Anticipation

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Do you find that anticipating a punt can lead to such a heightened state that the actual punt itself seems disappointing because it wasn't all that you imagined it'd be?
 
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The only time this happened to me was one gorgeous working girl who was very mechanical. She even said that she saw herself as providing a service and not interested in putting any passion into it. That sort of deflated me and the little guy.
 
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I think the anticipation is large part of the experience. Especially with a new girl you've not seen before - will she be a gem? What will she do? Are her pics correct ? The general excitement
 
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I like to anticipate and fantasise weeks or days before the booking as this daydreaming helps me get through work and all the fair amount of travel and time away my life often involves. My head is always going back to something from the past or imagining the future.

However, when it comes to the day of the booking I have developed a mental technique to avoid thinking about the booking at all and instead I focus on other things. The main reason for this is I find time starts to move incredibly slowly close to the booking if I am thinking about it too actively.

Sometimes I end up doing something differently in a booking to what I imagined, but it's rarely a disappointment. :)
 
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Only once was I bitterly disappointed. Having looked forward to a long nuru session. Unfortunately we didn't click and it was a relatively joyless encounter
 
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Do you find that anticipating a punt can lead to such a heightened state that the actual punt itself seems disappointing because it wasn't all that you imagined it'd be?
I have the kind of personality where I do this with everything either positive or negative ; corresponding examples being Christmas and exams at school.I do like Christmas and exams were a bit of a chore , but neither remotely lived up to the emotions that proceeded them.

For me punting is the same.Being honest , a good deal of the value is in the process of searching for and selecting a booking and then the hours before the booking takes place , the allotted time getting closer and closer.Once the door opens reality hits and the spell is broken.Don't get em wrong , I do like the bookings themselves but nothing will ever match an ideal you have in your head.
 
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I am not sure how the girls feel prior to the punt, they always seem pleased when its is finished..... :P
That don't sound right does it..... :sarcastic:

Raddy
 
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I try not to anticipate too much for fear of let-down. Happened once this year - gorgeous milf, but the service was dreadful.

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I like a big build up to a meet a few flirty and dirty emails/texts telling me to prepare before it always builds up to being very horny before it and so far it has worked because I've had some of the best sex out of it but that's just me ..it's all about the effort :)
 
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I think the anticipation is large part of the experience.
Totally with ya on that one. Anticipation is a large part of the experience for me also, but to the op's question; i have had one disappointing punt but that wasn't due to my anticipation of the forth coming event.
 
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I like the pre punt anticipation and even the butterflies of anxiety of meeting someone new if I've done the research and I'm at least 51% sure it's going to be a good one.
It gets the blood pumping and adrenaline flowing and gives me the confidence and bravery to go ahead and enjoy myself.
 
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It can do,it depends upon the girl you see,I.e. is there chemistry or a connection.
There is one girl I see (TT) where the anticipation is great and I look forward to the booking from the moment it's agreed and the actual booking is always outstanding.
With new girls none of this is garanteed and can be a bit of a let down on occasion. For me finding a great regular is better than the anticipation of somebody new every time.
 
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I'm a bit odd in that I hate anticipation lol. As much as I ask for advance bookings, if I were a guy it'd always be short notice because I'd decide that minute that I want sex immediately :sarcastic:
 
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I Did get a big buzz out of seeing a new girl every time I made a booking but as time goes on and with lot's of notches under my belt with so many different girls you begin to build up a picture of what to expect and the amount of enjoyment you get which is the reason we all do this :) and I have seen
some great girl's over the years but maybe I am getting a little boring or just don't want to risk a bad punt these days so I thought to myself that if I ever find a girl that tick's all the boxes (Tori Taylor) then that's it I will just stay with her and that's what I have done its not just about great sex but getting to know someone rather than a quick visit with a stranger is the way to go for me anyway, I race motorbikes and it can be fun going to a new track but its much more enjoyable racing on a track you know well :dance:
 
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I'm a bit odd in that I hate anticipation lol. As much as I ask for advance bookings, if I were a guy it'd always be short notice because I'd decide that minute that I want sex immediately :sarcastic:
I much prefer to arrange on the day. If I'm feeling particularly horny and I've got the opportunity then I'll start looking around for a booking. I've tried booking days in advanced and on a number of occasions have found myself not really in the mood. I've still gone along as I've made the commitment but not really wanted to.
I find the really exciting part of the anticipation is the waiting in the car just before you go up. Strangely it gets very heightened if she keeps me waiting five or ten minutes later than she should. It's almost like an elastic band being stretched. Then once I get the text to come on up, whoosh I'm off.
 
