try it on, sometimes its not intentional and the profuse apologies and look of abject horror on their faces tells me that they just got carried away in the embrace which is fair enough, no harm no foul as I always move away in time. If someone deliberatley keeps doing it though or makes a comment to show that they think its fine and other girls let them then the only option is to pop on the condom and then they can let the willy wander where they like but they DO get a playfull telling off and its logged in my phone so that if they call back for a booking I can have a friendly little conversation and get a guarantee that they wont be trying it again. OWO goes out of the window for these guys also as its clear they dont care about their own sexual health. If someone actually tried to put it in with no condom or tried to remove the condom then to me thats a deliberate malicious action towards myself as I specifically state on my website and aw that I do not do bareback so they can just leave, they nullified our verbal contract as far as Im concerned. Thankfully that has not happened in a long time
 
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Which WG is going to come on here and OPENLY admit that she provides BB? :crazy:

Also, on a well known site dedicated to BB (by the way Admin does not allow posting of their link on here), they openly suggest that punters place a RB on Adultwork,
requesting BB, and it is amazing how many WGs respond and bid, knowing full well that there is request for BB, when their own AW profile specifically says no to BB,whether in their profile or in Q&A's.

Posters then even boast about how they managed to get BB on RB's on AW.
 
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Which WG is going to come on here and OPENLY admit that she provides BB? :crazy:

Also, on a well known site dedicated to BB (by the way Admin does not allow posting of their link on here), they openly suggest that punters place a RB on Adultwork,
requesting BB, and it is amazing how many WGs respond and bid, knowing full well that there is request for BB, when their own AW profile specifically says no to BB,whether in their profile or in Q&A's.

Posters then even boast about how they managed to get BB on RB's on AW.
If you see a reverse booking with a ridiculously high number of bids 9 out of 10 times it will be a bareback request, the other one out of ten will be because he has offered a high amount per hour. BB RBs are notorious for getting the most bids and its baffling
 
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Are you talking about that disgusting breeder/seeder/infection/HIV gifting website whos link did the forum rounds a couple of years back? I did have a look, felt like throwing up within the first ten minutes. I emailed one of the girls mentioned on there to warn her that she was on an hiv gifting forum being mentioned and she didnt even bother to respond...fuck you then flitted across my mind
 
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Are you talking about that disgusting breeder/seeder/infection/HIV gifting website whos link did the forum rounds a couple of years back? I did have a look, felt like throwing up within the first ten minutes. I emailed one of the girls mentioned on there to warn her that she was on an hiv gifting forum being mentioned and she didnt even bother to respond...fuck you then flitted across my mind
Most likely she either didn't care (ie: was happy to get HIV) or already is infected. But we will never know.
 
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Are you talking about that disgusting breeder/seeder/infection/HIV gifting website whos link did the forum rounds a couple of years back? I did have a look, felt like throwing up within the first ten minutes. I emailed one of the girls mentioned on there to warn her that she was on an hiv gifting forum being mentioned and she didnt even bother to respond...fuck you then flitted across my mind

Yes, it's got to be that one, as it's the only one I know. Posters here and on UKP are not allowed to name it, nor post the link, for obvious reasons.
 
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I've asked an escort once on AW if she offered BB because, although her profile stated she didn't, I had my suspicions that she did.

Her reply was, only after she had seen me a few times!!!!!

Thank fuck I found that out and didn't make the biggest mistake of my life and book her
 
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