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Just happened to me, had booked a girl I had wanted to see for ages. I turn up and find out her entire profile, pics, habits (smoking), size and "abilities" were not up to my expectations.

She is a nice girl and a nice person but she needs to tell the truth on her profile.

Fluffy that I am, I will not write a negative report about her because in some way, I probably created this "woman" in my mind.

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I think it can, but it depends on the lady you see. In my case my most memorable punts have been when I headed to the punt with an open mind and no preconceptions. There I am not burdened with expectations.

A great recent example for me is SexyIndependent/Elle, whom I only booked as a Plan B after an escort that I originally booked fucked me over. I went to that punt not anticipating much and only wanting a good punt. I have to say that my experience was memorable for it, and she was one of my best punts of 2015.
 
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Just happened to me, had booked a girl I had wanted to see for ages. I turn up and find out her entire profile, pics, habits (smoking), size and "abilities" were not up to my expectations.

She is a nice girl and a nice person but she needs to tell the truth on her profile.

Fluffy that I am, I will not write a negative report about her because in some way, I probably created this "woman" in my mind.

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That's just described my punt on Thursday
I had so looked forward to it that when it all started going wrong I was stunned and definitely down after the event.
 
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She is a nice girl and a nice person but she needs to tell the truth on her profile.

Fluffy that I am, I will not write a negative report about her because in some way, I probably created this "woman" in my mind.
If her profile is giving a false impression then this would be more useful to others than a fluffy positive review for another WG.
 
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I once got over-anticipated. I was really looking forward to a meet. Hard or semi-hard for almost two days prior. On the day I was in serious blue balls pain and then needed release within five mins of starting the meet, which I got through a fab BJ, but then.....that was it.......my recovery time would not allow a second go and despite all attempts to revive me and we ended up just chatting for the last half of the hour. A well liked regular though, so plenty of fab meets since to (almost) erase that memory......
 
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right now i feel sick, queasy and ill....must be nerves kicking in, hate the feeling and i have a punt with a new lass in an hour! hate nerves, hate feeling sick, hate new in calls!!!!!
 
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right now i feel sick, queasy and ill....must be nerves kicking in, hate the feeling and i have a punt with a new lass in an hour! hate nerves, hate feeling sick, hate new in calls!!!!!
NO I love all that the excitement is what it's all about.
 
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As if to illustrate the point, I had an absolutely outstanding meet yesterday and am already checking the calendar for when I can do it again. But I'm already getting really excited about my next meet on Friday; had an exchange of messages today, setting the scene, agreeing outfits etc. Got so horny at one point I was all for getting in the car and going over there and then :wacko: But to be fair to the lovely lady, I'll be in much better condition come Friday :D
 
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There's a local Asian massage place near me, and with each visit, it was getting better and better...I was hoping for sex on a visit, but didn't get it, really disappointed me. But it was all my fault. I'm the one that built it up in my mind.

I still visit, coz the service is great, I'm hoping see well be on the menu one day, but I never expect it now, so I enjoy every visit.
 
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For me the anticipation is a big part of the punt but I have never felt bad afterwards. As long as the girl has the right attitude and looks/performs as advertised then I'm satisfied. I'm not brave enough to TOFTT and only go with well reviewed (UKP) girls who show face pictures, probably costs more in the long term but on a risk vs reward basis I'm happy.
 
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For me the anticipation is about meeting a new girl for the first time. That's when I get a bit of an adrenaline rush and butterflies in the stomach. However, the downside of trying something new is the risk of a sub-standard experience.

With a regular you know what to expect and it's good but lacks the same pre punt excitement.
 
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right now i feel sick, queasy and ill....must be nerves kicking in, hate the feeling and i have a punt with a new lass in an hour! hate nerves, hate feeling sick, hate new in calls!!!!!
Just got back from my punt- nice girl with fab body but my little fella wasn't playing ball- been a while since i couldn't get it up, wasn't to do with age probably while i felt a bit ill before as normally i don't have these symptoms before a punt. Waste of £100.
 
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